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Hello,
I have recently purchased a holy trainer v3 device. I have followed their sizing instructions, however I probably did something wrong. The cage is kind-of bulky and uncomfortable, making me think I bought the ring a size too small. But, and this is the clincher, I can push the device down and pull my penis out, defeating the whole purpose of it.
Is the ring, then, too big? If I buy a smaller one will it fix the issue? If it will, can it become not just uncomfortable but also painful? Any help is greatly appreciated, thanks.

Spend some time reading/searching the forum. The answers are here.

If you can pull out easily, then the ring is too small. I think most devices *are* going to feel bulky and 'uncomfortable', especially in the beginning...a little less, maybe, after you adjust to wearing it...

TwistedMister wrote: ↑Mon Mar 02, 2020 4:27 am If you can pull out easily, then the ring is too small

Wait, too small or too big?

IMHO too BIG is the issue. i have found that getting a ring small enough that i can’t easily pull out the back but still be able to get into (solid ring) basically impossible and so now am on the hunt for a suitable hinged ring. i am very small however so don’t assume that will be the case for you but generally speaking a loose device has too big an A-ring so it’s a matter of trying smaller until you get what works. i use a 36mm HT ring and it’s too big !! They don’t make smaller and so the search for something else.

MsM’s ld

ChastityNoob wrote: ↑Fri Mar 06, 2020 4:07 pm

TwistedMister wrote: ↑Mon Mar 02, 2020 4:27 am If you can pull out easily, then the ring is too small

Wait, too small or too big?

Doh!

Good catch.

Too big. I meant too big. That's the danger of posting at 4 in the morning without sufficient coffee. 'Too small' makes no sense whatsoever. My other excuse is that the night before, Mrs. Twisted let me out, let me fuck, and left me uncaged...and I was sitting here with a tremendous woody and insufficient blood flow to the brain.

TwistedMister wrote: ↑Sat Mar 07, 2020 8:04 am

ChastityNoob wrote: ↑Fri Mar 06, 2020 4:07 pm

TwistedMister wrote: ↑Mon Mar 02, 2020 4:27 am If you can pull out easily, then the ring is too small

Wait, too small or too big?

My other excuse is that the night before, Mrs. Twisted let me out, let me fuck, and left me uncaged...and I was sitting here with a tremendous woody and insufficient blood flow to the brain.

Braggart!

The ring is too small, it's not normal if you can remove it easily.

lockod wrote: ↑Sun Mar 01, 2020 1:22 am I can push the device down and pull my penis out, defeating the whole purpose of it.

First off unless you are using a PA or a urethra tube for security, then you will be able to pull out of any ball trap chastity device. None of them are 100% secure in that manner.

Regardless, if the base ring it not tight enough, when you get an erection the whole device tends to go with the erection and slide down your ball sack. So the tightest ring you can get on without restricting blood is the correct size. I have seen some guys wearing their chasity device with a base ring so loose that the device hangs down on the soft penis. You don't want that.

For the best fitting base ring go to a big box hardware store and get different size silicone "O" rings and see if you can find one that fits tight, but comfortable, that is not restrictive with blood flow. If you penis is deep red and cool to the touch the ring it too tight. With silicone rings, if you get it on and it is too tight you can always cut it off easily. An adult toy store will also sell silicone cockrings in different sizes. They will be more expensive but still less then guessing the size and buying base rings from the chastity device maker.

Once you find a ring, take it off and measure the diameter of the INSIDE of the ring - not the outside. Some chastity device makers sell in inches and others sell in mm.

I have found that if you can get an anatomical designed ring it will fit so much more comfortable. It tends to form and fit firm up against your pubic bone area.

Hope this helps.