Permanent Chastity or Permanent Orgasm Denial

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Part 6: Update from Claire

It has been a long journey for us and we both are still learning. However, I am very pleased about where we are. I could not ask for a more loving and attentive spouse. Any woman with a chaste male knows that he requires attention daily. Just imagine what it is like with a permanently chaste male. The chance for an orgasm for him is not on the table as a motivator for good performance, so I have to be more creative to keep him interested and eager to please. One of the very best tools I’ve found is the butt plug. I ordered three different sizes; small, medium and large. The small helped him get used to being penetrated back there, but is not of much use otherwise because it won’t stay in. The medium plug works well and is what we are using presently. It is like a lovely little assistant KeyHolder in that it stimulates and arouses John all the time. That makes my job easier. I try to make sure he is plugged two or three days a week for several hours each time. John doesn’t know about the large butt plug but he will be introduced to it in time. Thinking about working that big plug into him just makes me delightfully wet. It probably wouldn’t be considered “manly” for John to admit he likes anal penetration, but I think he enjoys my little assistant KeyHolder. Poor John leaks so much while he is plugged, his underwear is soaked by the end of the day.

About once every two weeks or so, we do a very thorough cleaning of our home. We have a certain protocol that we follow and John knows what his duties are. I pitch in to help as well. One of the secrets to keep a chaste male eager to please is to understand that there needs to be a sexual aspect to everything he does for you. I like the thought that he is having an erection attempt in his cage while doing a chore for me. Before we start cleaning, I often direct John to strip and hand him a pair of my silky panties to wear while he cleans. He love the satiny feel of my undies so it gets him going and swelling in his cage. As I am gathering up the soiled clothes for the laundry, I will often stop John from what he is doing so he can sniff my worn panties for a few seconds, then pat his behind and tell him to get back to work. Little things like this keep him aroused and happy. Once he is finished with the bathrooms and ready to start on the floors, I sometimes summon him into the bedroom and direct him onto the bed on all fours. I pull down his pretty panties that are already soaked in the crotch and insert the medium size butt plug, telling him how sexy he looks and how this will help him concentrate on doing a better job on for me. His whimpering really makes me wet. Once all the cleaning is done, it’s time to shower and get dressed. We shower together and I will sometimes get the key to his device and unlock him for a thorough cleaning. I will remove the cage and gently stroke him while telling him what a good job he did on the house cleaning. If I notice him getting too excited, I stop stroking and, after his erection softens a bit, slide the cage back on and re-lock him. I don't have to be rushed because his little penis is slower to erect after being locked for a long time. Then I turn him around and remove the butt plug so it can be cleaned. John is well trained and knows it is a standing rule that he is not allowed to touch MY penis while unlocked and he is very good about automatically clasping his hands behind his back. After he is re-locked, I direct him to take his time and thoroughly soap up my body and massage it paying special attention to my nether regions. If I’m in the mood, I will let him spend some quality time with his tongue down there. I do my best to make the whole day a sexy event. In the end, I’m a sexually satisfied KeyHolder with a clean house, and a highly aroused husband ready to do anything to please me. I do love a clean house.

You have to be spontaneous and creative with a permanently chaste male. Never miss an opportunity to make him swell in his cage. He will love and worship you even more. Earlier this evening john and I were watching a great movie on DVR, along with some cuddling, kissing, and drinking wine. I was feeling particularly naughty. I got so involved in this one scene we were watching that I put off my bathroom break too long. Finally I paused the movie, got up and literally ran to the bathroom, but I didn’t make it. My panties were soaking wet. As I walked back into the family room bottomless with wet panties and pants in hand, John was laughing at me. I walked straight over to where he was seated and told him to open his mouth. I stuffed the wet portion of the panties in his mouth and told him to keep them there until there was no trace of pee left in them. After cleaning up I returned to the sofa to finish our movie. I looked at John and chuckled to myself. Here we are, a regular old married couple, spending a night at home watching a movie, except for the fact my John’s ass is plugged and he has a pair of pee soaked panties in his mouth and is looking at me like a puppy in heat. I’m sure he was swelling in his cage, as well. I refilled my wine and restarted the movie with a smile on my face. Life is good.
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Part 7: Thoughts from John

Can permanent male chastity result in a man’s brain being “rewired” or “reprogrammed”? I wonder about this at times because it seems that thoughts of Claire have been imprinted on every one of my brain cells. I think about her almost constantly during the day no matter what I am doing. I often dream about her during my sleep. When I look in the mirror, sometimes it’s as if I’m looking at a different person. Do I like this new person? Yes, I do. It is a man that Claire has made. He is a better person, a better husband, and a better lover. He has a much better relationship with his wife than the previous guy did. I credit all of these improvements to Claire and where she has taken our relationship.

Now that I have been chaste for so long, what do I fantasize about? My most vivid one is that I am unexpectedly left unlocked for the day. Claire has been called away in an emergency (being a nurse) and has to leave in such a hurry, she forgets I am unlocked. Once she is gone, I set about getting things ready for a marathon masturbatory session which builds up to a massive orgasm much like she used to give me early on. I have my favorite porn sites up, my lube handy, and start the long stroking towards a long awaited spurt. I have a mind blowing orgasm, rest for a while, then start all over again. This goes on and on until I am exhausted.

