Most secure cages?

[Just another guy]

Hi all

Wondering what you all have to say about the most secure cages. I know a lot of it has to do with fit. So let’s leave that part out.

My most secure one is a mm jailbird with an oval ring but I can still pull out of it if I want to. And one little niggle was the security screw would loosen every few hours. It would be hot to have something inescapable. Any suggestions?

[TwistedMister]

You mean, something you can't 'sneak' out of, without cutting or doing something else that would get you caught?

Three things come immediately to mind- a piercing, a urethral insert that extends past the main ring, a main ring that is hinged or multi-part so that it can be small enough not to allow pull-out (but may be somewhat less than comfortable during erection attempts).

[SteveOD]

A common misconception is that you cannot orgasm when locked in a cage. Wrong. You can easily cum in any cage. Just watch chastity porn to see this. The other thing is escape proof cages. I can say that after 9 years of wearing one device or another. chastity will not work unless you have self control. Guys are always looking for something that will prevent them from coming or getting out of their cages. If you think that is going to prevent you from having orgasm, you are wrong. If you want to escape that is more Houdini stuff than chastity. Caged or not, I do not make myself cum, not once in 20 years with the first 11 on the honor system.

I think anyone who is living a chastity lifestyle will agree that unless you have self control it does not matter what device you buy. If you are interested in escaping from a device, why then do you want to engage in chastity play? There is the fantasy version of chastity that you can read online and there is reality. The two are very different.

[Just another guy]

Of course. But then why do we wear cages at all? In the end this is all consensual and we can end it whenever we like. We wear the cage because of what it represents.

A common misconception is that you cannot orgasm when locked in a cage. Wrong. You can easily cum in any cage. Just watch chastity porn to see this. The other thing is escape proof cages. I can say that after 9 years of wearing one device or another. chastity will not work unless you have self control. Guys are always looking for something that will prevent them from coming or getting out of their cages. If you think that is going to prevent you from having orgasm, you are wrong. If you want to escape that is more Houdini stuff than chastity. Caged or not, I do not make myself cum, not once in 20 years with the first 11 on the honor system.

I think anyone who is living a chastity lifestyle will agree that unless you have self control it does not matter what device you buy. If you are interested in escaping from a device, why then do you want to engage in chastity play? There is the fantasy version of chastity that you can read online and there is reality. The two are very different.

[SteveOD]

Correct and as a symbol, like my wedding ring, why would you want to remove it? That is all I am saying. I do not remove my wedding band even though I could do so easily. Those who cheat do remove their wedding bands and therein lies the difference in honoring a vow or not.

[bokeyboy87]

Some people need a secure cage because of the pure need to be sexually active all day long. In the beginning I don't think I chose the chastity as a 24/7. But now I don't have a choice and honestly it works for me I know that she knows what's best in the end! So whether i like it or not I do what she says

[Just another guy]

Correct and as a symbol, like my wedding ring, why would you want to remove it? That is all I am saying. I do not remove my wedding band even though I could do so easily. Those who cheat do remove their wedding bands and therein lies the difference in honoring a vow or not.

I just find it hotter if I I know I can’t escape, nothing more than that really.

[TwistedMister]

I just find it hotter if I I know I can’t escape, nothing more than that really.

Bingo.

That's where it is for me, too. The eroticism is in not having a choice, knowing that it is *completely* up to the Mrs. as to whether I get out or not. I have only been out once in the last 6 months or so, and that was for a trip to the doc for my annual physical. She let me stay out overnight and it was wonderful to get to experience full erections...and then it was back in again.

Sure, you can orgasm in the cage, but it's not the same. My last two were while caged and the relief was fleeting- within hours I was just as horny, or hornier than before.

[Clearstatic]

The most secure cages incorporate a piercing of some kind.

[bokeyboy87]

I don't think I could ever choose to get one but if my goddess has decided I needed one I would ultimately go for it. And who is this Prince Albert dude