Two bad choices, what would you do??

[jack]

I am sure many of the guys have been there. I was not supposed to have a chance for an orgasm for 2 more weeks and my wife wanted to make love. I am typically good at controlling myself but not this time.

She wanted me on top, her favorite position. We had been making love for 10 minutes or so and I could feel she was getting close to an orgasm. Problem was, I could feel mine building too. As much as I tried to control the feeling, her moans were pushing me too close.

When she came, so did I. I did not even have time to ask permission!

I didn't want to stop and ruin her orgasm, but I wanted to stop in order to prevent my own. It was a no win situation. So I chose to ensure her pleasure, but now I am in the dog house.

Any suggestions for the future? Any of the ladies care to comment?

[md74mob]

Hi,

Yep i know the feeling. Most of the times it is in 1 minute in my case .

Next time, just think of asking her! Don't ever cum before asking.

Grtx

[LadyBeth]

If I were you, I'd learn to not come without permission. Think of train wrecks, work, your monther-in-law, Newt Gingrich, or whatever guys do to get yourselves under control. And don't infer that our moans of pleasure are responsible for your lapse of judgment.

[locked4her55]

If I were you, I'd learn to not come without permission. Think of Newt Gingrich

Yup, That would do it for me.

[Belle]

To me it is "just one of those things". I may tease him about it for a day or two, but that is about it. I guess it is all in the dynamics of your relationship. We don't practice punitive chastity, so there is no dog house for us.

Also, he tells me if he is getting close. If I tell him to continue, then that is my knowing that it will most likely end in an orgasm for him.

[jack]

Thanks for the suggestions: Visualize Newt Gingrich, got it! Let her know I am getting close so she can decide how we proceed, OK.

Thanks, I will use both of these in the future.

[LadyBeth]

Thanks for the suggestions: Visualize Newt Gingrich, got it! Let her know I am getting close so she can decide how we proceed, OK.

Thanks, I will use both of these in the future.

I am quite certain that it has worked for all of Newt's wives as well.

Lady Beth

[Harry Haversackers]

This is one of those situations that you might want to have a little discussion about ahead of time. I've run into it as well. The ruling that came down was "Don't you dare fuck up my orgasm... If you come, too bad. It happens. We'll deal with that afterwards."

It's happened once, quite some time ago, since we talked. She had a very good orgasm, and because of that, I was forgiven for coming without permission. She just started the clock again.

[poor]

I use the phrase 'Please may I Cum?' as the marker to let Chatelaine know that the point of my being able to control whether I ejaculate or not is passing.

She is fully aware of this and what happens afterwards is entirely down to her (I always do exactly what I am told). If there are consequences then I'll accept them regardless.

[Anomaly]

This is a trick question I'm sure of it..

hmm...

You... cum inward and play it off as a knee injury.

Yes. *nod*