No, too young for that. I am just a kid.Dev wrote: You must be a baby boomer.
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No, too young for that. I am just a kid.Dev wrote: You must be a baby boomer.
Tell her what you want.jnuts wrote:My keyholder and I need some rules.
Here's our contract:jnuts wrote:My keyholder and I need some rules. It is difficult to play a game when you don't know what the rules are. She knows that she is free to make any rules she likes but i can imagine it is difficult to deal with that broad of a scope and that is why she is having a hard time with it. Anyone want to throw out a list of common rules to give her some ideas? Have looked at some of the contracts on chastity mansion and they all seem really formal and complex.
My keyholder wears her key on a chain around her neck. Believe me when I say all she has to do is hold the key up and look at me to tell me that I have done something that I should not have. Very effective.Dev wrote:A really, really good starting point is for her to get used to the idea of being the keyholder, which means keeping the key hidden and secret.
Good point, thank you... heck, I have the key right out in the open too (although the spare is completely hidden away). My point is/was...take control of the key. Don't leave it lying around or put it some place obvious like your key chain. That is the first major step and for the keyholder it is easy and for the locked person it is extremely important.cb6000s wrote:
My keyholder wears her key on a chain around her neck. Believe me when I say all she has to do is hold the key up and look at me to tell me that I have done something that I should not have. Very effective.