If this happened in reality, which it could, things would most likely occur much differently. If Claire left me alone and unlocked, I would likely initially panic as it would be completely unexpected. As my anxiety built, I’m sure I would probably lock my chastity devise on then call or text her for instructions. Once I gifted Claire my permanent chastity, she told me many times in the months to follow that I should never, ever, have an unauthorized orgasm without her permission even if I had the opportunity. Claire promised, as my KeyHolder, that she would try her best not to allow me exposure to such a situation. However, if the situation occurred, I should do anything necessary to avoid the temptation to masturbate. She said if I had an unauthorized orgasm, it would jeopardize everything we have worked so hard to accomplish, and would severely damage our bond of trust. It would be cheating on her. She has reiterated in the strongest of terms that I should do my best to never allow it to happen. So, in that light, I could never do it without feeling such a mountain of guilt afterwards and would never be able to hide it from her. I would rather suffer anything than lose the relationship bond that we now have.
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Part 8: More thoughts from Claire

To date, I am very happy with our progress, especially John’s increasing submissive behavior to me. Although I really don’t see myself as especially dominant, I do know what I want from my spouse and from our relationship and I direct John’s actions in that regard. Our life has been much of the same of late. Yesterday was our usual house cleaning protocol. Along with that, we took some time off for a practice session with the large butt plug. Yes, John was introduced to the new large plug a couple of weeks ago. He had been cleaning in his usual silk panties with the medium butt plug inserted, so I placed him on all fours, popped his medium plug out, and we did a few minutes of insertion practice with him trying to accommodate the large plug. He still could not take it all the way in. Afterwards, the medium plug was re-inserted and it was back to work for John. It left both of us very aroused.

Once the cleaning was over and John was waiting for the floors to dry, I called him over to where I was sitting. I told him to kneel and put his head in my lap. As I ran my fingers through his hair, gently rubbed his ear lobes, and massaged his shoulders, I praised his house cleaning and told him how much I loved what he did for me. He thanked me for allowing him to serve and told me he was so aroused and horny, probably more than ever before. Hearing that, I had him raise his head so I could pull up my short skirt, spread my thighs, and then place his nose into the wetness of my panties. I held his head there and told him I needed to talk and he needed to listen. He moaned and remained quiet. Continuing, I reminded John that we have been working on the large butt plug for about two weeks now and, today, I got the sense that he was tensing up on purpose and not letting it go all the way in. I told him that I know what is best for him and that he would learn to love the large plug. I encouraged him to try and really relax in our next session and let nature take its course, and the plug would go all the way in. He nodded his understanding. I left him there for another 20 minutes or so to take in my scent before dismissing him to finish with the cleaning. It is very important for a KeyHolder to be able to ratchet a chaste male's arousal up even when he thinks he is at his limit. True to his word, two days later, the large plug went all the way in with a little encouragement from me and John spent much of the afternoon with it securely embedded in his backside. I was very proud of him for his effort and rewarded him by allowing him to orally pleasure me to several orgasms. His little penis was rock hard in his cage and dripping continuously with the large plug in. I was ecstatic and expect that he will be plugged with it quite frequently. John complains a little about the large size of our new plug, but his little rock-hard penis bulging inside the small cage and dripping like a leaking faucet doesn't lie. It is hitting the right spot and John will get to spend plenty of quality time being stimulated and aroused with my "plus size" assistant KeyHolder. I just love it when a new "labor saving" device really works.

Additionally, we have also recently purchased a new, non-metal, custom chastity device that I can lock with a sturdy zip-tie and numbered seal. It fits perfectly just like his stainless steel device and will make it unnecessary to unlock him for occasions where he would be going thru the older style metal detectors. That means he can remain locked in some situations where he couldn’t before and that’s a plus. John has said he views the chastity device as an extension of my control and I want him to have that feeling as much as practical.

What does the future hold? No one knows, but I have realized John has a very deep-seated need to be submissive and to serve me. His permanent chastity really compliments his submissiveness. I certainly intend to encourage this in his training and keep his arousal at a constant high level. His single purpose during our lovemaking will continue to be my pleasure and my orgasms, as it should be. As a matter of fact, John calls them “our” orgasms. During our cuddling afterwards, he often tells me he can feel the sexual energy of my orgasms. That just thrills me and I am so proud of his progress. I want to keep that volcano of constant desire bubbling in the pit of his stomach. My intention is that he will not have a full orgasm for the rest of his sexually active life and he will spend much of that time securely locked in one of his chastity devices. I am thoroughly convinced it is what he needs and, deep down, what he really desires.

In closing, I have received several emails lately from women (and men) insisting that what I’m doing to John is cruel and unusual punishment. Though I respect everyone’s opinions, I just think they simply don’t understand the consensual nature of our relationship. When John gave me his gift of permanent chastity, I didn’t realize it at the time, but I would be giving him a gift, too. That is the gift of permanent arousal and constant yearning, plus the pleasure of serving and pleasing me. When I occasionally ask him if he wants to go back to the way things were before chastity, he answers with a resounding “No”! I have a very high confidence that I am loving John the way he wants to be loved. Our lifestyle may not be for everyone, but it certainly has worked for us. It may work for you, as well.
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