Something to share with your "hesitant" wife

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Something to share with your "hesitant" wife

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As you know if you follow my posts I like to digg deep if a topic interests me. So thought I would share what I found.
A research published by the US National Library of Medicine and the National Institutes of Health found that after 7 days of not ejaculating, men’s testosterone levels reached 145.7% of the baseline. The interesting thing is that they didn’t observe significant fluctuations from the baseline on days 2 through 5. The research also showed that the peak levels were at day 7
When sex is performed with the recommended Tao frequency, it becomes an inexhaustible source of energy, like a well that never runs dry.

However, when ejaculation frequency exceeds the capacity of the body to fully replenish semen, men can experience chronic fatique, low resistance, loss of sexual drive, loss of focus and irritability. Long term excessive ejaculation can cause chronic low zinc conditions which can cause chronic fatique, mental confusion and significant loss of sexual drive.

It is also considered harmful to ejaculate when ill, drunk or gorged with food.
Almost every paragraph is so well written that I would like to quote - out of fairness I will not do so but send you to the source: http://www.1vigor.com/article/ejaculation-frequency/
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I can attest to this. Before being locked up by my g/f, I would masturbate at least every other day and would experience chronic fatigue and those other symptoms. I was on an average of 30 days between orgasms and I have all kinds of energy and sharp concentration. Now we are working toward an orgasm for me every 60 days. I asked her to lock me up for our relationship and the new found energy is a great side effect. I feel like I'm 20 years old again! :D
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Thanks for taking the time to reply. Glad it is working out for you. I shared the article with my wife yesterday. She happily read it and had an evil grin when doing it. We are new to the Chastity play and I have not gone for more than 6 days yet but considering the quote from Sun Simiao:
"A man may attend health and longevity if he practices an ejaculation frequency of twice monthly, or 24 times a year. If at the same time he pays careful attention to proper diet and exercise, he will live a long and healthy life."


I want to head for this as the standard and I am pretty sure I have my wife on board. She loves the new me as I managed to stop the minimum once per day masturbation.
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cycling2work wrote:Almost every paragraph is so well written that I would like to quote - out of fairness I will not do so but send you to the source: http://www.1vigor.com/article/ejaculation-frequency/
That page doesn't seem to load for me. It just hangs with half the page loaded, the actual article not appearing at all. :(
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definitely works for me, perhaps it was down for a moment? Try with a different browser...
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thatcantbe wrote:
cycling2work wrote:Almost every paragraph is so well written that I would like to quote - out of fairness I will not do so but send you to the source: http://www.1vigor.com/article/ejaculation-frequency/
That page doesn't seem to load for me. It just hangs with half the page loaded, the actual article not appearing at all. :(

Great article.
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Here is another one.
5 Surprising Health Benefits of Semen Retention!

Again, please see the entire article, very well written. Here is one of the money quotes:
“An ounce of semen is considered to be equal in value to sixty ounces of blood, of which it constitutes an extract of some of its most valuable of constituents.” In Tibetan medicine, it is said that “seven drops of the vital essence of food are required to produce one drop of the vital essence of blood. And it takes one cup of the vital essence of blood to produce one drop of the vital essence of semen.” By this measure, semen is literally more precious than blood!

*With this being the case, I find it interesting that men & women are only able to donate blood once every 6 weeks, yet it is considered normal and “healthy” in western medicine & sexology for a man to ejaculate as often as every day!
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I love when science supports my kinky lifestyle
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After having read Mistress Iveys book The Ultimate Guide To Tease & Denial for the second time :)
I will add it to the list of things to share with your KH. I think my wife started reading it. Waiting for some reactions. Would be amazing if she makes use of some of the advice.
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Here is another one:

Male Chastity - Pleasure and Devotion, the Science Behind It

I found it through the recommendation of Linus.
The key to the chaste man’s long term mood elevation - his increased feelings of happiness and satisfaction, is that although his dopamine levels are continuously being raised above normal for the months in between orgasms, without orgasm he never triggers the surge in prolactin that lowers dopamine levels. Throughout the day, every day he is in his chastity belt, aware that he has turned over control of his orgasm to his wife, his dopamine level stays elevated. During sexual play and intimacy, when he is teased and denied, particularly when teased to just short or orgasm, his dopamine level is boosted without triggering the corresponding, counterweight of prolactin to defeat it. Making love to his wife and bringing her to orgasm is incredibly arousing for him, boosting his dopamine levels with no subsequent sudden drop of dopamine level for him because he doesn’t orgasm himself.
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