[InversionOfControl] I asked for this; let’s see how it goes.

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Tongue+groove
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Re: [InversionOfControl] I asked for this; let’s see how it goes.

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She gave me permission to cum, and damn it was a great one.
Why is it that orgasms are so much more powerful and enjoyable when she decides that you get one.

I have also noticed a lack of ‘the drop’ when she decides my fate. I think it even makes me hornier.
She says ‘it’s cute’ in the nub. ;)
InversionOfControl
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Re: [InversionOfControl] I asked for this; let’s see how it goes.

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Tongue+groove wrote: Tue Nov 19, 2024 9:09 am
She gave me permission to cum, and damn it was a great one.
Why is it that orgasms are so much more powerful and enjoyable when she decides that you get one.

I have also noticed a lack of ‘the drop’ when she decides my fate. I think it even makes me hornier.
I’ve noticed the same. She lets me cum every couple of weeks and is present for every orgasm I have. But I haven’t experienced sub drop in 3 or 4 months now. When she lets me cum, I just want to cum more haha
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Wifey has been allowing me to edge with the vibrator on my cage every other day or so. It’s been a week since I have been allowed to cum. Getting back into that nice submissive headspace. Love it 🥰
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Re: [InversionOfControl] I asked for this; let’s see how it goes.

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Today wifey allowed me to unlock for an edging session. She set a timer but didn’t tell me how long it was set for. This is her usual routine when she uses timers, which is becoming frequent now.

When I heard her phone alarm sound from the living room, I stopped and waited as she walked down the hall to our bedroom. She came in, kissed me passionately, gave me head for about 30 seconds, patted my chest, and said “time to lock back up.”

We waited for my erection to go down but it was persistent. So she had me sweep the floors wearing only my shirt until it went down. She followed me around for a while with the paddle, spanking my butt at her whims.

Eventually my erection went down and she once again locked me in my Cobra N.
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Re: [InversionOfControl] I asked for this; let’s see how it goes.

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Isn’t the paddle just splendid. I made one for her to use. Walnut with hearts cut out. One nice swat and it leaves a pretty heart on my ass.
She says ‘it’s cute’ in the nub. ;)
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Re: [InversionOfControl] I asked for this; let’s see how it goes.

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We've used a paddle or several years using it for bondage and spanking play, with me mostly using it on Miss Emmie.
Since chastity, I don't get to use it any more. Miss Emmie does though....
In a state of readiness but... Nubbed.
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Wifey had me cum inside her tonight. It had been 11 days since my last one. I had been enjoying denial and asked for another week before she allowed me to cum. I’m a little disappointed tbh but trying not to be ungrateful.
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Re: [InversionOfControl] I asked for this; let’s see how it goes.

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So, I’ve had time to think about this since last night. The problem is more about her alcohol consumption than anything else. I lick her to orgasm 2-4 times a week but on weekends she drinks and gets tipsy / slightly drunk. After she’s drunk, she has a habit of deciding she wants PIV with no foreplay, no head or orgasm for her, and she always tells me to cum. Then she sleeps off the wine she’s been drinking since noon and I’m left alone with my horniness gone and no aftercare.

I don’t know how to bring this up with her. Maybe I’ll just ask for a break from the dynamic.