I apologize for the length, but a few things have happened and I thought I'd post a quick update.
We're 8 days away from reaching our first full time chastity anniversary. I'll update the statistics at the bottom of the post. They may not be impressive for many of you, but things are slowly changing. For example, the first month or two I was in full time chastity, I got to orgasm (caged most of the time) about once a week. Fast forward to nearly a year later, and I've had 1 orgasm since June 1st without knowing when I'll get another one.
Here is what has changed: Instead of doing this because I want it, she has begun to enjoy it herself.
She went on a beach trip with some vanilla girlfriends last week." I don't know if it's just me, but the longer I'm in chastity - especially after a couple hours of drinking - my mind wanders and I'm willing to do things I normally wouldn't do. So, after an evening of drinking and scrolling BDSMLR.com, I sent her these with the message "Do you disagree with anything or is anything 100% NO?"
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Her reply? "Not sure yet." She hasn't brought it back up, and I'm almost afraid to!
Over the next few days she sent me a couple of pictures of her wearing the keys (yes, both of them) without being prompted. Once before she went to dinner and another one in her bikini before heading to the beach. She did tell me she wore the keys several times under tops when it wasn't noticeable because her friends are vanilla. She says wearing them make her feel loved because of the sacrifice I'm making for her. She enjoys the feeling and may start wearing them more often. I can only be hopeful!!
After many teasing text messages and pictures all week she finally came home and I could NOT wait until bedtime. Once we were in bed I couldn't keep my hands off of her and used her favorite toy and my hands to make her orgasm. She asked if I wanted to finish and I told her of course I did, but it was up to what she wanted. She started to reach for the key, changed her mind, and gave me ONE edge with a vibrator. She gave me a kiss, and told me "Good Night" because that is all she wanted. THAT is huge for us. She decided a single edge is all that she wanted to give me instead of feeling guilty and making me orgasm.
We had a conversation about our one year anniversary and what was next. I told her it was up to her. She said she enjoyed our current situation and wants it to continue with a few conditions: First, I can't send her chastity captions or comments while was working, but I can share them with her when I get home. Second, I can't ask her to wear the key or for an orgasm. She would do both of those things, but only on her terms. I agreed. It appears we will continue in this lifestyle for the foreseeable future.
Here's the numbers if anyone cares:
My last (caged and ruined) orgasm was on June 28th. Before that, my last orgasm was sometime in May - probably before being locked.
I have been locked continuously since May 16th.
The last time we had PIV intercourse was May 13th but I have used fingers and toys MANY times since then - she is NOT lacking.
The first 186 days of full time chastity:
Locked: 184 days
Unlocked: 2 days
Orgasms for her: 51
Orgasms for me: 20
Fron Jan 1st, 2022 to July 18th, 2022 (date posted)
Locked: 77 days
Unlocked: 42 days (includes one 25 day period discussed earlier in my Journal).
Orgasms for her: 57
Orgasms for me: 14 with the next one SOME time after our one year anniversary on July 26th.
On we go....