Mistake Made - Advice needed

[Scooby]

My wife have been playing for the last 6 months, our chastity contract came to an end a couple of weeks ago so as we were both getting so much out of it we regnegotiated our contract for another 2 years. We decided to step it up a bit so rather than me being guaranteed an orgasm at least every 2 weeks (unless significant misbehaviour) there is now no obligation for me to recieve anything. Furthermore to ensure compliance I've put a lot more on the line in terms of financial control for her and agreements around exposure if I break the terms

It was really hot, we negotiated the terms over dinner, it lasted 2 hours and eventually we both got what we wanted. I printed off two copies, we signed, then cuffed myself ready for the locking.

She had obviously been one step ahead as rather than putting my CB6k back on she produced a custom fit Lori tube. It fits so well, too well, it's quite a bit narrower and shorter in length. I've always had a really high libido and found that even in my CB6k I could get myself off, it took a while and wasn't as fulfilling as a real orgasm but hell it relieved the pressure. The Lori tube is a different matter, I spend hours at the weekend when she was out at the shops trying, unsuccessfully to cum. To make matters worse she has said to celebrate the new contract we are going for a new record of 1 month. She thinks I managed 22 days before but in reality I must have cheated 4 or 5 times in that period.

Should I confess? I feel this may antagonise her somewhat. It's been 5 days and I've tried everything to reach orgasm but failed. There doesn't seem a way to cheat the device and I really don't think I could handle another week of this let alone another month. not sure what options I have.

Has anyone else had a similar problem? Thought appreciated?

[LockedUp24]

Telling her will probably upset her. But that's your choice.

Or you could try make it through the month by focusing on pleasing her.
I've found if I can give my KH an orgasm it will tie me over but only for a few days before you will get lustful again.
Also try to avoid porn or sexual imagery (difficult to do these days)

[Lockedchef]

Just curious what Lori tube is it ?

As far as your situation goes I suggest you grin and bare it for the next month.

May be there is a chance of you calling a mulligan on the contract since the Lori tube wasn't part of the original discussion.

[Lockedchef]

Then I just looked at your post history or lack of I should say. Two years ago you posted you have been doing this for 5 years.....

So does that mean for the last seven years you have been bull shitting her and she doesn't know you have been escaping and cheating?

[TwistedMister]

So does that mean for the last seven years you have been bull shitting her and she doesn't know you have been escaping and cheating?

I kind of think that the introduction of the new device might very well mean that she *does* know, and made a plan to stop it.

Should I confess? I feel this may antagonise her somewhat. It's been 5 days and I've tried everything to reach orgasm but failed. There doesn't seem a way to cheat the device and I really don't think I could handle another week of this let alone another month. not sure what options I have.

You don't have any options.

What good do you think it would do to 'confess'? I doubt that it would do anything positive, it appears to me that she already knows, all you can do now is grin and bear it. Think about it- Why would she take it upon herself to get a new device, that makes it more difficult to 'cheat' (without consulting you about it) if she didn't already know that you were 'cheating'?

It was really hot, we negotiated the terms over dinner, it lasted 2 hours and eventually we both got what we wanted.

If you got what you wanted, why are you complaining?

Evidently, she got what *she* wanted, but you thought you were 'putting one over' on her, you thought you were being a sly little devil, you thought that you could afford to be cavalier about it because you could 'cheat' any time you wanted...and now it turns out that you were out-foxed.

You cannot complain or 'confess' without looking duplicitous and weak. You've made your bed, now you'll need to lie in it.

[cycling2work]

Congratulations to your wife.
You introduced chastity to her, right?
At long last you got what you wished for

In all seriousness - agree with the folks above. "She knows" and it is absolutely no good to confess. Just play a long and enjoy the ride.

[Scooby]

Thanks for the advice all, I agree I don't think confessing will make anything better.

Up till now it's all been a bit of play, the last contract took it to the next level (tease-n-please has a great starter). This new one though.... I was thinking of suggesting a re-negotiation but am really in two minds. There are things I took out that she wanted and if we both agree to altering the terms we can write it up. There were a number of big ones I wouldn't agree to like total control over what I wear in private and public; revoke all my cards and have her manage a budget for me, piercings (undefined where but she can demand if she wants) - She got prety much everything she wanted.

I think the devince is a Lori #2, I looked it up, looks the same. I aslo read a review that you can pull out, don't know how they managed that. Tried ice, tried a hot bath, tried everything.

I could try the contract null and void route but it does just refer to a "chastity device", it doesn't specify what kind. I don't think that'll get far or go down too well

[slave d]

I think you've got EXACTLY what you asked for AND that your wife is far more knowledgable than you think !! Trying to get out of the contract now is just a wimp-out !! As the saying goes "be careful what you wish for" !!!

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[wishful4]

Agree with most everyone here. You have been talking the talk, so it's time to walk the walk.

[SwedInLoriTube]

Scooby, the mistake you made is probably not you to sign the contract. Your mistake was your cheating. Now, enjoy your horniness as this is whats it all about and adore and please your women thus moving your minds focus to something outside yourselfe. Activity takes your mind of your horninness. Just take a walk or do some exercise. IF you're not into physical training start today!
Or do a 100% confession. Your wife is probably much more intuitive than you think. Most women are. How come she presented the Lori tube the way she did, huh? Or you are just making up a good story here? And are you pierced? Lori does not make to many devices for non pierced. And a last thought, is this story is true, be very thankful for your wife. She seems a very good women