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My understanding is that with a cock ring, you can get erect but not orgasm. Is this right? That might be the way to get around the tease and denial with vaginal intercourse problem I've been mulling over.

Thumper had a picture of the really hot cock ring he wore (no lock) while he was healing from getting his PA.

Somehow, we seem to have gone off topic of sizing, but oh well, who cares. It's all good.

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Dev wrote:Somehow, we seem to have gone off topic of sizing, but oh well, who cares. It's all good.

Ahem. Just when I actually wanted advice...

likes2blocked wrote:

Dev wrote:Somehow, we seem to have gone off topic of sizing, but oh well, who cares. It's all good.

Ahem. Just when I actually wanted advice...

What advice do you need? I am sure someone will help you out...

So back to sizing. I emailed mature metal about size as I was worried that at 2" length my penis would be in contact with the end of the cage at all times, his response was that that is the way it should be. Hopefully that helps someone

Dev wrote:My understanding is that with a cock ring, you can get erect but not orgasm. Is this right?

Sorry, no. What a great device it would be if that were the case. A ring can help most men last longer before orgasm, but it certainly won't stop it.

I wear a cock ring all the time as a virtual chastity device (or as a symbol of my commitment to the honour system, if you prefer), and it doesn't come off when I am occasionally pertmitted to cum.

David wrote:

Dev wrote:My understanding is that with a cock ring, you can get erect but not orgasm. Is this right?

Sorry, no. What a great device it would be if that were the case. A ring can help most men last longer before orgasm, but it certainly won't stop it.

I wear a cock ring all the time as a virtual chastity device (or as a symbol of my commitment to the honour system, if you prefer), and it doesn't come off when I am occasionally pertmitted to cum.

Ah, okay, thank you.

Thinking back on it, I probably knew this (it makes you last longer) but wasn't entirely sure. Thanks for the explanation.

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I've found that a ring can constrict enough that the orgasm has to really push past the obstruction to happen (and not always in a comfortable way). That also tends to trap blood in the penis making the erection harder and, for me anyway, more sensitive.

If you had a ring tight enough to hold an orgasm back entirely, your cock would likely have turned black and fallen off before you had a chance to fuck long enough to come.

Feh, so my post got disappeared. Anyway...

My dilemma is this - if it is too small, then when an attempted erection happens, the ring pulls on your scrotum, and this is not fun. Same problem as not enough lube, get a nocturnal erection, and the head is stuck in the middle of the tube. Not fun.

Too large, and it is too diifcult to conceal, you have extra space, and it won't keep things under control soon enough, which is the problem I had with the Curve. Snug is good.

I'm sure I can figure out the rings, but length is a bit of a dilemma.

likes2blocked wrote: Snug is good.
I'm sure I can figure out the rings, but length is a bit of a dilemma.

What I did for a couple of days was walk around with a piece of paper and periodically went to the restroom and marked with my length. If there were hidden cameras I bet the security people had a good laugh. Your going to want the cage the size you normally are when small... over a couple of days you should get a fair idea where the marks keep falling at.

After all the comments and thinking about it, I re-emailed MM and he is going to make my new device in the 1 3/4" range instead of going up a bit. My wife thinks this is probably a good idea also. I guess it's a mental thing wanting to be a big boy and all.

Chastehusband wrote:So back to sizing. I emailed mature metal about size as I was worried that at 2" length my penis would be in contact with the end of the cage at all times, his response was that that is the way it should be. Hopefully that helps someone

That's interesting because that is not the way the Jailbird presently fits Ab. He has a little bit of room in there---maybe 1/4" to 1/2". I am not going to return the Jailbird for an adjustment (he has been wearing it for 10 days without a break and says it is completely comfortable) but if I were to order another device (which, because I seem to be developing a device obsession I might very well do...LOL) I will probably go for a shorter cage.

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