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So the night before last I was allowed to have a full O, the first in about 2.5 weeks. (Longest I have ever gone, and short time compared to some people on here, but we are just starting out). While is felt amazing to finally finish and have a full O. The last 36hrs have been miserable really.
I have has often had that post O down. But nothing like this.
What are people experiences with this and advice please? Its got me questioning if I want to experience another full O as I seem to have got a longer last satisfaction from my KH having O's
The Big down after
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Re: The Big down after
...and there’s the conundrum. You want to sooo bad, but you know you’re about to go back to square one! Which is why there’s a moment of sheer joy when my KH stops before orgasm and says “That’s enough for now - back in the cage!”
I’ve found that licking Mistress T to orgasm, followed by a ruined orgasm for me - or any play that produces sperm without allowing a full orgasm, gives me massive satisfaction without causing the post-O downer. Of course once in a while we HAVE to experience the full orgasm and subsequent downer, just so we remember why we want to be caged and locked in the first place!
And the bottom line? ...your key holder is in charge, so if she says come, you come. If she says stop you stop.
I’ve found that licking Mistress T to orgasm, followed by a ruined orgasm for me - or any play that produces sperm without allowing a full orgasm, gives me massive satisfaction without causing the post-O downer. Of course once in a while we HAVE to experience the full orgasm and subsequent downer, just so we remember why we want to be caged and locked in the first place!
And the bottom line? ...your key holder is in charge, so if she says come, you come. If she says stop you stop.
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Re: The Big down after
Back when we first started, we discovered that when Mrs Edge made me lock up immediately afterward helped mitigate the orgasm drop.
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Re: The Big down after
When you stay locked long enough, with an average of one to three months between orgasms, you may find that you have less of a 'down' period after an O. Especially if you are locked right back up after.
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I'll second that. Over 6 months denied orgasm and then allowed 2 in 4 days. Let down/drop? My biggest problem is which project to tackle for M'Lady next!TwistedMister wrote: ↑Fri Jun 05, 2020 5:30 am When you stay locked long enough, with an average of one to three months between orgasms, you may find that you have less of a 'down' period after an O. Especially if you are locked right back up after.
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Re: The Big down after
What devices? I have a hard time getting past about four days without some painKittensBoyToy wrote: ↑Fri Jun 05, 2020 10:26 amI'll second that. Over 6 months denied orgasm and then allowed 2 in 4 days. Let down/drop? My biggest problem is which project to tackle for M'Lady next!TwistedMister wrote: ↑Fri Jun 05, 2020 5:30 am When you stay locked long enough, with an average of one to three months between orgasms, you may find that you have less of a 'down' period after an O. Especially if you are locked right back up after.
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Mature Metal Jail Bird, proper fit with an open design that is easy to keep clean.HubbyNew2It wrote: ↑Fri Jun 05, 2020 10:34 am
What devices? I have a hard time getting past about four days without some pain
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Pricey. Not sure if she has that committed.KittensBoyToy wrote: ↑Fri Jun 05, 2020 10:44 amMature Metal Jail Bird, proper fit with an open design that is easy to keep clean.HubbyNew2It wrote: ↑Fri Jun 05, 2020 10:34 am
What devices? I have a hard time getting past about four days without some pain
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Thank you for the advice, glad I'm not the only one that suffered this. I will talk to my wife about it and will use this as a example of how to bypass itExcited+Scared1 wrote: ↑Fri Jun 05, 2020 4:33 am ...and there’s the conundrum. You want to sooo bad, but you know you’re about to go back to square one! Which is why there’s a moment of sheer joy when my KH stops before orgasm and says “That’s enough for now - back in the cage!”
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Re: The Big down after
That’s why i have not had an orgasm in 3 years and have been told my last one was my last !!
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