We had been playing with chastity throughout the past, but if there had been times where I had to take the chastity device off, my princess didn't seem to care too much about relocking it. While surfing the net I read some contracts I found. Later we read through one and sometimes talked about it and discussed the terms of it.
Four weeks ago my wife had me sign the contract we both agreed on.
Since then it's all about her - and she starts to care more about herself and her benefits (that's something I had wished since many years) and of course she likes that I can't masturbate anymore. We are talking quite often and openly. Being married for quite a long time already that's a very positive development for both of us.
Here's the contract we agreed on - it's largely based on one me found on the net, but has been modified according to our needs:
This agreement is made on this day between …………(Wife) and …………. (Husband)
This agreement and any amendments thereto shall be in effect from the day of execution and shall remain in full force as long as Wife and Husband are together.
IT IS THE INTENT OF THIS AGREEMENT TO ESTABLISH A LIFETIME COMMITMENT. THE INITIAL PERIOD WILL BE A FULL YEAR. THE EXTENSION OF THE TERM WILL BE AT LEAST ANOTHER YEAR. IF BOTH PARTIES AGREE, THE CONTRACT CAN BE MADE PERMANENT (THIS IS POSSIBLE AFTER THE INITIAL PERIOD HAS ENDED).
The wife may at her sole discretion and without consulting with the Husband, acting reasonably add any other Rules and Provisions and amend this contract as she may deem appropriate. Both partners will have an open conversation about their experiences and feelings (within the first 3 months at least once a week, after that within the first year at least once a month, after that at the discretion of the wife).
The Husband hereby agrees to wear a Chastity Belt / device (CB) on a fulltime basis, 365 days per year, every year, subject to the rules and provisions contained herein. The Wife hereby agrees to accept the keys and the responsibilities of a keyholder and administrate and supervise the compliance of this agreement.
Rules and Provisions
The Husband acknowledges that it is the intent of this agreement to transfer all of the control of his sexuality to the Wife and that he is required to co-operate with the wife at all times. All rights are herewith transferred and all of his control now ceases.
The Husband is at no time permitted to touch himself sexually in any way. Any touching of the Genitals is absolutely prohibited. The Husband hereby acknowledges that Masturbation is a destructive behavior to the relationship and agrees to reframe from it. In the event the Husband found the opportunity and masturbated he is to advise the Wife immediately, failing to do so will toughen the according sanctions.
The Husband acknowledges that it is the intent of these rules that he is denied any access to his genitals at any time. The Husband shall at all times wear a CB, which has been solely approved by the Wife subject only to the releases the wife might grant. The Husband promptly and without any hesitation reinstall the CB when so requested.
The Wife shall be the only person to remove the CB, once removed the Husband shall remain at all times under the Wife's strict supervision. The Husband agrees that while the CB is being removed he may be restraint by the wife at her sole discretion. The restraint may involve any method to prevent him from touching himself.
The Husband is not permitted to touch or even handle the keys at any time and in the event the Husband finds the keys he is obligated to immediately report this to the Wife.
The Husband shall be responsible to ensure that the CB is securely installed and attached, and shall immediately bring any problems or discrepancies to the Wife's attention.
The Husband acknowledges that he entered into this agreement on a voluntary basis and is totally aware of the consequences and therefore shall not complain to the Wife and shall not try to create guilt feelings for the Wife or to solicit a release. The Husband acknowledges that any releases are at the sole discretion of the Wife.
The Husband agrees to abide by any penalties assigned to or to any other disciplinary action that The Wife in her sole discretion may deem appropriate.
The Husband is obligated to provide sexual release to his Wife at any time it is requested and agrees to do so without any return expectations.
The Husband shall be at all times respectful to his Wife, comply with any assigned chores and shall behave to the Wife's general expectations, and shall focus and address his Wife's needs.
The Husband specifically acknowledges that he will follow all instructions of his wife instantly and painstakingly – without exception and any further request. They are not to be questioned; if he doesn’t want to do something he may ask the permission of his wife, but he will never refuse to execute an instruction.
The Wife acknowledges that the most important factor is the long-term improvement of the relationship and building of intimacy and to ensure maximum long-term benefits for the relationship it is necessary to enforce all the rules and provisions of this agreement. The Wife agrees to strictly but fairly administrate this agreement.
The Wife shall work with the Husband to ensure compliance by the husband to the Rules and Provisions contained herein. The Wife acknowledges that at times compliance to this agreement may be difficult for the Husband and she agrees to encourage and support the Husband throughout and will assist him to facilitate his compliance to this agreement.
The Wife acknowledges that Masturbation by the husband is a destructive behavior and agrees that she will not provide any opportunity for the husband to do so.
The Wife will provide scheduled releases to the Husband subject to the provisions and penalties contained in this agreement. Because of that she will keep her husband locked in a chastity device 24/7. If – at her own discretion – it should be necessary to modify the device (smaller, tighter) or to choose a more secure device , she can order her husband to do so.
The Wife agrees to remove the CB when so required in her sole opinion for the purpose of cleaning, adjustment and repair. All such removals shall be only being under the strict supervision of the Wife.
The Wife may tease the Husband at any time at her sole discretion. It is the responsibility of the Husband to ensure that he does have an orgasm without his Wife's prior approval. He shall promptly advise his Wife when an orgasm is imminent giving the Wife ample opportunity to cease teasing.
The Wife shall communicate clearly her expectations of the Husband and what she considers appropriate behavior. The Wife will clearly communicate any penalties that have been assigned and the reason for it.
There will be no scheduled releases.
The Husband agrees that he shall co-operate fully with his Wife and acknowledges that any releases are solely for the Wife's benefit. The husband will under no circumstances ask for a release, sexual stimulation or even an orgasm; this is all at the sole discretion of his wife. The Husband agrees to promptly re-install the CB following a release. He is however entitled to wash up prior to the installation.
Other releases may only be permitted for the purpose of washing, CB maintenance and adjustment, teasing by the Wife or medical problems. Such releases shall only be under the strict supervision of the Wife. The Husband acknowledges that at any time the CB is removed the Wife may ensure that he will not touch the Genitals.
The wife will impose sanctions according to the misdemeanor according as she sees fit. It is acknowledged that the penalties are to be a deterrent for non-acceptable behavior and are required to be severe enough to be an incentive to modify such behavior. In case of a repeated misbehavior the severity of the sanction will be significantly increased. Both parties acknowledge that once a penalty has been assigned, the Wife will strictly enforce it without exception.
Sanctions could be (but not limited to): face slapping, whipping of different body parts, flicking a rubber band against body parts, restraining, wearing a mask, hot wax / cold ice, icy hot, ice cold shower…
The Husband agrees to and will submit to any other form of discipline that the Wife may deem appropriate in her sole discretion.
Both parties acknowledge and agree that this agreement aims for a lifetime commitment and that each party will do their best to abide by the terms and conditions thereof. Each party will deal fairly with each other when interpreting, complying and enforcing this agreement. Each party will work in good faith to make these arrangements successful and encourage the other party to comply with the intent of this agreement. The parties agree to openly and honestly discuss with each other the progress made, their feelings and the effect this arrangement is having on their relationship.
Signed this ______day of_________,
Based largely on: http://cuckold-chastity-belt-stories.co ... riage.html
Modified especially regarding releases (no scheduled releases at all) and penalties (no timebased penalties).
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Happily locked by my wife in a Looker 02 with just 48mm total length => it still went in like "nothing"