"Hello world" thread

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Hello all :)

I am a single male, been curious about buying a cage for some time. Finally got one today, but it just doesn't fit well at all. Here to ask for help on choosing a proper sized one.

Nice to meet ya!
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Welcome @SelfLocked. Not unusual for the first cage not to fit...usually too large for anything but our ego!
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Hello Everyone,

We have been doing chastity on and off for about a year. We do involve a lot of kink in our relationship and that works for us, I understand that it’s not for everyone. He pointed me to this forum because we’re now looking to do chastity 24/7 as part of a FLR and I really wanted to learn more about it. It’s been a blessing to read all the threads, there’s truly a wealth of information here and reading everyone’s post and answers has taught me more than most of the books I’ve read so far. I think to learn about people’s actual experiences, struggles and success is much more valuable than the fantasies that you read about in most places. Chastity is not perfect, it will seldom be and it changes with the needs and desires of each couple, simply understanding that has given me much more confidence in knowing that I can be the type of Mistress I want to be and I don’t need to worry about following anyone else’s rules.

Looking forward to continuing to learn and grow as we share our experiences with all of you.
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DarlingsMistress wrote:
Sat Sep 28, 2019 4:29 pm
simply understanding that has given me much more confidence in knowing that I can be the type of Mistress I want to be and I don’t need to worry about following anyone else’s rules.
Think your statement is right on! There is no right or wrong way to do this. Sometimes conflict can develop when the chaste male and the keyholder have different ideas about how it should be done. That can be avoided by simply communicating. In my relationship, there was a lot of conflict in the beginning, but she eventually made it clear that, if we were going to do male chastity, we were going to do it her way.
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Welcome to the forum. I see you already have access to the Keyholders Forum so you can talk to the other ladies without prying eyes..
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Re: "Hello world" thread

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Hello all,
I am DarlingsMistress’ sub. As My Mistress mentioned, we have been playing with chastity on and off for about a year. Mistress has now decided that I will remain locked on a somewhat permanent bases, and that it will not be play. We both recognize that real life is going to dictate how this all works out, but I am excited (and a bit anxious) to start this new chapter in our life.

I am currently in my Jailbird (only one I have in my possession). I recently moved and travel for work pretty much weekly, so for the next few months we will be exploring with distance between us. Luckily, I will be able to travel to see her fairly often.

I recently purchased the pink cb3000 for her, and it is waiting for me at her house now. Mistress did not want me to be able to use my travel as an excuse to take off my device. I have TSA pre, so the only time I have to go through the body scanner is when I get randomly selected. I am still nervous though. I am visit Mistress this weekend, and am looking forward to her locking her cock in her new device.
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Welcome @DarlingforMistress Good to see both sides on the slash join in. Usually it's the male first and then the Keyholder/mistress joins later.
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KittensBoyToy wrote:
Mon Sep 30, 2019 10:21 am
Welcome @DarlingforMistress Good to see both sides on the slash join in. Usually it's the male first and then the Keyholder/mistress joins later.
Thank you KittensBoyToy.

I have noticed that the male is usually the first to join. I know that I am not alone, but I do think our situation is in the minority. While I did introduce Mistress to chastity, the evolution happened quite quickly (please point me to the correct place to post that). She now fully embraces it as if it was her idea, and has learned a great deal from CF.
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Hello world!

While not new to kink in general, I've recently discovered the world of chastity kind of by accident even though I have in the past seen it in porn and the like. It was never anything interesting, not a turn-on, but since recently exploring my subby side - I consider myself a switch - I ran across a few blogs, one thing lead to another and I bought a device on the whim. Since then, I've been reading more and more and have meanwhile broken up with my (also switchy) girlfriend for unrelated reasons, but the chastity stuck with me.

I'm now in a CB6K knockoff voluntarily, self-locked, after giving up on a "Mancage model 07 black" because it was just unwieldy (and also too big) and as I'm not really a part of any kinky community, and don't have openly kinky friends, running across this forum from Thumper's blog got me interested... simply to share my journey and also to read about others.
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Re: "Hello world" thread

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Hello!

I’m the MarriedUnicorm and my husband is the Kdog. We have been experimenting with Male Chastity for about 4-6 weeks now. He was the one who introduced the idea into our marriage and so far we’re having a great time!

I’m here to learn more about being a good key holder and about the lifestyle in general. I look forward to reading and learning more!
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