Need help

[GracesWickedHubby]

Hello, everyone.

My Wife and i embarked on our journey into MC and FLR 45 days ago. Things have never been better for either one in this relationship or any other. Grace has decided that as long as We are married, i will be wearing a CD. This makes me deliriously happy.

We have been searching for just what We want, but nothing seems just right. I am currently wearing the Curve, and I have a rubber drillchuck "keyholder" looped through my PA and back through the hasp of the lock. This seems to be a good antipull out, since if i were to "cheat", there's no possible way to hide it. (The CD between my ears is strongest)

Anyway, long story short, we will eventually be wanting metal. We looked at MM, and liked the tube, but She is afraid that i will have too much access to the head. Ideally, if we could combine the MM tube, with a loris tube, I think that would be perfect. An integrated barrel lock would be nice, too.

The one thing that seems to be a deterent to my Wife is complexity on Her part. Even the keychuck strap is meant with loud sighs when i am putting the device on. So something that doesn't have extra screws and different keys and all sorts of things is essential.

Long term comfort is also essential. I want something that will be on 365 days (currently She takes it off at night so that She sleeps better). I would love a device that I can sleep through the night with, but we are getting ahead of ourselves.

Any help pointing in the right direction would be great.

Thanks

[thumper]

We looked at MM, and liked the tube, but She is afraid that i will have too much access to the head.

You'll have *some* access, but there's not much you're going to be able to do with it. It's not like you're going to be able to come that way.

I would love a device that I can sleep through the night with, but we are getting ahead of ourselves.

That comes with time. You're body needs to adjust to the sensation of compression. Unless you just knuckle down and start wearing it at night, you'll never be able to wear it at night. Sort of a chicken/egg thing.

[GracesWickedHubby]

I think the "some access" isn't as big a deal as the difficulting in securing the PA. My current set up works, however, when I have a tired, restless KH trying to snap the thing shut, I get very anxious about her frustration with it.

I definitely want to sleep through the night with it. I have had allergies and am doing nyquil each night and sleeping like the dead (albeit san cage). I wonder if the nyquil induced coma will making my brain ignore the CD?

[Atone]

Steelheart with a PA fixing and integrated lock.

Sorry this is brief but it is being pecked on my iPhone.

[wishful4]

graceswickedhubby,

MM has worked with others to create exactly what they want. If I recall, one person combined a Jailbird with a Steelheart looking end piece where the head is to prevent contact. They emailed drawings back and forth until they came up with what he wanted.

[thumper]

Steelheart with a PA fixing and integrated lock.

Hmm. I should look into that.

Yeah, the two steel manufacturers with which I am familiar (MM and SW) will both do custom work for you. These things are all one-off units anyway.

[Locked by LRC]

graceswickedhubby,

MM has worked with others to create exactly what they want. If I recall, one person combined a Jailbird with a Steelheart looking end piece where the head is to prevent contact. They emailed drawings back and forth until they came up with what he wanted.

I worked with MM and got the device exactly as LRC and I wanted. I wanted only two bars on the end for urination reasons. LRC liked the Jailbird so she could enjoy herself through the bars. The end piece is a Watchfull Mistress. While making it MM encounered an unexpected problem. A few more E-mails and we were able to work this out. A drawing of what we worked out with about 15 E-mails is at the post "Mature Metal Custom" here in Chastity Devices.

If you order a custom be patience. Remember it's not an "off-the-shelf" device. It will take a little longer to make.