[NoloMeTangere] Posting in Mid-Journey

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NoloMeTangere
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I just re read what I wrote, and felt the area that they're talking about. Hell to the no! My wife must have tu4ned my brains to mush I'm so in love with her.
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Wow! I am In my old cage. Ans my wife did a strip tease for me. It was so hot! She told me had taken a class. I have to admit it was great. She said she's going to take a belly dancing class with our piercer who signed her up. This os such a change for her. She is so much more forward and outgoing.
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I can't remember exactly where I was in my journey, but I got two crown piercings and my wife loves them. My PA is healed but not toughened up yet, so I've been wearing my old cage.

Anyway, after our daughter went to bed, my wife did a fantastic strip tease, and I scooped her up, carried her to the bed and proceeded to make love to her. While we were making love, my penis was so hard in the cage, that I thought it would either break the cage or burst, and I started really tugging at it. I managed to pull it off my balls by almost pulling my balls off, and in my fevered mind I was going to have her come what may.

Three things happened that put an end to that. First, what I thought was an enormous steel hard erection was more of a soft-on. Second, the whole thing got tangled in the new piercings, and third my wife finally realized what my intentions were.

Between the tangle and the soft-on, the idea was a no go, but the real stopper was my wife. She literal begged me not to. After that, we stopped and had the longest talk.
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Well, the talk was good. She really opened up about how sexy, and loved, and safe she felt when I'm chaste. She said that it just makes her feel free to be sexier with me without the worry about being penetrated. She knows it's difficult for me and she said she will do everything she can to make being chaste for her exciting and sexy.

She really wants me to start using my PA cage, and to incorporate the other piercings into it as a safety measure, which is funny, because that's exactly how they worked a couple of weeks ago. We met with her girlfriend, who's also the piercer, and she's already figured out how it'll all work.

She also said that my being chaste isn't going to be permanent-permanent at first. She knows that I'll likely have wet dreams after a while, so to avoid that, she wants to work up to it slowly. She's going to time it, and when I have my first wet dream or ejaculation, she's going to use that as the time period between orgasms for a while, with the intent of lengthening the times between until it is permanent. Hot, but frightening too. She wants to have me come in a safe, non-smelly, manner, so it'll be while wearing a condom. She said not to worry, she's going to make it fantastic for me, which is wild because she's never had any interest my penis or orgasms before.

Also, as soon as the PA cage is ready and fits well, I'm to start masturbating daily, away from her, but with a video of her for inspiration, (she said she's going to make a hot video for me that'll melt my mind). The masturbation is to make sure all systems are go for baby-making!
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The great thing about a cage with a PA and no testes ring is........no ring around the testes! I am liking that sooooo much.
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NoloMeTangere wrote:
My wife saw what she called "the perfect chastity," but it is just a fictional device I think. Has anyone seen it in real life? Apparently it's a bar that goes down the urethra and exits at a piercing behind the balls. Then it simply locks on and virtually nothing is visible. I have never seen this advertised anywhere, so can anyone comment on the reality or unreality of this device? I know intellectually that a piercing behind the balls would heal almost as well as my PA has, but again, I've never seen this advertised anywhere.
Pure fantasy. I've seen the image you're talking about. While it would make an interesting chastity device, it would require surgery to make it work and would probably cause hygiene problems.

If I remember correctly, the idea was that some kind of plug or something would be at the end coming out of your urethra, and as the rod is pulled through your perineum, it would pull your penis into your abdomen, essentially hiding your penis inside your body and making any physical stimulation or erection impossible. Then the opposite end protrudes out through your perineum and is locked in place.

The first major problem is that you would need to have a urethral reroute surgery to reposition your urethra to a location (probably just behind the rod in your perineum) so you could pee.

The second problem is that having your penis pulled into your abdomen would let dead skin cells and bacteria accumulate. You would almost certainly suffer frequent infections. You would needto remove the contraption frequently to prevent this.

It makes for a hot fantasy, but in reality it would be terrible. Your choice of PA and Lori's device are probably the best combination available for security and long term hygiene.
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Hi Shepherdsflock,

Later the same night I thought, WTF am I even thinking about this for? *Behind* my balls? Ick! Hell no. I realized later that would have to be some sick fantasy.
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Well, I been unlocked for two or three weeks, and unlike some people, I don't find that my orgasms are fantastic after a long period of denial. In fact, they're kind of more - meh - than they ever were. I always crave them and feel that I *have to* have them, but the orgasm itself is just meh. I should add that masturbating with the piercings is a little bit finicky - not at all impossible, just finicky.

My wife are working on getting pregnant now because she is completely confident that permanent chastity can work for us. About a month ago, I was in chastity, and I was making love to my wife. I got this insane level of need to enter her. I tried desperately to get the cage off, but I was stymied by the cage and the piercings that really slowed everything down to a halt. We've talked about it, and she says she just feels so warm and safe and loved now that I've had the piercings. On my end, although I found chastity fantasies hot, the reality was initially not what it was cracked up to be, but now after several months, I find the teasing and intense denial more and more attractive, and I love what it's done for my wife. I've had several piercings so far, and I can't have any more right now because we're *busy* but my wife and I agreed that I'm going to get enough to complete my crown piercing, about six more. She really loves the way they look - she has several herself.

My wife revealed that she had been considering not having PIV, even for the pregnancy, because she just found that idea so hot, but she decided ultimately that it would just make things too difficult and time consuming. Instead, we've been doing PIV. We watch some lesbian porn (our favorite) and then I eat her. She's taken to queening me sometimes, which I love. Then PIV with her encouraging me to come as fast as possible. If I don't come in five minutes, we try again later. We have the fans on and an air purifier going to take care of any smell issues that might arise.
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I noticed that my wife is slower to climax lately. She confessed that having PIV has really turned her off lately. We talked about it, and getting her pregnant is a priority, so we were trying to think of what to do. She told me that just the idea of my ejaculating at all, let alone inside of her is such a turn-off that she's beginning to dread the whole thing. We've decided to use the temperature timing method to improve our chances. In the meantime, we'll separate love-making from my ejaculations by making love with me in chastity, and having me enter her and ejaculate only when I'm about to come.
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First post in a while because I haven't really been been in chastity that much because we're (still) trying to get pregnant. My wife and I decided against having PIV, even for the pregnancy, because she was slower to climax due to the fact that just the idea of my ejaculating at all, let alone inside of her is such a turn-off for her. We're using the temperature timing method to reduce the need for me to ejaculate inside (or near) her. We thought she'd "caught" about two month ago, but she hadn't, and her period was on time last month, so we're waiting for this period.
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