I stumbled across this site a while ago after reading Thumper’s reviews on his blog, and figured I might as well sign up.
I’ve had a long-term interest in chastity, for about 10 years now. But this year I decided to actively pursue my kink and get cages, bringing my vanilla partner along for the journey. Still figuring out kink fits into our existing relationship, which isn’t always easy.
Currently I’m playing around with some 3D printed devices, but I am uncut with a long foreskin and that has caused some issues with device wear. Basically I have too much skin when flaccid for it to be comfortable for long-term wear. After a lot of deliberation I have decided to get circumcised, but that will take up to a year before that happens. I’d love to look into a custom metal device but there’s not much point doing before getting circumcised as my sizing requirements will change without foreskin vs with foreskin (especially shaft width which is where the skin currently bunches up).
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Veleek wrote: ↑Sun Aug 09, 2020 9:32 pm
Hey everyone.
I stumbled across this site a while ago after reading Thumper’s reviews on his blog, and figured I might as well sign up.
I’ve had a long-term interest in chastity, for about 10 years now. But this year I decided to actively pursue my kink and get cages, bringing my vanilla partner along for the journey. Still figuring out kink fits into our existing relationship, which isn’t always easy.
Currently I’m playing around with some 3D printed devices, but I am uncut with a long foreskin and that has caused some issues with device wear. Basically I have too much skin when flaccid for it to be comfortable for long-term wear. After a lot of deliberation I have decided to get circumcised, but that will take up to a year before that happens. I’d love to look into a custom metal device but there’s not much point doing before getting circumcised as my sizing requirements will change without foreskin vs with foreskin (especially shaft width which is where the skin currently bunches up).
So yeah, that’s me.
Welcome and luckily for you, much of the chastity journey is mental. Devices of course play a huge part in the physical sensation, but you’re getting a head start. Also don’t discount a larger width to accommodate foreskin - erections will still be significantly constrained. You’ll just need more frequent cleaning than some of us.
Hello, I am the wife and keyholder of @aksun! Male chastity was a completely new idea presented to me after many years into marriage. It took me time to wrap my head around it, but I am enjoying the discovery. Please add me to the keyholders forum. I am the only person I know that has a key! I think
mrsaksun wrote: ↑Sat Aug 29, 2020 9:16 pm
Hello, I am the wife and keyholder of @aksun! Male chastity was a completely new idea presented to me after many years into marriage. It took me time to wrap my head around it, but I am enjoying the discovery. Please add me to the keyholders forum. I am the only person I know that has a key! I think
Welcome to the Forums! A short 2 years ago I was also I introduced to male chastity .... 45 years into our marriage. I look forward to visiting with you in the Keyholders Hangout.
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Wife of 48 yrs, KH/Mistress/Domme to KittensBoyToy aka KBT
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So...here I am in a place I never thought I'd be. I am a gay man coming up on the big 60 and I recently met a gentleman that I am very attracted to, and the thought has crossed my mind that he may be the one to go the distance with. He has one little idiosyncrasy (to be read, fetish), locking his sex partners in chastity. As he described him self...."Total top...I've no use or interest in your dick except to lock it away. My only interest is your ass". I have never really thought one way or the otber abt it, but now I am watching every piece of chastity porn I can find. Also...I have no problem strickly being a bottom...I have always enjoyed it. Anyway...been doing my research and reading anythi g and everything and the eroticism of it is starting to catch fire in me. Btw...this would be a life style choice...24/7 he'd want me locked. He is a bit of a DOM. My hesitancy is i have trouble picturing a sex life without an orgasm...I am aftraid it would be massive frustration. He says it woukd be the opposite in time...he has an enormous labido and constantly wants sex..so I am not sure I'd have time to get frustrated. So, I am on here to read up on what everyone has to say and gain information and hopefully maybe connect with somone who's been in a similar situation. Does one indeed evolve into accepting and learning to love those circumstances.?