My experiments and use of cages has been on and off from year 2003.
I have tried many different styles, all plastic. -I work in a factory that has security gates for detecting steel.
Years went fast but nothing major lockdowns until with my second wife. We started locking on me as a fun play, but it evolved to longer times in cage about 3 years a go.
I have had it on maximum of nearly three months, which was not so bad. I enjoyed it.
We do a lot of renovating in and out of our house, one got ready and we sold it and now second one is under renovation so it´s easy to be caged.
I like the "Cellmate guardian" cage, plastic, but very robust. Now in it after latest release for two weeks.
But most important thing to us, me wearing a cage is that after orgasm I will be lazy and selfish for a few days.
I don´t just sit on the couch but I lose my drive to do things and I don´t take care of my wife as I should after orgasm.
So we both see all benefits of me in a cage. For long times.
I can´t know how long this time, but I see it that it´s not getting unlocked for a while...
We just started to renovate our little traditional Finnish sauna house located about 25 meters from main house, so I guess this renovation can be almost ready before I have a chance to get out. But I´m fine with that, even I know that this is not just a fast makeover. -It´s a major renovation.
Last night we were in that sauna, maybe for last time before we can´t use anymore becouse all things will be under renovation.
-But we had a fun moments about my cage time related to this sauna getting ready faster in hope to get out.
And last night was really first night when I was really proud and happy to be in cage for our goals to happen faster.
-It was a strange feeling, but at the same time so motivating.
I don´t know how often I will write to here, as it´s me "only" in a cage for long time, but good feelings would be good to share?
[FinlandLocked] I guess this is "journey"...
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I forgot to mention that I like to play guitar. I have 2 acoustic steel sting guitars and a Finnish luthier made 1957 Stratocaster copy. I also have my own build Fender 5E3 Tweed DeLuxe (original from 1955) amplifier copy.
But the thing with these is the same as renovating and being polite and nice to my wife and other people...
-When I´m caged, I play better, I´m more focused on playing guitar.
So this chastity is multidimensional benefit for my life (and others) in all.
I don´t know would I be proud of myself without wearing a cage, witch I must confess, I seem to like... I really like to be aroused and not able to do anything to it. It gives me mental and fysical benefits I did not expect before longer cage times.
But the thing with these is the same as renovating and being polite and nice to my wife and other people...
-When I´m caged, I play better, I´m more focused on playing guitar.
So this chastity is multidimensional benefit for my life (and others) in all.
I don´t know would I be proud of myself without wearing a cage, witch I must confess, I seem to like... I really like to be aroused and not able to do anything to it. It gives me mental and fysical benefits I did not expect before longer cage times.
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A fellow guitar player here 
I’m looking forward to following your journey!

I’m looking forward to following your journey!
I’m locked and kept by Redraven, my life partner, soulmate and loving key holder. When life is hard, she’s keeps me feeling loved.
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All feelings are good to share. Definitely.FinlandLocked wrote: ↑Sat Jul 19, 2025 12:02 am I don´t know how often I will write to here, as it´s me "only" in a cage for long time, but good feelings would be good to share?
Enjoyed reading your journal.
Looking forward to more!
Everything's better with a locked male. Better still with a nude, locked male.
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I too look forward to following your journey. It doesn’t always have to be about the cage. I started to try to play guitar as a kid. I was quickly bored and lost interest. I had to take a keyboarding music class in college, I passed and was satisfied. I still struggle to play a radio, lol. I admire anyone who plays musical instruments.
On the flip side your renovations excite me. My wife and I have spent our entire marriage doing renovations. I look forward to hearing about the unexpected issues you discover and how you resolve them, that will be music to my ears.
On the flip side your renovations excite me. My wife and I have spent our entire marriage doing renovations. I look forward to hearing about the unexpected issues you discover and how you resolve them, that will be music to my ears.
She says ‘it’s cute’ in the nub. 
