I think I went to the valley...

[fonetik2003]

My Goddess allowed me a one week break from being chaste and I couldn't help but notice that during this week, I was less attentive and had a greater tendency to "fuck off"... I'm pretty sure that this was a test of what happens when her little slut isn't chaste. I believe I need to be locked up to stay on task!

I know I need to clean the bathroom today and I'll request a butt plug to wear while I'm doing it. This is of course, up to Her!

[LockedUpNewb]

I'm the same way. I'm a lazy fuck when I'm not locked up.

Thats why I asked her to begin a chastity lifestyle with me. I'm trying to change my boorish behavior and be a better husband and father. But I'm too weak to make these life altering improvements by myself. I needed some kind of motivation.

The more time we spend playing with chastity, the more 'into it' my wife has become. At first she was totally turned off by the idea and flat refused. I spent many months collecting informative articles from the internet and emailing them to her. She reluctantly agreed to try it as a fun game in the beginning. We've been doing this for almost a year and she now tells me she can't imagine me NOT being locked up. I think I'm pretty much stuck locked up for the rest of my life or until we both get old and bored with sex. But thats what I wanted. We don't live the 'stereotypical' life that most people think of when they hear the words 'male chastity'. She doesn't make me dress in womens clothes or try to feminize me in any way. We aren't into cuckold stuff.

For us, it's more about improving the relationship. We already had a good marriage, but we had a few problems. #1 - me being a lazy ass and not showing her enough love and respect. #2 - she has communication issues.

Chastity works to help solve both of those problems for us because it makes me WANT to help her around the house and be more attentive to her needs. It makes me WANT to please her and shower her with affection. Chastity also creates a dynamic where I don't have to be in control of EVERYTHING around the house. She has taken charge of my sexuality and that frees me to concentrate on other things -- like loading the dishwasher instead of watching porn -- or painting her toenails while she does homework. Chastity has helped her develop a sense of power and she's more open to having discussions with me about our family, relationship, work, money, kids, school work, house work -- where before chastity my wife would barely talk to me.

[fonetik2003]

Yeah I hear ya! I mean, I was a decent slave before... But now that I'm chaste, I'm an excellent slave for my goddess! I show her affection, massage her feet, get her drinks, and clean the house! Now, I actually look for things to do around the house! And, all this activity has gotten me somewhat back in shape! Though I still intend to build a home gym at a later point...

[celticqueens_sub]

And, all this activity has gotten me somewhat back in shape! Though I still intend to build a home gym at a later point...

All that activity and once you have built the gym you'll be that ripped you won't need the gym!

[fonetik2003]

Best case scenario friend! Little update for y'all, my Goddess allowed me an orgasm on Sunday after two weeks of denial and after day one, I'm once again a good slut. I'm thinking that with a device in place around her cock, the Valley isn't somewhere that I'll stay for long...