Wait to be told to Lock Up or Just do it anyway.

[LockedUp24]

When you have a little break or a refitting or what ever
Do you wait until told to relock in or would you just go ahead and do it anyway.

I guess with being told to do it there is some excitement rather than the latter.

[slave d]

Your signature says it all ........... wait until you're TOLD !!

d

[Namron]

My KH kept me unlocked for the last month and it was really hard (no pun intended) to not ask whether I was ever going back in. Suddenly, over the weekend she says its probably time to go back in. Then she proceeded to edge me last night and first thing this morning. Keeping her word, she locked me back in this morning. Dang that is hot! Especially with the extra verbal and touching teasing before heading to work.

She holds the key; she makes the rules; she decides when to lock/unlock.

[Grizzly228]

While it can be hotter to be told so, I often initiate it if my gf doesn't. Sometimes she's still a little timid about bringing it up unless it's been a long time so I think by me locking it and not telling her, it's a surprise when she finds out I've already been locked for a day or more. And then she can feel comfortable knowing the game is on. I think it takes some of the stress and responsibility off of her as she is not naturally dominant. So I'd suggest if you are ready to be locked up, go for it yourself and then hand her the key when she least expects it. So far it's turned out well for me.

[carolina cyclist]

I used to always put it back on without being told....now I wait. Last year, sometime in October/November, MrsL had released me and teased me to several near orgasms. When she was finished she got up and left the room without saying anything. I took a shower, shaved, and put the Steelheart back on and walked down to have her lock me up. She looked at me and said I was going to let you have an orgasm tonight but since you put it back on I will wait...!

So, now I wait.

[locked4her55]

Whenever I am allowed a release she does the unlocking and removes the lock. She will then take the lock and place it on my dresser. Depending on how the lock is placed is my signal of what to do when she is done with me. Lock in the up position, I'm allowed to be out and free. Lock on it's side then I am to put my cage back on. Hence, up means I'm allowed to be "up", down means I'm to be "down".

Lock doesn't remain in the up position too often . . . if ever.

[Jedi]

Communications! It seems that you should be asking this of your key holder, not random people on the internet who share a similar interest. For Jewels and I, I quite frankly asked her "Do you want me to place myself back in chastity after we play or should I wait until you ask me to?" Her answer is that I should always assume that I am to be locked back up and that she will tell me if she wants me to wait. Clear as can be for me once I communicated with my key holder/wife.

[cycling2work]

Jedi » Wed Jan 20, 2016 9:58 pm

Communications! It seems that you should be asking this of your key holder, not random people on the internet who share a similar interest. For Jewels and I, I quite frankly asked her "Do you want me to place myself back in chastity after we play or should I wait until you ask me to?" Her answer is that I should always assume that I am to be locked back up and that she will tell me if she wants me to wait. Clear as can be for me once I communicated with my key holder/wife.

+1

[knighterrant]

Do you wait until told to relock in or would you just go ahead and do it anyway.

I wait to be told to lock up.

I REALLY wait to be told to unlock.

[LockedUp24]

Interesting answers.

I suppose this would not make sense to those who have guidelines or rules to follow.

At one point we used printed guidelines but over the time of chastity play I've had so many unlock days for healing or other problems we stopped with guidelines mostly from her disappointment at our progression.