"Hello world" thread

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Re: "Hello world" thread

Post by SupraPandaLol » Sun Mar 25, 2018 3:59 am

Bonjour tout le monde!
I'm Julian, I'm 30, I'm from France. My wife is 27 and we have 2 little girls. I'm belted since 3 years, it's not my wife's idea but mine. I'm looking for a new type of belt but the old forums where I was are dead.
Nice to meet you all!
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Post by Tom Allen » Sun Mar 25, 2018 11:31 am

A lot of the old forums seem to close. Fortunately, it is still easy to find good information.
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Post by Weaponx » Sun Mar 25, 2018 1:17 pm

Hello world. Glad to be here. I am new to this lifestyle and looking for insight. I have intense desires to be controlled sexually by a keyholder, hopefully my wife. I bought a cage, steel one. And I’ve been wearing it for the last few days. She thinks I’m crazy and I’m going to hurt myself. I keep telling her we need to talk, but she keeps avoiding the issue. Any advice? She is pretty shy and “vanilla” I guess is how you describe her. I am pretty much a pervert, which she knows. So I am very willing to jump right into this but she keeps saying I’m a bit weird for wanting to do this. We haven’t had the “talk” yet, I’m nervous as how that will go.
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Post by darcd01 » Mon Mar 26, 2018 6:09 am

hello world,
I'm a married 60 yr old kids out of the house and retired new to the whole concept of chastity but after reading some denying thumper article my curiosity was peaked I've since bought a steelworxx looker 02 and a steelwerks classic and in the process of trying to get my wife on board.
thks
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Post by happilylockedman » Mon Mar 26, 2018 7:14 am

Hello WeaponX,

Welcome to the forum. About a year ago I faced what may be a similar situation to the one you described. My experience has been that there isn't 'one talk' but rather many talks. In my case I spoke about my long term desire for bondage, which my wife hasn't been willing to play with. I presented my desire for chastity as a form of 'bondage light'.

With the benefit of hindsight I would also have spoken about how chastity would help balance out our different sexual needs. I want sex more than she does and chastity has helped me develop a whole lot more patience for not getting my sexual 'needs' met the moment I have them. BC (before chastity) it was my unexamined assumption that the correct conclusion of any sexual encounter was my having an orgasm. Everything else was foreplay; fun, but not the main event.

Being in chastity has really helped me to realize that what makes me happy is intimacy with my wife and that intimacy doesn't always mean I get off.

I've been speaking about myself because that's what I know. If any of this rings true for you, I hope it will be helpful.
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Post by Weaponx » Mon Mar 26, 2018 3:22 pm

Thanks. I appreciate your input. I’m only on day three with the new cage I got, but she hasn’t taken possession of the key. Yesterday we had a talk. I actually wrote down a ton of stuff in a letter and then read it to her while we were alone. She didn’t have any questions or comments after I read the letter, but she did take the letter and say that it was her letter now. I let her know where the key was and that I left it at home today when I left for work.
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Post by jfenoffti » Tue Mar 27, 2018 9:41 am

happilylockedman wrote:...My experience has been that there isn't 'one talk' but rather many talks. In my case I spoke about my long term desire for bondage, which my wife hasn't been willing to play with....

... about how chastity would help balance out our different sexual needs. I want sex more than she does and chastity has helped me develop a whole lot more patience for not getting my sexual 'needs' met the moment I have them. ...

...chastity has really helped me to realize that what makes me happy is intimacy with my wife ...
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Post by frvrlocked » Fri Mar 30, 2018 10:45 pm

Well, what can I say.

I've been into chastity (on and off, but mostly on) since 2002.

I now wear a metal version of the HT2. I live in the South Shore of Montreal, Canada.

I wish to find a local KH, but it's already hard to find someone who's into chastity in my area. :(

But I still have hope.

See ya!!!
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Post by Loctite » Tue Apr 03, 2018 4:03 pm

Hey everyone.

Never in my life have I participated in an online forum. So I'm a virgin newbie. Kinda cool. Haven't lost my virginity in a long time! Married 29 yrs to the woman of my dreams. Take your pick of which kind of dream. Wet dream? Yeah, no doubt about that one. Nightmare? When it comes to enforcing my chastity... no doubt about that one either lol. But it's what I signed up for.
I'm a cuckold. Sorry if that's a dirty word on here. I know they're separate and distinct entities, but the chastity life just fit together so well with the cuck life I have been living for the past 20 years. Don't want to offend anybody who is a purist when it comes to chastity play.
Have been experimenting with chastity on and off for probably 4 years. Would do it for a while, then sports season would start and my Mrs insisted I not wear my cage, even under a cup. So off it would come. And then it became a real drag having to take it off literally every day and put it back on. Mostly it was a drag for her constantly having to dig the key out of her hiding spot all the time.
This time around, have had my cage on since Labour (Canadian spelling) Day. Probably had it off 6-7 times since then.
Looking forward to exploring what everyone else's experiences are like.
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Post by TwistedMister » Wed Apr 04, 2018 3:45 am

Loctite wrote:I'm a cuckold. Sorry if that's a dirty word on here.
Nope, not a dirty word. There are several here, including myself, who appreciate the eroticism of that particular kink.

Welcome aboard.
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