monitorman wrote:There is pain in the balls them self, but the most pain comes from the bottom of my scrotum closest to where I wear the ring. Right at the center of the sack. It is kind of a burning feeling. Is this normal and will it go away as I really would like to continue using this as my wife thinks it is sexy.
When first starting with chastity don’t think you have to “man it out”. If can only wear the device for two hours before it becomes unbearable, take it off. As your body becomes accustomed to it things will become more comfortable and the wear durations longer.
I would say the burning sensation is normal. This is the skin stretching on the sac. How does your base ring fit? When first starting, a larger base ring will help. You want the base ring loose enough to be relatively comfortable
but, tight enough to keep the balls from slipping through
. This is trial and error and each person needs to find this compromise on their own. After wearing it this way for a few days, change to a smaller ring. Eventually you will get down to what is the proper size for you. The standard seems to be if you can put a pinkie finger between the sac and ring easily.
As Atone said, lube around the bottom of the ring is your best friend. I also find that silicone works the best. It’s pricy but a bottle lasts a long time. I need just a couple drops. I use the ID Millennium, 5 oz. @ $19, and have been using the same bottle for over six months.
The ball pain is something you have to decide. If your ball sac isn’t decoloured and looks normal you are probably okay. One of the things I did when first starting, was massaging my balls. Grab a ball in each hand and
gently roll between your fingers. Do this also with the cords coming from the balls. If this helps, then start to lightly pull on them. Keep repeating, then adding pressure if you can tolerate it. This is easier to do with the tube off, but can be done with it on. Ask your KH which they would like.
Be sure to tell your KH what you’re doing. The first time I did this her first thought was that I was cheating. After I explained what I was doing she found it exciting. Sometimes now, she'll tell me my balls look sore. I know what to do.