Hello everyone. Me and my wife are both from Iowa, USA and just started to take a dive into this lifestyle, intended as a permanent change.
I have a problem with compulsive madturbation and when looking for info I came across the subject of chastity. of course I've heard of it before, but seeing it again made me think that it coukd be a good tool to help me. I bought a CB3000 and tried it on and requested my wife be a keyholder. She accepted gracefully, immediately, and I am very thankful for that.
Anyway I look forward to the wisdom you all can offer us as we are new and have lots of questions. I am also a professional engineer so I have a technical skillset to offer you all with anything under the sun, as i have many resources at my disposal.
Thanks for reading.
Trent
"Hello world" thread
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Hello world 
My wife (39) and I (37) and both slowly transitioning to a 24/7 chastity arrangement for me, after many years of 'toying around' with the subject. I have always found the idea deeply erotic, her not so much, for various reasons....and for me I was disappointed with the rather poor security of our first device. It was a CB6000.
So recently I got a Holy Trainer 2 and surprised her with it, security is awesome (for me anyway, I know for others they can pull out) and to my delight she was very receptive to the idea and after a couple of initial test days locked up, we had the most amazing sex we ever had, which in turn has only encouraged her more.
I'm now into day 5 of lockup since then, and the biggest change from our previous attempts is that she is embracing the key holding aspect much more diligently....ie. not leaving the keys just lying around, teasing me alittle most days.....so I'm hopeful things are on the right track..
If things go well I hope to blog about this in the journey forum...

My wife (39) and I (37) and both slowly transitioning to a 24/7 chastity arrangement for me, after many years of 'toying around' with the subject. I have always found the idea deeply erotic, her not so much, for various reasons....and for me I was disappointed with the rather poor security of our first device. It was a CB6000.
So recently I got a Holy Trainer 2 and surprised her with it, security is awesome (for me anyway, I know for others they can pull out) and to my delight she was very receptive to the idea and after a couple of initial test days locked up, we had the most amazing sex we ever had, which in turn has only encouraged her more.
I'm now into day 5 of lockup since then, and the biggest change from our previous attempts is that she is embracing the key holding aspect much more diligently....ie. not leaving the keys just lying around, teasing me alittle most days.....so I'm hopeful things are on the right track..
If things go well I hope to blog about this in the journey forum...
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Hello, we have just joined here yesterday. It has been great looking through the forum posts. We are a couple from the UK. We have been into kinky activities for more years than we care to remember. I am Julie, 57 years old and my husband is John the same age. I have been switch for most of our relationship but now tend to be the Dom in our relationship. Last year I read an artical on male chastity and it just sparked something in me. I mentioned it to my husband and told him from that tme I would be in total control of his manhood from that moment. He will only be able to orgasm on my say so and only if he is stimulated by whatever means I do. Never by his own hand....ever..... This setup is working very well for us and he has become the most loving and attentive person. I love to unlock him and tease him and lock him back up again, or just totally ruin his orgasms. he has not come propper in over a year. I am just loving the control I have over him. Please feel free to chat anytime I dont bite...unless you want me to... 

- locked4her55
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Julie Morgan wrote: I dont bite...unless you want me to...


Welcome to all of our new members. Glad to have you on board.
Happily secured since 4/2010 
Have worn CB3000, CB6000s, MM Jail Bird & Watchful Mistress,
DHgate A271 & 273, DHgate Full Stainless Steel Belt & DHgate HT nub
Currently wearing A273

Have worn CB3000, CB6000s, MM Jail Bird & Watchful Mistress,
DHgate A271 & 273, DHgate Full Stainless Steel Belt & DHgate HT nub
Currently wearing A273
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Hello. New to forum, wife has me locked in MM jailbird for two weeks now. She seems interested in everything so far and I think she is registering on this forum. So far, I think its going great. Can't keep my hands off of her. I think she likes the power. Thanks for letting us in, should be a good time.
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Hello World!!
My husband and I have been married for almost 12 years and been together for over 20 years. High school sweethearts! We have been trying to find new ways to get that spark back. We have been practicing male chastity for a few weeks now and have had a good outcome so far. Looking forward to getting some good advice on the forum to help us along the way!
My husband and I have been married for almost 12 years and been together for over 20 years. High school sweethearts! We have been trying to find new ways to get that spark back. We have been practicing male chastity for a few weeks now and have had a good outcome so far. Looking forward to getting some good advice on the forum to help us along the way!
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I wanted into introduce myself. I am a Domme and Keyholder for my hubby. We live in a 24/7 Wife Led Marriage. We live in Texas and have been married for almost 17 years. Hubby last sexual experience with me will be in October and then he will be put in permanent chastity I am MD and he is sh but he is not a member.
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Hello World!
For my first device I'm looking at a chinese clone of the CB6000 or the CB6000s and am just weighing up the options between them. Once that's done, I'll naturally become locked for longer and longer

