[Spaceman] The long road

[Tongue+groove]

Spaceman wrote: ↑Tue Dec 10, 2024 5:44 pm
So all in all the move to the shorter cage, the model suggested by Miss Emmi, is a bit of a shocker
Who would have thought that Miss Emmie would be suggesting cages for others! Not me, that's for sure.

If you ask me Miss. Emmie knows all. I am even convinced she has some telepathic connection to Mrs. G. If ever Mrs. G decides to utilize a naughty cage for my shortcomings I will know it’s true.

[Spaceman]

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If you ask me Miss. Emmie knows all. I am even convinced she has some telepathic connection to Mrs. G. If ever Mrs. G decides to utilize a naughty cage for my shortcomings I will know it’s true.
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Yes well i think you're on to something here, this evening the concept of a naughty cage was suddenly raised out of the blue, and guess what, thats a flat, to be obtained 'soon', whatever that means.

I am 100% sure she doesn't come here, but somehow she's getting ideas from here, telepathy?

To quote one of my favourite films, Men in Black, agent Kay says:

"1500 years ago, everybody "knew" that the earth was the center of the universe. 500 years ago, everybody "knew" that the earth was flat. And 15 minutes ago, you "knew" that humans were alone on this planet. Imagine what you'll "know" tomorrow."

Well 18 months ago I "knew" long term lock up was out of the question, 9 months ago I "knew" a 3cm cage was the shortest she would allow, 2 days ago I "knew" a flat was out of the question, what scares me is what I will "know" 'tomorrow'.

Be careful what you ask for, as someone here (I can't remember who) said a little while ago.

[Tongue+groove]

Hasn’t even been 24 hours since my naughty cage post. I was told this morning to obtain a flat one for a Christmas break experiment.

Hello, Mrs. Groove, I m on to you.

[Spaceman]

So all in all the move to the shorter cage, the model suggested by Miss Emmi, is a bit of a shocker

Who would have thought that Miss Emmie would be suggesting cages for others! Not me, that's for sure.

Hope it works out well with the 2cm jobbie anyway.
Same as what I'm wearing right now.

Well so far so good, four nights and days in. Its very, very different but generally perfectly comfortable for most of the day. If I have a problem with anything its with surplus foreskin bulging out of the ring (when caged it has to be pulled right back) and occasional irritation where the ring hinge is. I would prefer a solid ring.

Otherwise fine, but very, very squished, as Emmi phrased it, and frequently very wound up.

My wife says she likes it but its a bit long, which is a real turn on when she says that.

[KnownAsHerbert]

Its very, very different but generally perfectly comfortable for most of the day.

occasional irritation where the ring hinge is. I would prefer a solid ring.

very, very squished

frequently very wound up.

Definitely very different but the small size means it stays still and in place. That is what makes it comfortable in my opinion.

Never had this, in fact never had any problem with the hinged ring so I guess I'm lucky. The hinge does make it easier to put on though.

Squished indeed. Hard to imagine how you're going to get it on at all at first, but strangely, it works.

Personally I have found the bigger cage more frustrating but yes, even 2cm gets to you.

Glad it's looking like a success anyway.

[Spaceman]

And how things change, ...

10 or so years ago she got cross with me for wearing the first cage out to the supermarket, she hated the idea.

Today 'i love walking round the shops knowing your caged'

And I love that we're both getting a heap of enjoyment from it.

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[KnownAsHerbert]

And how things change, ...

10 or so years ago she got cross with me for wearing the first cage out to the supermarket, she hated the idea.

Today 'i love walking round the shops knowing your caged'

And I love that we're both getting a heap of enjoyment from it.

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Great news. Glad it's going well for you.

[Spaceman]

Now nine nights with the 2cm cage. At first it felt pretty extreme and I did wonder if I would get on with it, but Its settled down to be one of the most comfortable I've had so its definitely a keeper, even with the hinged ring which i want sure of. Not that i have much say in the subject anymore. Having been locked most of the tiime since late August she shows no sign of either letting me out or changing cages. I was allowed one night with the 4cm cage to see the diffeeence and it felt huge.

Probably the only issue is keeping everything clean, I can understand why a urethral tube would help, but thats a step to far for her. However she discovered that a jetting from the power shower does a really good job, although excrutiating for me - meaning I have to use it every shower of course. I also have a good clean every time the cage is off.

Personally i could stay this way for a long time, sex has been off the agenda for a long time but I feel that being locked has removed a stress point for both of us. I'm happy being locked, teased, edged etc and she's happy doing it and no longer feels bad we cant really have piv sex. Long may it remain so.

We do maintain a clear boundary between what we enjoy as our secret and outside life, so I'm normally unlocked for such things as taking the grandchildren out, but lock up as soon as back home.

As many have found being unlocked now feels a bit weird and I much prefer being locked, its not often that i'm not aware of the cage, but actually prefer it that way.
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On another note i was browsing over others Journeys and comparing the first few posts with today. Its interesting how very different our journeys have been and how much change many have experienced. I would reccomend doing the same to anyone starting out.

One thing I would say is don't expect you KH to be giving you non stop attention, thats not realistic and not sustainable. We can go days with her ignoring that im locked, which just increases my frustration and emphasizes my subserviant role.

Sorry, rambling reflections over now.

[Tongue+groove]

One thing I would say is don't expect you KH to be giving you non stop attention, thats not realistic and not sustainable. We can go days with her ignoring that im locked, which just increases my frustration and emphasizes my subserviant role.

This may be the greatest lesson learned through all this. There is a definite difference between lock and kh forget vs. locked and kh busy with life. I had to learn to quit pouting about the lack of attention. I had to learn that in the old days these were the times that she did obligation sex or I masturbated. Both options are now off the table which makes everything even better now.

[KnownAsHerbert]

I had to learn that in the old days these were the times that she did obligation sex or I masturbated. Both options are now off the table which makes everything even better now.

"Obligation sex", what a great term.

In the "old days" I wouldn't say that I demanded sex, but I did expect it. (and got it, most of the time at least). On the occasions when I didn't then DIY was the other option.

For me too both of these options are now "off the table" of course, which is a better situation all round I guess.

I've never been locked and forgotten, but I have been left unattended because of that busy life. I agree that there's a big difference. Of course it's frustrating but it stays locked until she's ready, wants it out and has the time to enjoy it. It's the old "state of readiness" thing.