[Want2B_Locked] - A Very British Journey

[Want2B_Locked]

Well the new Cage arrived.
Cobra Cage V2 3D Nylon Resin Male Chastity Device Nub

First impression was OMG it is VERY lightweight.

I had to try a few times to get the lock in place but managed it

I selected the ring the most suited and that matched my current metal one.

The Ring fit easily. This is the first ring noticed after putting on the ring is the curve of it. I've never used a curved ring before and it seems comfortable.

I compared the Cobra cage part to my metal one and it is smaller.

It took five attempts to get the cage and the ring together enough to get the lock to go in ok. A couple of time the skin got caught but nothing too bad.

One problem with the metal cage is that the juts out a little and can scratch the pubic area. I never got a chance to file the sharp edges.

Once the Cobra is on it is very comfortable and I don't realise it is on. The metal one I notice straight away but it fades after a few hours. The Cobra - it's like it is invisible.

Not encountered an erection as yet (damn you ED) so I will have to see how that goes. Maybe time for few of Tom's captioned images and a delve on to the video sites.

I'll be taking it off to allow a little respite. Not too much too soon.
We're away this weekend so that will allow time to adjust.

Now been wearing about about 20 minutes and having a little issue behind the scrotum so some Vaseline needs to be deployed (now done and waiting for the issue to die down a little).

All in all it's a nice cage.

[KnownAsHerbert]

Once the Cobra is on it is very comfortable and I don't realise it is on.
The Cobra - it's like it is invisible.

Welcome to the "Deep vacuum of outer space".
Enjoy the Nub.

[Want2B_Locked]

So far I like it.

As I say I'll start a little bit at a time.

Next week I'll be trying it more often and for longer.

I'm also going to try (next week) using the cage with all foreskin pushed back so only the gland is in the cage. Lube required to do this.

[Tongue+groove]

. All in all it's a nice cage.

Nice cage is one way to put it. Just a few words of caution.

1. Baby oil helps with the plastic rubbing.

2. With the plastic you will forget what it was like to own a penis because you will forget you even have one.

3. If your kh ever refers to it as cute then your future is sealed.

4. Once you accept being in the void, you will always want to return home to the void, when your not nubbed. It gives meaning to the hotel California lyrics.

Welcome to the nub club. When herbi told me those words so many months ago I had no idea what I was in for.

[Want2B_Locked]

Afternoon all,

Interesting 24 hours.

So yesterday I started with the new Cobra Cage.
I last 18 hours 45 Mins.
The reason I had to remove it was some rather bad discomfort under the Scrotum.

I'm back home and relocked.
a generous amount of Vaseline in the area and all feels comfortable at the moment.

Over night it felt fine sleeping in but I awoke at 03:45 with a raging erection which went off after a trip to the toilet.

Lets see how the next 24 hours go.

[Want2B_Locked]

Morning from the UK,

Hope everyone is well.

Well let's recap the locked times since my last post.
1 days, 9 hours - Removed due to pain under scrotum.
16 hours, 30 minutes - locked a few days later then removed as used larger ring and getting a ball trapped somehow while at work.
1 days, 11 hours - Removed due to pain under scrotum.
2 days, 18 hours - Removed again to due to pain under scrotum.

Lock up started 05/02/2025 and still going today.
This time I seem to gave hit the right ring, the right amount of vaseline. So far!

LadyS and I have had a few disagreements over the past few weeks but last two days it's been settled.

While I was on an Unlocked few days she suggested a bit of PIV. which was good. When I suggested a few days later I got rebuked and it became a bit of tension between us for days.

I think we need to sit down somewhere neutral and discuss things. Maybe I can even introduce her to be my KH. She's terrible about talking about sex.

Thoughts please

[Tongue+groove]

She's terrible about talking about sex.

Tough one to comment on. Mrs. G and I live by the motto that “the lack of communication Is the source of all problems “. We committed to this before we married as a part of our marriage commitment.

My initial thoughts are:

Don’t make the neutral location a public one. Go for a walk or a picnic in the park.

Don’t talk about a sex plan. Talk about the growth of your relationship.

Don’t force the conversation topic. Do go off topic occasionally when you see her withdraw.

Don’t expect to get what you want with one conversation. Plan to spend this kind of dedicated time with her multiple times.

Most of all don’t make it about you. Make it about her, be honest but not negative, only bring up the positives without the b.s. she will see through that. Oh, and don’t mention chastity specifically unless she does.

Just a few thoughts of mine. No relationship counselor here, just been working with her for 40 years.

It is interesting that relationships need continuous stirring and attention like a pot on the stove. When left unattended the product gets ruined.

Sorry to babble.

[denied_one]

Yooo this is hot!
I'm gonna check your stuff out

[ARK]

T&G has some really good advice.

I am in the same boat as you. Trying to convince my wife to this lifestyle. Take baby steps. Mr. P’s motto, One step forward, two steps back.

[Want2B_Locked]

Hi all,

Well I managed a 8 day session then a 7 day session.

It's the being almost forced to stop these sessions that is the problem.

I would quite easily continued on the 8 day session but on two occasion my right nut slipped through the ring twice the second time causing a fair bit of pain hence having to stop. That was the 48mm ring.

The7 day session I started on the 48mm ring and was ok until a slip through. Although no pain this time I had my 45mm ring with me and I swapped over. Now in the past I have used a 45mm ring with my metal cage and apart from the skin irritation as a reaction to the cage itself I had no issues with it.
With the Cobra nub the ring causes problems at night only. I've tried using Vaseline at night and initially it is ok but by 3 or 4am it can be painful. The first night is usually ok but the second night or third night can be really bad.

I'm sort of at a loss.


On the LadyS front.

We're away next month for a few days. The following month she is away to her friend (female) for a night. Another friend (male) is going also to be there and I know she really likes him as a friend. I will be trying to encourage her to lock me while she is away. Maybe even let loose is she desires.

Who knows?

She's been grumpy as hell past couple of weeks. Maybe our break will help.