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Re: "Hello world" thread

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Wasn’t really sure where to start, but a reddit post led me here.
As soon as I saw your user name I thought "This person came from Reddit." 😅

I suggest some random reading in these forums, which will lead to some more questions. Are you just interested in general, or are you planning on locking up somebody in the near future?
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Hi everyone,

hopefully I've found a place here to discuss the joy and other feelings and problems that come with chastity play in a relationship. I'm from Germany and in my late 30s, married for 10+ years and have 2 amazing kids. Sex life has been low for the last couple of years for me and my beloved wife and so I turned to daily self-relief.
Finally, after my wife confronted me with the lack of passion I had for her, I managed to overcome my fears and explained my desires to be locked in chastity and be more servile in our sex life. She took it very well and and for the last 3 weeks our life has already changed for good in a great way. We haven't had such open discussions about adult stuff before and we keep exploring.
As I am writing this I am locked in a CB6000s but still have access to the keys at all times. I'm getting used to it and can already wear it the whole day. My wife uses it to tease my occasionally, but she's not in "keyholder-mode" (yet?).
I've found new passion for my wife and our relationship and make her feel so much more desired these days. Her sex drive is skyrocketing and we feel as if we were in honeymoon again, only with less orgasms for me ;) .

I'm happy to get in touch with people with similar interest.
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Welcome to our newest members this week and thanks for your intro's

SecondSoul, your story will resonate with many of us here. Good luck as you begin this journey.
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locked4her55 wrote: Fri Nov 13, 2020 12:39 pm your story will resonate with many of us here
Yeah I feel like I could've written it with only a few slightly different details, like the country and the device
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Tom Allen wrote: Fri Nov 13, 2020 5:42 am
Wasn’t really sure where to start, but a reddit post led me here.
Are you just interested in general, or are you planning on locking up somebody in the near future?
i’m interested in general. i’d like another woman’s perspective on it actually, which is why i’m here. i’d read there is a women’s chat and i’d hoped to participate. i’ll definitely start reading through some of these forums too, thanks for the advice.
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YOUSHOUTEDTHIS wrote: Fri Nov 13, 2020 8:54 pm
Tom Allen wrote: Fri Nov 13, 2020 5:42 am
Wasn’t really sure where to start, but a reddit post led me here.
Are you just interested in general, or are you planning on locking up somebody in the near future?
i’m interested in general. i’d like another woman’s perspective on it actually, which is why i’m here. i’d read there is a women’s chat and i’d hoped to participate. i’ll definitely start reading through some of these forums too, thanks for the advice.
There is a women's (Keyholders) forum, but it is locked to keyholders only, it is intended for them to talk amongst themselves without the interference of the guys. One might occasionally participate in the main forums, but it is not particularly common.
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Re: "Hello world" thread

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TwistedMister wrote: Fri Nov 13, 2020 10:00 pm
YOUSHOUTEDTHIS wrote: Fri Nov 13, 2020 8:54 pm
Tom Allen wrote: Fri Nov 13, 2020 5:42 am

Are you just interested in general, or are you planning on locking up somebody in the near future?
i’m interested in general. i’d like another woman’s perspective on it actually, which is why i’m here. i’d read there is a women’s chat and i’d hoped to participate. i’ll definitely start reading through some of these forums too, thanks for the advice.
There is a women's (Keyholders) forum, but it is locked to keyholders only, it is intended for them to talk amongst themselves without the interference of the guys. One might occasionally participate in the main forums, but it is not particularly common.
Sorry, I should have explicitly said I'm a woman in my intro. But I am and am hoping to chat with others regarding their experience being a keyholder
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UnderFoot wrote: Fri Nov 13, 2020 2:41 pm
locked4her55 wrote: Fri Nov 13, 2020 12:39 pm your story will resonate with many of us here
Yeah I feel like I could've written it with only a few slightly different details, like the country and the device
Thanks to both of you for your replies. It makes it much easier to accept yourself once you know there‘s similar people out there. It must have been so much harder before the internet.
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YOUSHOUTEDTHIS wrote: Fri Nov 13, 2020 10:27 pm Sorry, I should have explicitly said I'm a woman in my intro. But I am and am hoping to chat with others regarding their experience being a keyholder
LOL, OK, *now* it's clear. I'll get you fixed up with access shortly...

...and, you're all set. You should be able to see the Keyholder forum now.
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SecondSoul wrote: Fri Nov 13, 2020 6:36 am Hi everyone,

hopefully I've found a place here to discuss the joy and other feelings and problems that come with chastity play in a relationship. I'm from Germany and in my late 30s, married for 10+ years and have 2 amazing kids. Sex life has been low for the last couple of years for me and my beloved wife and so I turned to daily self-relief.
Finally, after my wife confronted me with the lack of passion I had for her, I managed to overcome my fears and explained my desires to be locked in chastity and be more servile in our sex life. She took it very well and and for the last 3 weeks our life has already changed for good in a great way. We haven't had such open discussions about adult stuff before and we keep exploring.
As I am writing this I am locked in a CB6000s but still have access to the keys at all times. I'm getting used to it and can already wear it the whole day. My wife uses it to tease my occasionally, but she's not in "keyholder-mode" (yet?).
I've found new passion for my wife and our relationship and make her feel so much more desired these days. Her sex drive is skyrocketing and we feel as if we were in honeymoon again, only with less orgasms for me ;) .

I'm happy to get in touch with people with similar interest.
Yours is a familiar sounding story that could be many of us. Very similar to our foray into chastity except for the age and the fact that 'Lady took the keys on the first night and hasn't given them back.

Be patient and let her progress at her own pace. That 'yet' may disappear soon. M'Lady started as a keyholder and quickly progressed to Domme and Mistress!
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