Is it just me ?
Posted: Wed Jan 03, 2018 9:02 am
I've posted quite a bit recently, so some of you will know I have a JailBird, and was trying for 24/7 lockup for something approaching 3 months. I won't re-visit the reasons here.
But I find wearing the JailBird all the time well-nigh impossible. The problem is I get discomfort along the lower half of the base ring, relieved only by gently re-arranging the scrotum skin. The skin feels very tight and shiny (shaved), as if it is sticking to the metal.
The puzzle is that I can wear the JailBird all night without the slightest discomfort, and if I wear tracksuit trousers during the evening, again absolutely no problem. It just seems to be during the day, when I am at work (desk/light bench-work). Chastity or not, I have to earn a living and cannot afford (literally) to be so distracted by discomfort that I can't concentrate. So I thought I'd change from briefs to boxers, but that was no improvement, and in fact the lack of any support introduced a feeling of strain from the unsupported weight of the JailBird (why don't I get that with tracksuit bottoms and no underwear? )
The cage is perfect, absolutely no problem. I used the sizing rings to get the base ring size, had similar issues and had a larger ring made which brings us to now. I am awaiting another ring smaller than the first to see if that helps, as if anything, according to the finger insertion test, both the original and second ring are larger rather than smaller than necessary. The gap was established as correct, and the second and third rings are designed to provide exactly the same gap despite the change in base ring diameter (apologies to MM but the cost of shipping and the transit time made finding a local metalworker a better choice)
I get no pain or problems anywhere else, just this one area of skin-metal contact.
I very much want to be able to extend the lockup duration, but I have to bear the practicalities of life in mind, and My Lady doesn't want me suffering - in chastity yes, suffering pain, no. I am currently locked except during my working time, so 16/24/7 hoping for 24/7.
Any thoughts ?
But I find wearing the JailBird all the time well-nigh impossible. The problem is I get discomfort along the lower half of the base ring, relieved only by gently re-arranging the scrotum skin. The skin feels very tight and shiny (shaved), as if it is sticking to the metal.
The puzzle is that I can wear the JailBird all night without the slightest discomfort, and if I wear tracksuit trousers during the evening, again absolutely no problem. It just seems to be during the day, when I am at work (desk/light bench-work). Chastity or not, I have to earn a living and cannot afford (literally) to be so distracted by discomfort that I can't concentrate. So I thought I'd change from briefs to boxers, but that was no improvement, and in fact the lack of any support introduced a feeling of strain from the unsupported weight of the JailBird (why don't I get that with tracksuit bottoms and no underwear? )
The cage is perfect, absolutely no problem. I used the sizing rings to get the base ring size, had similar issues and had a larger ring made which brings us to now. I am awaiting another ring smaller than the first to see if that helps, as if anything, according to the finger insertion test, both the original and second ring are larger rather than smaller than necessary. The gap was established as correct, and the second and third rings are designed to provide exactly the same gap despite the change in base ring diameter (apologies to MM but the cost of shipping and the transit time made finding a local metalworker a better choice)
I get no pain or problems anywhere else, just this one area of skin-metal contact.
I very much want to be able to extend the lockup duration, but I have to bear the practicalities of life in mind, and My Lady doesn't want me suffering - in chastity yes, suffering pain, no. I am currently locked except during my working time, so 16/24/7 hoping for 24/7.
Any thoughts ?