@Mr Pickle made one of his picture/caption thingamies about "obligation sex".
The caption went something like "He's always just wanted sex. I've always just had sex"
[Spaceman] The long road
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Everything's better with a locked male. Better still with a nude, locked male.
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I have to give credit where credit is due. Obligation sex is a term Mrs. G used in our early chastity days. One day while discussing the situation she used it to describe one of the benefits of the cage. She felt free from obligation sex.
She says ‘it’s cute’ in the nub. 

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I just realised that today marks three weeks since the small cage arrived, and apart from a couple of days over Christmas its been on for the whole time. The only exception was when she had me put the big cage on for a few hours just so I could appreciate what having a penis I could see was like.
Its more comfortable than I expected and seems pretty easy to keep nice and clean and definitely one I could wear long term if I had to.
The unexpected thing is that theres fewer sensations with this than either of the larger cages, which seems to add to the mental feeling of complete denial, almost like my penis has gone. I'm not alone in realising this, shes started calling me by the nickname "dickless", so its "Oi Dickless make me some coffee, now!"
The teasing continues when she feels like it, in between I'm frustrated, wound up, its now not unusual for me to be leaking and she just loves that, i don't know when I last came, I think in July (Neither of us are interested in keeping records), the odd thing is I'm now almost afraid to come as the current ride is great.
I am so very, very aware of my situation not least as she continues to deny me permission to shave, so I've now got more hair on my balls than I've had for 20+ years. I did ask permission and was again turned down and told never to ask again "I will tell you when to shave".
It looks like I will enter the New Year locked, dickless and hairy.
Its more comfortable than I expected and seems pretty easy to keep nice and clean and definitely one I could wear long term if I had to.
The unexpected thing is that theres fewer sensations with this than either of the larger cages, which seems to add to the mental feeling of complete denial, almost like my penis has gone. I'm not alone in realising this, shes started calling me by the nickname "dickless", so its "Oi Dickless make me some coffee, now!"
The teasing continues when she feels like it, in between I'm frustrated, wound up, its now not unusual for me to be leaking and she just loves that, i don't know when I last came, I think in July (Neither of us are interested in keeping records), the odd thing is I'm now almost afraid to come as the current ride is great.
I am so very, very aware of my situation not least as she continues to deny me permission to shave, so I've now got more hair on my balls than I've had for 20+ years. I did ask permission and was again turned down and told never to ask again "I will tell you when to shave".
It looks like I will enter the New Year locked, dickless and hairy.
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I'm convinced there's telepathic communication going on here, just after @KnownAsHerbert was swapped over the the 'big steel' i had exactly the same instruction.
She did mull over the relelative merits of the three sizes I have, required me to explain in detail the impact off each one on me, and then decided on the big leap. So now im day three in the largest cage I have (4.5cms) a small HoD S80 (without the tube) and as Herbi said its a big change from the ultra small 2cm. Its heavy, it grips all of that 4.5cms like a vice at times and when naked it weighs heavy, when erect in bed I can maintain just by flexing my muscles, which is actually rather nice, after just three days I'm gettng pretty wound up.
In between I was allowed out for a shower, and was told "don't you dare come, you don't do that any more" creating an instant growth which made washing a precarious exercise, even more so as I was finaly given permission to shave, i suspect more for her than me as she told me to sort it as she likes a clear view. Hwever I managed without accident and then had to cram into the large steel while she watched.
Just to emphasize the difference she then had me jump on the spot just so I could appreciate the weight, and also so she could watch.
I took a risk and asked her how long I was now caged for, the answer was simple 'at least New Year'.
So she seems determined to continue, even now I can't get.my head around that she's has me caged more for more or less for 14 months (when we're not staying away) and shows no sign of relenting.
She did mull over the relelative merits of the three sizes I have, required me to explain in detail the impact off each one on me, and then decided on the big leap. So now im day three in the largest cage I have (4.5cms) a small HoD S80 (without the tube) and as Herbi said its a big change from the ultra small 2cm. Its heavy, it grips all of that 4.5cms like a vice at times and when naked it weighs heavy, when erect in bed I can maintain just by flexing my muscles, which is actually rather nice, after just three days I'm gettng pretty wound up.
In between I was allowed out for a shower, and was told "don't you dare come, you don't do that any more" creating an instant growth which made washing a precarious exercise, even more so as I was finaly given permission to shave, i suspect more for her than me as she told me to sort it as she likes a clear view. Hwever I managed without accident and then had to cram into the large steel while she watched.
Just to emphasize the difference she then had me jump on the spot just so I could appreciate the weight, and also so she could watch.
I took a risk and asked her how long I was now caged for, the answer was simple 'at least New Year'.
So she seems determined to continue, even now I can't get.my head around that she's has me caged more for more or less for 14 months (when we're not staying away) and shows no sign of relenting.
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I’m convinced that Mrs. G is reading here or telepathic kh communicating are occurring. She swears she is not reading here. So why is she so In tune with khemmi ?.
I'm convinced there's telepathic communication going on here,
She says ‘it’s cute’ in the nub. 

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I hadn't realised its been a while since I visited, so many posts to catch up on, which is great and so many varied experiences, its also lovely that there are more KHs venturing her, thank you for your valuable insight. There's very little likelihood of my KH coming here, let alone commenting so I applaud and appreciate those that do.
