"Hello world" thread

[Jens_Property]

Welcome gentlemen.

@cmjdjm1, sounds like you're one of the 'lucky' ones, having a partner who is eager to get involved.

'lucky' might be dependent on how long she keeps me in it lol. I have a feeling that so long as I'm comfortable in it, she's going to spend quite a long time (weeks or longer?) keeping me locked up to tease me and drive me wild. Surprisingly, I think I'm ok with that. I'd go so far as to say I'm excited to see how long I can last before I'm begging to get let out. Fingers crossed this all goes well!

[locked4her55]

Welcome to Cagedup and cmjdjm1.

cmjdjm1, your story sounds very familiar and I would bet many here experienced what led you to want to experiment with chastity.

As you said "Fingers crossed this goes well" but it sounds like you are off to a good start with your future keyholder.

[Jens_Property]

Welcome to Cagedup and cmjdjm1.

cmjdjm1, your story sounds very familiar and I would bet many here experienced what led you to want to experiment with chastity.

As you said "Fingers crossed this goes well" but it sounds like you are off to a good start with your future keyholder.

Thanks for the confidence! I told her she can use it to get me more physically active, eat better, do more housework etc. Her choice, and I'll agree with whatever she comes up with. I'm not a fat guy or anything, but being 45 I'm certainly into the lazy stage of my life lol. So any motivation at all will be helpful to get me moving again.
I'd read online an idea about rolling dice to find how many weeks I'd be locked up, and to get any time out of it at all, I'd have to complete a task of her choosing. But even then, it would only be a short period of time unlocked. Like maybe for a quick shower without it while she watched to make sure I didn't so any stroking at all. But as soon as the shower was done, it would be right back into it until the days or weeks was up. Then I'd be let out for the evening for sex. Then roll the dice again right after and back into the cage it goes. Sounds fun to me!

[tricketee]

Hello there! I'm a 25-year-old Male that just recently started taking my love for cuckolding porn seriously (As in, I'm actively looking for a partner in which I can share all my secrets with and have a real and fulfilling relationship with while exploring our kinks together). I have a fantastic coach who recommended that I purchase a Chastity Cage and I'm here because I'm looking to see if there are websites that can do custom sizes. I went to Holy Trainer's website and tried their test on how to select the ring diameter for my member and I ended up being bigger than their max size. So, I took direction from someone within the kink community and went to Denying Thumper's Blog but I couldn't find anything there (if there is something there, I apologize) about custom sizes for thicker members. I've never worn a chastity device before and I'm looking to get it right on the first go, so I hope I can find that information here! Thanks for having me <3

[Chastecase]

Hi all! So I've been into chastity with my wife for about three weeks. It seems to be one of my only fetishes that she actually enjoys. Which in turn, turns me on like crazy. Ive got a few questions about cages so I've joined this forum.

[TwistedMister]

Hi all! So I've been into chastity with my wife for about three weeks. It seems to be one of my only fetishes that she actually enjoys. Which in turn, turns me on like crazy. Ive got a few questions about cages so I've joined this forum.

Welcome, another 'lucky' one whose wife takes to it right from the start. Take a read through the 'Devices' section, you may find that a lot of answers are already there.

[shyguy]

Hello everyone,

I'm in my late 40s and been married to my wife for 10 years. Our sex life became pretty much non-existent after kids and I ended up focusing on work and being generally an ass. We've probably only actually had sex about once a year for the last 6 years for various reasons. We're quite close in other ways which is probably why we're still together. Anyway last month I decided things had to change and wrote her a message describing how I wanted to improve my behaviour toward her, part of which involved chastity. After her initial shock at the suggestion we had the most open conversation about our sex life for years and I ended up ordering a couple of devices. She then accused me of making this just an excuse to get sex. I tried to explain that she would be in complete control so in the end I wrote down some rules I would have to follow. The main part was that I wasn't allowed to mention the device or my desires unless I was injured.

The first device that arrived was too big and kept slipping off. The second was fine during the day but absolute agony during the night. I ended up ordering a third device which I was able to sleep in comfortably. During the first week I was unlocked for cleaning and my wife gave me a bit of a fondle after I had showered. Then she looked at my penis and said with some annoyance "It's too big to go back in now so now I am going to have to wait for you to shrink. We won't be doing this again." Shortly after I was locked back up for another week. I was allowed out for a shower (I shower locked every day but a proper clean is necessary every so often) but told to "Be good" whilst I was in there. Then back to being locked.

Other than that I have received no attention from her. Because of my rules I am forbidden to mention that I need anything. Apart from her asking if I would like to be let out for cleaning she seems to have zero interest in my penis. We have been showing each other more affection and I have had praise on my improved behaviour and mood and even thanks for suggesting the journey.

So here I am entering my second month of being locked 24x7 and I'm not sure where I am heading. I'll just have to be patient.

[Jens_Property]

Your life sounds like a carbon copy of mine, I'm just a couple months behind you. My first cage is supposed to be here this coming week. I'm still trying to get her to nail down the rules, since she seems to be overwhelmed with the choices of things to make rules about. If you don't mind, could you possibly send me a message and we could chat about what your rules are?

[TwistedMister]

If you don't mind, could you possibly send me a message and we could chat about what your rules are?

He is too new to have access to DM capabilities yet.

[Jens_Property]

Ah too bad, I'd love to hear suggestions that I could pass on to the wife as far as rules go. She's got a couple ideas, but seems stumped on anything more