Belle wrote:Mine is on my keyring. He has the other taped on his for emergencies. It is not a big deal to me that it is right there in plain site. I don't worry about him trying to sneak and use it, that isn't how we play. If he seriously wants out that bad that he would lie about it, then the game is over anyways.
That is basically the concept that my wife and I had.
She kept the key just "where ever". Sometimes I would know where it was, other times I didn't. A couple of times she forgot where she kept it!
If you really wanted to cheat, you can. Those tiny locks are not hard to pick. I had one on a suitcase once and misplaced the key. I borrowed a pair of pliers and was able to pry the lock open. Guess what? It still worked afterwards! The hasp flexed enough to slip it off and didn't hurt it any.
For me, the chastity device is a deterant. It improves my will power to resist masturbating.
Now, I do admit that there is a bit of fantasy role play wrapped up in all this and it does help the game if I really don't have access to the key.
Ron