Welcome to the forum Jamie,Unremarkable Jamie wrote:
But my anatomy doesn't seem conducive to "trapped ball" devices.
The honor system works well enough for me. As others commented, my beloved has said "no stimulation."
But as this orgasm control has been the foundation of our play, the downside to me (breaking our dynamic) would be far far costly to me than the momentary pleasure.
Jamie
I am curious what makes your anatomy not conducive to trapped ball devices. I have heard of guys that had a testicle removed for some reason and that would make sense. Kind of need balls in order to trap them. You said the rings don't fit, not sure what that means. Too small maybe?
I am glad the system you found is working for you. I think at some level there is always an element of trust (and obedience). None of these devices would be that hard to break out of or otherwise circumvent if one really wanted to.
-A