[tongue+groove] From vanilla to spumoni

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Messed my neck up yesterday feeling pretty sore. Went to bed early, a little later Mrs. G comes to bed and starts to massage it. Working her way down my back , getting me good and relaxed, moving into the small of my back and I can’t help but go into a girly orgasm then a second. She holds me tight as it subsides, and helps me with deep breathing.

What just happened? A simple neck and back rub and I orgasm. She was just as shocked. Slept totally relaxed and better than ever.

This morning I started researching non ejaculatory orgasms in men. I never heard of such a thing but it’s true. I shared some of my findings, not sure where it will go. I am now considering asking her for this as a new way of having sex. Problem is she likes cock. I imagine we will be discussing the options of piv. I want to meet her needs but I also like not cumming. Girly ‘o’s may be the best thing going. Time will tell.

In the meantime she noted to me that a special day was on the horizon.

Her. Isn’t there a special day ahead.
Me. Yes Saturday jan 11 is a special day. I had planned to take you out to dinner. However it will be a trying time for you with returning to work and all.
Her. Then maybe I should take Friday off work so I can be rested up for it. What is the day anyway.
Me. It’s our chastiversary
Her. Chastiversary?

I had to explain it to her, she can be so vanilla. She spent several moments annunciating it. So it seems she is looking forward to celebrating the day. Personally I can’t believe that a year ago I was frightened to bring it up to her and today we’re looking forward to the anniversary of the day she bought into it.

How did we get here and oh how things have improved. She is definitely my soulmate, intimacy has never been closer, I love her more every day.

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She wanted to talk about our next year in chastity last night. It was quite exciting to see her open up about it. She wants it to continue for sure. She also wants to create a behavior list for me and post it on the refrigerator so she can keep track. She said it would help her to justify my spankings. This was new. She said she is beginning to come to grips with my enjoying pain play and wants to help me with it. Wow this is really new.

We then discussed my orgasms. She wasn’t willing to restrict me to non ejaculatory orgasms (neo). She said she still wants to feel me in her and my cumming in her. She would consider however that my only ejaculations would be inside her. I consider that a reasonable meeting ground. She would be giving up watching me ejaculate, something she enjoys. The thought of never seeing it again myself is both a mystery and arousing. I’m not sure how long that agreement will last, only time will tell.

We had lunch with her friend from high school and college days. They had recently reconnected after 25 years of no contact. We had a two hour lunch at a nice restaurant. We also discussed the lunch conversation. Mrs. G asked, what are the odds that her husband was also caged? Could he be on your forum and you just not know? I commented that her friend (Miss D) noted that she told her husband about some of our college days antics, with a sly grin.

Me. You know if you ever wanted an alternative kh Miss D would probably be game.
Her. I know she would but she lives an hour away.
Me. She would probably want to see what the key was to.
Her. Yup.

Ok, so this was another surprise, yet another time will tell situation. Maybe she was just trying to tease me. If so, it worked.

Later in the evening she gave me a good spanking with her narrow wooden back scratcher. Using nipple clamps and doing what she does she took me through several multiple neo’s. At one point there was no resting between, they just waved in and out. When it was finally done she spooned me and held me helping me bring my breathing into a normal range. Then she whispered in my ear, I’m so wet and horny. Oh no another neo. Then she whispered my little clitty dicky is hard and pointy. Please stop I can’t take any more words. The neo’s just kept coming with her whispering. Finally she says, “you have 24 hours to think about how horny I am for my cock”.

There is something about her being away from work stress, a new baby coming and her understanding neo’s that has her going wild. She is free from obligation sex, she can take me to new heights without ejaculation and she can get what she needs when she needs it, no questions asked that seems to have her high on life.

Looking forward to the new year and so happy that last year this time I opened up to her about chastity.

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Spent New Year’s Eve with her alone. Started a new puzzle, 2k pieces. Made Irish coffee with snacks. Early 80’s background music from our h.s. Days. She danced around the puzzle table shaking her nice round ass and rubbing it against me. Being in my half inch chrome dome only my balls felt her.

Turned in about 10, we’re not night owls anymore. She had me suckle both breasts then provide a few tongue o’s. Nothing excessive, just relaxing for her. One little ball fondling moment then off to sleep. I had hoped for some celebration with Mr. Wanky, but no.

Oh well, I asked for this. She’s happy and content which does the same for me.

Happy locked new year to all.

[KnownAsHerbert]

I had hoped for some celebration with Mr. Wanky, but no.

I had wondered whether there would be a more relaxed stance taken with the use of the key over the Christmas and New Year holidays, but like you, no. It was business as usual as far as denial was concerned (although I did get to come 3 times in December which was unusual of course).