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Well... Hello World!
My name is Alex, and I've been trying to make chastity work for my Wife/Mistress and myself for a few years now. We have been through a CB-6000 (or -- to be fair, possibly a Chinese knockoff), a Bon-4 silicone, and a Holy Trainer 2.
The CB-6000 was the first, and what a thrill it was the first time my Wife/Mistress snapped that lock closed! About ten times more intense than I expected. Unfortunately, after less than a week, the thing gave me a NASTY shallow cut on the bottom of my scrotum. I couldn't keep wearing it. Even if I were to "man up" and endure the pain (and Good Goddess did it HURT!) the risk of infection was too great. Thumbs down!
Next was the silicone Bon-4. What a huge PITA to get into! But once I was in, so comfortable! Like I wasn't even wearing it! Then, a few days later, I moved wrong while sitting watching TV, and POP! Just like that, I really wasn't wearing it anymore. The whole thing just popped right off me. Thumbs down #2!
On to a Holy Trainer 2. Such high hopes! The oval ring felt better than the round CB style, the design was so simple and elegant, two pieces (or three if you count the magic locker). Did we finally have it? Nope. It cut my scrotum like the CB-6000. Not as bad, but I think that was only because I recognized the symptoms from before, and begged my Wife/Mistress/Key-holder to put a stop to things before the cut got too bad. Thumbs Down #3!
Enough fooling around with plastic toys! Two weeks ago I ordered a Jailbird from MM. I wait in joy and trembling for its arrival. . .
Any way, hello and it's great to be here!
My name is Alex, and I've been trying to make chastity work for my Wife/Mistress and myself for a few years now. We have been through a CB-6000 (or -- to be fair, possibly a Chinese knockoff), a Bon-4 silicone, and a Holy Trainer 2.
The CB-6000 was the first, and what a thrill it was the first time my Wife/Mistress snapped that lock closed! About ten times more intense than I expected. Unfortunately, after less than a week, the thing gave me a NASTY shallow cut on the bottom of my scrotum. I couldn't keep wearing it. Even if I were to "man up" and endure the pain (and Good Goddess did it HURT!) the risk of infection was too great. Thumbs down!
Next was the silicone Bon-4. What a huge PITA to get into! But once I was in, so comfortable! Like I wasn't even wearing it! Then, a few days later, I moved wrong while sitting watching TV, and POP! Just like that, I really wasn't wearing it anymore. The whole thing just popped right off me. Thumbs down #2!
On to a Holy Trainer 2. Such high hopes! The oval ring felt better than the round CB style, the design was so simple and elegant, two pieces (or three if you count the magic locker). Did we finally have it? Nope. It cut my scrotum like the CB-6000. Not as bad, but I think that was only because I recognized the symptoms from before, and begged my Wife/Mistress/Key-holder to put a stop to things before the cut got too bad. Thumbs Down #3!
Enough fooling around with plastic toys! Two weeks ago I ordered a Jailbird from MM. I wait in joy and trembling for its arrival. . .
Any way, hello and it's great to be here!
Locked in a MM Jailbird, by my beloved wife LadyD.
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Hopefully the Jail bird will fit properly the first time out. Most often they need adjusting. BUT, once they fit correctly, there is NOTHING like it. Best of luck!
Past Devices: Curve & CB 6000s. Both broke, were repaired; then broke beyond repair. I threw the dreaded Spiked Chamber away.
Current Devices: MM Jail Bird, Cobra, MM Watchful Mistress, Holy Trainer v3, and a new Curve.
Current Devices: MM Jail Bird, Cobra, MM Watchful Mistress, Holy Trainer v3, and a new Curve.