"Hello world" thread

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Re: "Hello world" thread

Post by sherulestherooster » Thu Aug 15, 2019 9:14 am

creampieeatin wrote:
Wed Aug 14, 2019 9:37 pm
Hi all. Joined a while ago, but never got around to posting here. Wife and I have been dabbling with chastity for a little over a year and a half now. She surprised me with a cage just before Christmas. It was interesting being around friends and family for the first time, LOL. Currently, life still gets in the way , but right now it's probably on 1-2 weeks per month. Longest has been for the full month of 'Locktober'. Wife has been exploring her Dom side a bit, so it will be interesting to see where things lead. I'm definitely investigating other cages as the one I'm currently in has flat edges that can irritate after extended wear. So we'll see what direction works best for us.
Welcome. I would say the funnest times being caged is in public situations where we both know "my situation" and our little secret adds an erotic naughtiness to the mix. I think I know the cage you speak of and the flat edges just really messed up with me. Perhaps she should investigate a couple of cheap metal cages with rounded edges - I really do prefer them over the flat edges. Also I think it's hot that she surprised you with it. Interested in your screen name as well.

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Re: "Hello world" thread

Post by creampieeatin » Thu Aug 15, 2019 10:23 am

Name is something she enjoys me doing from time to time. ;-) we've been window shopping a few different cages, so we'll see. Trying to find a good fit without the custom cost would be nice. But if we need to, we can go there.
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Post by KittensBoyToy » Thu Aug 15, 2019 10:39 am

@creampieeatin Welcome to the forum. It definitely sounds like you need a different device. For long term wear nothing is better than a good steel cage. Enjoy the ride!
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Post by CagedW » Thu Aug 15, 2019 10:43 am

Hello
I am just starting on my road to male chastity. I have fantasized about it for years. As I am in a rather vanilla relationship with a long time wife, I have brought it up from time to time with her, but it has never really intrigued her. Thus, nothing has really happened. Our 20th anniversary is in 2 weeks and we are planning for it and it is a really big deal for my wife and I. She asked me what I wanted as a gift and I told her that I wanted to be put in chastity for her and I wanted us as a couple to attempt to live that lifestyle. To my surprise, she kind of liked the idea and said she would look into it. I provided her with a couple of articles and an online book. I am anxiously awaiting her additional thoughts about it. That is where I am at right now. Thank you to everyone who has posted on this board in the past. It has been a wealth of information for me. Today, I decided to break out of my shell of anonymity and sign up...so hello. I so look forward to this potential journey.
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Post by creampieeatin » Thu Aug 15, 2019 12:39 pm

KittensBoyToy wrote:
Thu Aug 15, 2019 10:39 am
@creampieeatin Welcome to the forum. It definitely sounds like you need a different device. For long term wear nothing is better than a good steel cage. Enjoy the ride!
Current one is steel and will stay with steel. Just need to get away from the flat edges. When she has me in it, it is 24 x 7, sleeping , working out etc. The edge cause a little more irritation on some spots after time. Lotion etc helps, but isnt guaranteed.
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Post by sls01234 » Thu Aug 15, 2019 4:16 pm

Chastityat60 wrote:
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I appreciate it.
It has taken us 7 years to get to this point so keep the faith. And be careful what you ask for :D
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Post by locked4her55 » Thu Aug 15, 2019 4:41 pm

CagedW wrote:
Thu Aug 15, 2019 10:43 am
To my surprise, she kind of liked the idea and said she would look into it.
That's great news
CagedW wrote:
Thu Aug 15, 2019 10:43 am
I provided her with a couple of articles and an online book.
https://www.amazon.com/Male-Chastity-Ke ... way&sr=8-1
If this isn't the online book you gave her to read, it should be. Made a BIG difference in jump starting this whole adventure for my vanilla wife.

Best of luck and welcome to the Forums
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Post by CagedW » Thu Aug 15, 2019 4:46 pm

locked4her55 wrote:
Thu Aug 15, 2019 4:41 pm
CagedW wrote:
Thu Aug 15, 2019 10:43 am
To my surprise, she kind of liked the idea and said she would look into it.
That's great news
CagedW wrote:
Thu Aug 15, 2019 10:43 am
I provided her with a couple of articles and an online book.
https://www.amazon.com/Male-Chastity-Ke ... way&sr=8-1
If this isn't the online book you gave her to read, it should be. Made a BIG difference in jump starting this whole adventure for my vanilla wife.

Best of luck and welcome to the Forums
I held my breath when I clicked the Amazon link you provided. I was relieved to see it was in fact the one I had given her. :-). Thank you for the advice. Any more would be appreciated too.
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Post by Chastityat60 » Thu Aug 15, 2019 6:22 pm

Thanks,just might give that a try. Thankfully,, she IS a reader too..hmmmm, brings a certain amount of cautious optomism,. Thanks.
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Post by Chastityat60 » Fri Aug 16, 2019 6:49 pm

I don't mean to sound so down about it. The reality is , we seem to go round and round with this every few years. Even though I call it a game, and I can carry a key for " Emergencies", she wonders why when she is available and willing most any/every day. That answer is me. I'm a twice a month guy. When I masturbate, sex drive dives to zero for a few days. Then slowly within a week or so, I'm back looking... Meanwhile she is using Mr. Vibrator. I can go without satisfying myself usually...I guess I wish she could understand that I fear we are headed towards a sexless marriage. The cage means very little. I can slip out of it with some effort, but why.? I guess first I want her to want me..and second, I would love it for her to see that I view a device as an extension of our wedding band. As another reminder that I am kept for her.
We don't swing and have never cheated on each other with a person. We are clean,healthy,60 and bored. Just trying to do something before we can't. We were the same and 50 last time I bought a device.
I'll take your advice. Thanks.
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