wettie wrote:Now most chaste relationships may involve more sex because it is the man controlling the chastity, and basically using it to extend foreplay, but that’s not really a chaste relationship, it’s a man subbing from the top, and there’s nothing wrong with that either...
Wrong. I'm not saying the types of relationships you're describing don't exist, but I totally reject that *most* are that way. Not the ones with which I'm familiar and certainly not mine.
...but I’m going to guess that 99% of guys in chastity are so at their request and their terms.
At their request, yes, but not on their terms. Not *nearly* 99%. Some, yes, because each person doing it is doing so in their own way, but your grossly over-generalizing. I have no control over when I'm locked up. I *do* have control over playing the game at all, but part of the game is to let her run it how she wants.
The same is true of what I’m doing, I’m just not using a device which is really just a reminder of the situation, I’m using a pill for my reminder.
You're looking to use the pill to reduce your desire to masturbate or have sex. We use our devices to increase those things.
I’ve yet to hear of a chastity device that prevented escape or orgasm, so it’s really the same game.
Then you are unfamiliar with my device
. Without the key or a tool with which to destroy it, I cannot get out and orgasm is out of the question.
To that point, this relationship has greatly increased our intimacy and sex play, just not penetration or orgasm. My wife has ruined many orgasms since we stared, but instead of locking me back up afterwards, she tells me to roll over.
That does sound like what I'm familiar with, but it goes against your previous statement that you're trying to reduce your interest in sex.
I’ll continue to enjoy reading the chastity posts on here and tormenting myself until I break, and maybe someone will feel the same about what I’m doing.
So I assume your interest in sex has *not* reduced? I'm no doctor, but I don't think there are enough hormons in modern BC pills to have that great an impact on your body. There are probably better people here to speak to this...