hopefully I've found a place here to discuss the joy and other feelings and problems that come with chastity play in a relationship. I'm from Germany and in my late 30s, married for 10+ years and have 2 amazing kids. Sex life has been low for the last couple of years for me and my beloved wife and so I turned to daily self-relief.
Finally, after my wife confronted me with the lack of passion I had for her, I managed to overcome my fears and explained my desires to be locked in chastity and be more servile in our sex life. She took it very well and and for the last 3 weeks our life has already changed for good in a great way. We haven't had such open discussions about adult stuff before and we keep exploring.
As I am writing this I am locked in a CB6000s but still have access to the keys at all times. I'm getting used to it and can already wear it the whole day. My wife uses it to tease my occasionally, but she's not in "keyholder-mode" (yet?).
I've found new passion for my wife and our relationship and make her feel so much more desired these days. Her sex drive is skyrocketing and we feel as if we were in honeymoon again, only with less orgasms for me
I'm happy to get in touch with people with similar interest.