Contracts?

[locked4her55]

How many of you out there have Contracts with your KH?

I've been locked since April 2010 and we have nothing in writing? Do you? If you do what's in it.

Curious

[hot_toddy_dog]

We all write fantasy contracts in our minds and a few of us put them on paper.

They are what they are -- fantasy.

[kpb57]

In the beginning, I tried to put things down in the form of a contract, but that did not appeal to her at all.
Then I wrote my ideas down in a piece of text I called "What we are doing", and tried to be much more romantic about it. That did the trick. Since then, most of the arrangements and suggestions have been done verbally or during chat sessions.

K

[TwistedMister]

We have had 'contracts', basically outlining the actions that she had the freedom to take*, but I don't think she ever really read them with complete understanding. This last session has gone on for so long that I'm not even sure where the last one has gotten to.

*(And as a measure of defense in the [unlikely] event that something really bad happened and some outsider became aware of our 'game' and tried to accuse her of non-consensual abuse or some such crap. Such a 'contract' is generally not considered legally binding of course, but it would be evidence that, in spite of anything appearing to be non-consensual, I had in fact consented, regardless of how it might appear to a [well-meaning?] outsider.)

[celticqueens_sub]

How many of you out there have Contracts with your KH?

I've been locked since April 2010 and we have nothing in writing? Do you? If you do what's in it.

Curious

We have a contract. It is on our blog. It is used from time to time and reviewed from time to time. It is a useful vehicle for us in terms of setting and meeting expectations for us both.

[Atone]

I like the idea of a contract but right now that just wouldn't work with were our relationship is. While I would see it as freeing my wife would see it as an obligation. She would also see it as an attempt by me to exert control. Not that that doesn't happen anyway but it would be too explicit. Right now we just negotiate our needs and desires verbally.

[usaabn]

We do not have a written contract....

[Chuck]

KH and I do have a written agreement. It came about as bit of fun reminder as to what we already agreed upon verbally. It's not so much binding as it is a fun bit of role-play. Sort of just writing down the rules to the way we were already playing. Here it is in full. I think the first line is the most important. CC stands for caged cock, and we all know what KH stands for.

CHASTITY RULES:

• Have fun. Either KH or CC may pause or end the game if it no longer becomes fun.
• If game is paused or ended, there will be a 24 hour cooling off period and then talking will begin to find solutions to any problems or issues. If a solution is found game may continue with no loss of chastity.
• KH has absolute control of CC's orgasms.
• CC will wear a male chastity device at all times.
• KH locks and unlocks MCD at her discretion.
• CC is not allowed access to the key to MCD.
• CC is not allowed to remove MCD without permission and supervision of KH.
• CC is not allowed to touch penis for personal pleasure without KH permission.
• No masturbation by CC without permission.
• No self stimulation by CC even during sexual encounters with KH without permission.
• Contact with penis by CC for cleaning is allowed.
• KH may at her discretion remove MCD for cleaning once a week.
• CC and KH are both allowed to initiate sexual contact.
• During sexual contact CC is to inform KH of impending orgasm if KH gets him close to cumming.
• CC will use a countdown system to let KH know how close he is to orgasm.

This is an agreement between KH and CC concerning their involvement in male chastity. KH may add to or subtract from the rules at her discretion. CC has the right to negotiate rule changes. KH has veto power over CC with regard to the negotiation.

[Tom Allen]

How many of you out there have Contracts with your KH?

Mrs. Edge thinks that anything - contracts, dice games, schedules, etc. - remove her control. When she wants me out, she doesn't want to have to be reminded about some contract. When she wants me to stay locked, she doesn't want to be hampered by rules or randomness.

For her, the control is what makes it hot. For me, it's her control that makes it hot.

tl;dr: No.

[chaste]

Nope. Tried it before but, it really ended up being just fantasy and not followed at all - mostly because it's not enforceable. Although I would love to legally have to obey my wife, that isn't going to happen and it's probably a good idea that horny men can't sign away their basic rights

For us, the control comes from the chastity itself and not non-enforceable terms written on a piece of paper.

Still like the idea though