Thats not a complaint, I am more than happy with her approach to this game which she seems to have adopted as part of life now. For the last two weeks its been in the big cage, the small 2cm, unlocked but not allowed to do anything and now back in the medium (3cm) with the added twist of having to wear the key 24/7 around my neck. As a male who's never worn a necklace of any sort it's torture, i can feel it every waking moment and that keys sooo cold, its not helping as the temperature outside is between 0 and 4c most days.
Right now im lying in bed, while she's asleep, horny as hell, not been allowed to come since August and threatened with a caged whipping with nipple clamps 'soon'.
All that at a time when she's ill and feeling really rough, but treating me like this apparently cheers her up, it certainly turns me on and I am very, very grateful she loves it as much as I do.
Like many I try very hard not to talk about chastity, a while back I failed and she told me that i needed to stop as i was apparently constantly on about it, its hard when I can feel the affects of the cage and no cumming most of the day, however thats the deal and I'll take it happily. Since then its been her mentioning it out if the blue, i did mention that fact, which is partly why I'm now wearing the key as punishment.
I'm in a no-win situation and loving it.
Thats not a complaint, I am more than happy with her approach to this game which she seems to have adopted as part of life now. For the last two weeks its been in the big cage, the small 2cm, unlocked but not allowed to do anything and now back in the medium (3cm) with the added twist of having to wear the key 24/7 around my neck. As a male who's never worn a necklace of any sort it's torture, i can feel it every waking moment and that keys sooo cold, its not helping as the temperature outside is between 0 and 4c most days.
Right now im lying in bed, while she's asleep, horny as hell, not been allowed to come since August and threatened with a caged whipping with nipple clamps 'soon'.
All that at a time when she's ill and feeling really rough, but treating me like this apparently cheers her up, it certainly turns me on and I am very, very grateful she loves it as much as I do.
Like many I try very hard not to talk about chastity, a while back I failed and she told me that i needed to stop as i was apparently constantly on about it, its hard when I can feel the affects of the cage and no cumming most of the day, however thats the deal and I'll take it happily. Since then its been her mentioning it out if the blue, i did mention that fact, which is partly why I'm now wearing the key as punishment.
I'm in a no-win situation and loving it.
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As someone who’s still very new to this life it’s really inspirational (and a little bit nerve wracking) to read about your experiences.
Parts of me both hopes and fears that my KH, Redraven, reads this.
Parts of me both hopes and fears that my KH, Redraven, reads this.
I’m locked and kept by Redraven, my life partner, soulmate and loving key holder. When life is hard, she’s keeps me feeling loved.
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They say variation is the spice of life, so for the last few days I was instructed to unlock but was told cery clearly that until she says so im subject to her rules, locked or not.
So I was not only on the honour system but a heap of rules to remember until she says so. Then out of the blue this morning a directive was given to lock up in the small cage and remain so until instructed, so this year ive been in the 2cm twice the 4.5 cms, 3cm and two periods unlocked and we're only 36 days in! Oh, and I've been in trouble as well.
To add another twist i was just about the brush my teeth tonight and was ordered to the bedroom, she then hung the key round my neck, so i'm about to go to sleep, locked with a cold key on a chain round my neck all night, i have a suspicion it will be a hard night, literally!.
We're heading into town in the morning, will I really have to go in with a nacklace and key on my neck?
Obviously I will do whatever I'm told without complaint, but at least i can ask such daft questions here without fear of repercussions.
As I mentioned on another thread I have absolutely no idea when things will change or why, apart from knowing failure to avide by the rules will have consequences.
So I was not only on the honour system but a heap of rules to remember until she says so. Then out of the blue this morning a directive was given to lock up in the small cage and remain so until instructed, so this year ive been in the 2cm twice the 4.5 cms, 3cm and two periods unlocked and we're only 36 days in! Oh, and I've been in trouble as well.
To add another twist i was just about the brush my teeth tonight and was ordered to the bedroom, she then hung the key round my neck, so i'm about to go to sleep, locked with a cold key on a chain round my neck all night, i have a suspicion it will be a hard night, literally!.
We're heading into town in the morning, will I really have to go in with a nacklace and key on my neck?
Obviously I will do whatever I'm told without complaint, but at least i can ask such daft questions here without fear of repercussions.
As I mentioned on another thread I have absolutely no idea when things will change or why, apart from knowing failure to avide by the rules will have consequences.
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How weird it is to look down and just see balls. The 2cm steel has become her cage of choice, THERES NOTHING LEFT DOWN THERE!
The key is still round my neck, playing merry hell with my brain, three days and nights now.
Then a new directive yesterday, balls, nipples in fact any sensitive area is now out of bounds to me and hers alone to touch. My penis is gone,, now so has everything else including my brain..
PS, feel free to comment in my journal if you so wish
The key is still round my neck, playing merry hell with my brain, three days and nights now.
Then a new directive yesterday, balls, nipples in fact any sensitive area is now out of bounds to me and hers alone to touch. My penis is gone,, now so has everything else including my brain..
PS, feel free to comment in my journal if you so wish
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I thought I had gotten use to only seeing balls, but I woke up this morning grinding a pillow. When I came to my senses I realized I couldn’t feel anything on my penis because it was gone. It took a few minutes to regroup.
And yes my wife also seems to favor balls only. I’m not sure if I’ll ever get back in the nub.
And yes my wife also seems to favor balls only. I’m not sure if I’ll ever get back in the nub.
She says ‘it’s cute’ in the nub. 
