Chastity Forums

Hello World!

I’ve lurked the internet for ages and have seen all the forums but never participated. Recently started playing with chastity with my wife and this seems like the best place for our experience level.

So hello! Hopefully I can show this site to her and get here on here as well.

Thanks!
M

Hi there. New member here doing his part to defeat the bots! My wonderful wife and I are embarking on an orgasm control journey and I'm looking forward to learning from everyone here.

Thanks,
tdslocum

Greetings All!

61yo, married for 21 years, known my wife for 40+ years, live in the SF Bay Area, South East Bay.

Have read many, many of the posts here and am grateful for all who share their story. Mine is similar to most, yet I still have apprehension.

My wife is not an adventurous type of woman. I’ve been a kink lover for the whole of my life. She mostly entertains my desires out of love, but I can tell she’s not really into it.

For the past 11 years, we’ve not had PIV relations as it’s always been painful for her. I’m not the largest, but each body is built differently, so it’s been manual stimulation for me, she’s a once a year type of girl.

The fear I have is once she gets the keys, it’ll be nothing for me - ignored. But the lack of kink has been difficult.

We’ve talked about Chastity, she’s OK with it and has given her blessing to order one. I’ve ordered and have received a custom Evotion Orion with Frenum piercing.

I’ve not brought it into play yet, as my apprehension is rather high. Mostly, I’ve brought the topic up to gain a bit more comfort from her position. Soon, I’ll take the plunge but am holding out for more input possibly from this forum.

Sorry to be so verbose, thank you to all who’ve created such a safe place for conversation.

Hello everyone!

48 years old, married for 25 (or will be 25 in a month!). My wife and I lead a fairly vanilla life, but after becoming empty nesters earlier this year we have been spicing things up quite a bit!

I have had life long ED issues and have been heading towards chastity as a release from the mental pressure of performing - we have a great sex life, it just doesn't often include PIV sex.

We have been discussing chastity and I have purchased a few "starter" cages lol. Not sure where this will lead for us, but I am excited! (I have wore one of the cages for short periods of time, the longest was putting on in the AM and leaving the key home - while exciting, it was nothing like the shortness of breath I get when I think of my wife in control!) I am hoping that we find a community of like minded individuals to help us over the rough spots! I'm also hoping my wife will join, going to bring it up tonight!

Whatever else happens I offer a hearty "Thank You!!" to people who have posted their story here - I have been reading and enjoying all of the threads for weeks!

Hello everyone's from the UK ' I'm in chastity due to a very high libido that is too much for my wife locked up for long periods but teased several times a day 'I've actually come to like it even the ball crushing.

Hey yall,

I'm 29 years old. Me and my wife have been married for 8 years now and have been doing chastity for a couple of year, buts it's just short spurts to keep life exciting. (Between a week to a month at a time)
I'm excited to gain knowledge fromantic yall and share experiences with you guys.

Thanks

Greetings all. 40/m here. My wife and I are about a month into chastity and we are here to get some experience with the lifestyle. A quick summary...

We started over 10 years ago, I picked up a CB2000 and gave her a keyholder's book. It was awkward but hot. We soon learned that me, being a partially cut extreme grower (1" or less flaccid, 7" erect), couldn't just easily pull out of the cage, but it would flat out fall off. It was extremely frustrating because we both enjoyed me being locked. We ended up destroying the cage and moved on. It hurt us both because we got a peak at the life and both loved it but the cage just didn't fit.

Fast forward through the years and I'd told myself it would never happen again, but ended up buying several cages to try to find one that fit to no avail, always hiding this from my Wife. Finally, as of about 2 months ago, found one that does the trick, it being a resin cage. Eventually, a month later, after building enough confidence, I pulled her into my office, pulled down my pants and to which she replied "aren't you supposed to give ME the key?" It came with two, I placed one on her anklet, and gave her the other to stow away.

I've been locked 90% of the last month. The grower problem with the turtling/slip out occasionally still persists and probably will with any cage without me being pierced but has been alleviated via tight underwear. Our issue right now is, she is unaware of exactly "what to do" with me. We are both into it, for sure, but only scratching the surface. While, like most, my idea of chastity has been molded over the years by porn, the same cannot be said for her. Am hoping to find her an experienced keyholder here to give her confidence and understanding as to what's going on. We have a teenage child in the house, which offers up some challenges and further makes for the necessity of boundaries as well. I look forward to hanging out and getting to know some of you folks.

Hello world! Well well well.. I hope everyone will play nice with newbies…

LilyintheGarden wrote: ↑Mon Jun 28, 2021 4:55 pm Hello world! Well well well.. I hope everyone will play nice with newbies…

We were all newbies at one point, welcome!