"Hello world" thread

[shyguy]

Ah too bad, I'd love to hear suggestions that I could pass on to the wife as far as rules go. She's got a couple ideas, but seems stumped on anything more

One reason for joining was to start a journal. I'll do that when I can and put the rules in there if it helps you. Currently they are all mine and I have encouraged her to give input but so far she hasn't added anything. I just add rules myself based on what kind of feedback I get from her.

[Jens_Property]

That would be great if you could. My wife and I are supposed to talk again tonight about the potential rules I'll need to follow, but every time we're supposed to figure them out, she cancelled the chat. I think she's still a little weirded out by the whole thing, but yet seems excited at the same time.

[ubercurious]

Long time repressed kinky switch, trying to get his totally vanilla and almost asexual wife onboard.

She found out several times I had been either playing or watching assorted bdsm... and now we are finally talking.

Would love to give her the pleasure that I have already had, not looking forward to a lot of awkward but necessary conversations with her, hoping to end in at least getting her self esteem and power up. Hopefully so far she would take control, if only for short periods of chastised time for me...

Wish me luck!

[midlifelovelife]

Hello. I am new to this site and I am enjoying the conversation. Mid 40s, married to same woman for almost 25 years. I stumbled upon chastity last year as my wife and I were planning a road trip without kids. I decided to “save myself” for the trip and abstained from masturbation for about 10 days. I experienced many of the feelings that are described by this community (deep feelings of affection for my wife/desire to please her; also felt like when we were first dating.) We experienced a new level of closeness on that trip. I think it will always be a touchstone in our marriage.
When we got back, I did some research into male orgasm control and eventually found this site. It made so much sense! I have since asked my wife to have sole control of my orgasms and she agreed without hesitation. We are practicing based on the honour system. Maybe we will move onto using a device... who knows? I am just looking forward to having a community to talk to.

[KittensBoyToy]

Welcome to @Cagedup, @cmjdjm1, @tricketee, @Chastecase, @shyguy, @ubercurious and @midlifelovelife. Seven new members joined in the past week. Makes it hard to keep up but we are glad to have everyone!

[Skippy]

Hello. We’re not to new to the scene, just looking to be around some like minded folks!

[KittensBoyToy]

You found us, Skippy! Pull up a chair and sit a spell.

[Locked_Boss]

Locked Boss saying Hi. been a long time lurker but I have a question.

My key keeper loves tormenting me with it.

She says "give me MY key with a grin, I have an idea." Sometimes she just keeps it for a week or so, sometimes a random 37 days, other times she leaves it someplace and gives me clues to find it. If I ask for it back she says "you just got 5 more days."

I will get a text saying "I feel Mean." Then a video of "her" key going out the car window in a random parking lot with with a couple pics to try and figure out where she threw it. I then have to go find it and give it back to her. She loves doing that because i freak out thinking it will be lost or somebody will pick it up before i find it. One time she left it near some shrubs and when I went to pick it up land scappers had trimmed the bushes and were raking it all up when I drove up. I had to dig in the trimmings to find it. 15 more minutes and it would have be swept up and gone. She laughed her ass off at that one.

The out the window thing can be dangerous. She threw it out the window into the yard and guided me to where she thought it landed. I couldn't find it so she came out to help and she couldn't find it either. She laughed and said "well I guess you are locked for good now and went back inside laughing." I found it about 8 feet from where she thought it landed out of pure luck.

The reason for the post is I have a trip coming up and she gave me the grin. She said "Maybe I will mail the key to your hotel, How about that? and laughed." Then she said "maybe I won't mail it" and laughed again.

She has mailed it before. I know she isn't kidding.

This trip is cross country and I have to fly and I will be there at least 3 weeks.

Will I make it through an airport scanner with a holy trainer with the internal magiclocker keyset?

What do I tell security if I set off an alarm?

Has anybody flown locked recently?

thanks for any replies.

[KittensBoyToy]

Welcome @Locked_Boss Seems you have a dilemma that many here would love to have - A wife (I assume) and keyholder that is enjoying her role and has fun with it at your expense/frustration. You are right that the 'out the window' game is a bit risky and she should use a little caution in how it is played, especially if you don't have a second key. Still, I would enjoy the fact that she is on board with your chastity. As far as clearing security with the HT, many members have worn them and I don't remember stories of anyone setting off metal detectors. The body scan could possibly pick it up. If it does just be honest and hope for the best. The worst that could happen is a body search...might be fun!

[Johnny Cage]

Hello Johnny Cage here 29 years old newly caged husband. Been locked up on and off for 3-4 months. Struggled to find the right ring and sleeve combo for long term use and low profile for wearing during work. Finally I believe I found what will work best for what I have seen. That being said the wife is keeping me locked up unless emergency, cleaning for hygiene, and her personal use. I use to have a porn addiction and we started this to try to help my problem. With not being able to take advantage of watching porn I will admit I have not even been interested in the slightest knowing it’s pointless let alone uncomfortable to get a boner while being in a cage lol. Happy to talk to people and exchange info. Haven’t had much experience so no real stories yet. The wife is really starting to like the control and deny me now so I’d say I’m out of the introduction period and fully in the game now.