I would advise caution over that "alternative kh" idea, you know.

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. I would advise caution over that "alternative kh" idea, you know.

Thank you for the input. I don’t see it ever happening. I was just shocked that she toyed with me about it.

Mrs. G did tell me she was already planning another lunch with miss D. Just the girls this time, she said 25 years is a lot to catch up on. All is fine with me as I’m not much for eating out. Plus it’s Good to see Mrs. G reconnecting with what was once her best friend. She’s not had another like her since.

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Apparently we have a major winter storm coming to the Midwest USA. Some reports calling for a foot of snow with ice in front of it. Six inches is a lot for this area and 2 inches will close schools these days. I’ll disperse with the “when I was in school” stuff.

Just vegging after supper last night with no tv, music, puzzle or reading. Just quiet.

Her. Are you ok? You seem very distant.
Me. Yeah just tired from cutting wood all day. Funny I’m not sleepy though.
Her. Is there anything I can do for you?
Me. No, but thanks. I don’t know, I just feel very content and a bit bland. I think I’m headed to bed.

When she arrived we cuddled. I had a few unexpected Neo’s. At one point she pulled away and said “that’s enough, for now.” And rolled over to sleep.

In the past she has always asked if I needed more , meaning an ejaculation. The last time she asked me the following morning if I had gotten enough, meaning an ejaculation. My answer is always I’m fine and that is now your decision.

And I am fine with Neo’s for now.

However this time she didn’t inquire about my satisfaction and she limited my events. This is definitely new for her. Not sure where this is going or what to think of it.

Ice! Why do we have to get ice? And what about little dog? She can’t seem to poop without grass under her feet.

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Strange how much prep work goes into getting ready for this incoming ice storm. Still need to move cows closer to the barn to make feeding easier and I’m sure we’ll probably get a new calf in the middle of it all. Babies don’t seem to care about the weather they are born into. Worked up the gravel in the driveway yesterday to help with transportation in the event of emergency. If we can keep electricity all will be fine.

Not feeling so well when I went to bed. We had been working on the puzzle when it hit me. I downed some immune boosting stuff and lots of water. She came in and snuggled up behind me and started rubbing my back. Breathing heavily in my ear telling me she wanted to make me feel better. But what do you do for a simple head cold.

After a while I felt her arm move from around my ribs to around my neck, then a strong choke hold. Her other hand down my back grabs the T connection on my g-string undies and pulls everything up snug. Her breath on my neck and words I don’t even remember gave me an amazing one time thorough neo. When done she says nothing just rolls over to let me sleep. It’s been years since I’ve slept this much, almost 6 hours straight then another 3 after a pee break. Wow I feel good today!

But choke hold? She knows I like a little breath play buts its been a long time since we’ve done it. Still trying to figure out the choke hold? I also think she has figured out that I sleep better after an neo.

I am beginning to wonder how long she can go without some cock. She says she really likes it and I know she doesn’t care for dildos. I think I’m just frustrated and confused and could use a good ejaculatory reminder. Even a ruin might be nice. Could she really be content with me only having neo’s?

How can I get her to consider the foxing routine? At least I would feel like I’m sexually pleasing her.

Ice? Why ice?

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A few days back Mrs. G said we could move our first chastiversary celebration up a week as she will be gone on the official day.

I came in last night after making final winter storm preparations and saw the Irish coffee mugs setting out. My excitement soared for unknown festivities. We had supper, coffee and a few hours of puzzle time. Shortly after 9 she said she was ready to call it a night. When I met her in the bedroom I inquired as to what her desires were for the remainder of the evening.

Her: Just a back rub, my neck hurts from working the puzzle.

It didn’t take long and she was fast asleep. I lay there trying to decide if she was celebrating our first year by making a point about chastity or did she forget. I lay there pouting and apologizing to Mr. Wanky for having unrealistic expectations. Actually I’m not sure what I expected. I only know that a year ago I would have given Mr. Wanky a thorough massage.

It’s been nothing but Neo’s for almost two weeks. No ruining, edging or playing with even while caged. Even a caged cum while soft would be welcome. Feed it to me I don’t care, anything at all would be good.

Ok, I’m done pouting. I just need to get to the 3 week mark.

[KnownAsHerbert]

Oh no! what a let down!

As for making a point about chastity, well, it's a possibility I suppose.

I wonder if we'll get a chastiversary?

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. I wonder if we'll get a chastiversary?

Oh you’ll get a chastiversary. Whether or not it’s recognized or celebrated in any way is another matter.

May be a good time for the fairy to visit and grant you three wishes. Ok, the wishes is pushing it a bit.

Best of luck.