Retiring the penis....mostly....

[Finn]

Hey folks! Haven't posted in ages. After some pretty annoying swelling and redness from my cb, we kind of gave the cb a break and worked on variations of voluntary chastity. So far, it's been 7 months without masturbation, and as I promised to give it up totally if I made it to 6, that's a thing of the past. As some of you may remember, I live with my wife of 21 years and my sub, "cherry"...(not her real name...unless she's taking up stripping)....Anyhow, we have had some set rules and lots of un-discussed ones with regards to what she and I can do. Recently, my wife became more open about her likes and fetishes. She loves dildo's and had a fantasy of me using a strap-on, on her. Turns out, she loves it (she gets to feel a different cock, and we don't have to meet or entertain anyone!) and we discussed her desire for me to use it on her full-time. A better harness was purchased and that's been pretty exciting, for someone with a denial fetish. We discussed the rules with regards to my sub/girl....and she asked for no penis to vaginal contact..ever....Other than that, she wanted cherry to help "empty" me...via. ruined orgasm 2X a month, but otherwise not provide any relief for me. She also wanted me to wear my cb during her period, as long as it didn't cause a repeat of the swelling/chafing issue.

The end result of all this, is that my penis is officially retired from the vagina business now. My wife likes it tucked away during sex, and likes knowing that I'm not humping my sub. This is both exciting, and scary as hell at the same time, but will be good in the end. My girl gives great oral and handwork...and is very good at obeying the house rules and letting me enjoy myself, without orgasm. Anyhow, that's where we're at nowadays. A week of being locked up each month, and frustration the rest of the time. My girl is in charge of making sure the rules are obeyed, and of the ruined orgasms. The main idea is for me to focus on Tantric and get relief from giving, and not from having. Will see how it goes!

[Anymouse]

Retiring the penis. Does it get a gold watch?

[Finn]

It should! We had a more "open" relationship before my girl came to live with us, so it did get lots of use. This is sort of a returning of the favour on the part of my wife, and I'm good with it. My girl is good with her mouth and hands, and knows how to get me close, but not too close....