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Hello, hello. New member. I've long been fascinated by chastity and orgasm denial, and recently my boyfriend and I have started talking about adding it to our regular play rotation. Getting into chastity play has been kind of a challenge for us, as getting into most chastity cages has been kind of a challenge for my partner! ;) That said, we finally found a ring that fits them, we've got a few small adjustments to make to the next cage we're getting from kink3d, and we've been talking about expectations management and such.

Speaking personally, I'm coming into dommehood and keyholding with a lot of trauma that I've been working through for a long time, and in some ways this feels like a huge step. It's actually really scary to me to have this kind of control; my traumatized self keeps expecting things to go terribly, and so far they haven't, but we're also not really committing to anything long-term. I mean, okay, yes, I do fantasize about keeping them caged 24/7 and only letting them out when I feel like watching them climax, but I'm still learning to manage "not panicking when things don't work out perfectly." I have a long way to go before I'm personally comfortable with that level of control and authority. And yeah, I know there's ways of making it work with one-time locks and such. As I said before, trauma. I am a work in progress, as are we all.
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Hello all I am Justin 18 years old my Dom is 20. We are both new at chastity I am trying to convince him that I need to masturbate 2 times a week to keep a healthy prostate but he says let's go once every 2 weeks cause the goal is no cock for you. My question to the more experienced is just leaking out while being fucked enough to keep the prostate healthy ? And does anyone know how to control the gag reflexes when giving a blow job? Thanking you for help in advance
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Hi @Jtinybottomboy03
I've got some bad news for you: there are no real studies showing how often is the proper amount. In fact, there's some evidence to suggest that your body will just release semen after a while when things start getting backed up.

Feel free to read the boards to see if anyone has other answers to your questions.
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I posted a starter comment a while back. I thought I'd get something from admin approving membership?
I've use variations on the CB-X for around 20 years w varying degrees of success. The Curve seems to work out best. I worked away from home during the week, leaving Mon, returning Fri.
I approached my wife about this before buying anything. She seemed surprising interested... Took some time adjusting, but eventually got to locking up Mon AM before leaving. Fri night was hot, but I wasn't let out until Saturday...
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Dc707 wrote: Tue Sep 14, 2021 7:26 am I posted a starter comment a while back. I thought I'd get something from admin approving membership?
We don't always respond to everything in this thread, though we do read it. It's not really for conversation- you just drop a little intro and we can see you're not a spambot, we approve your post and you can see that it was accepted and posted. After two more moderated posts you're all set.
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got it! Thanks for the followup. Every new platform works a little differently. There is always a learning curve.
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I found that the Curve has its drawbacks, though. It allows so much expansion that it starts "pushing off" which yields pretty intense pain in the testicles, along w chafing and edema. What I'm reading suggests that something smaller - as in VERY small - will restrict the erection so much that it will stop it before it even gets started... Found a couple of cheap ones on Amazon - will give those a try. Even though I'm flying solo now (wife passed two years ago) the idea of long-term wear is appealing.
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Hello! I am a 46-year-old male living in the St. Louis area. I building up to telling my wife of 11 years that I have a real and deep need to be locked up. She already knows of some of my kinks, so this shouldn’t shock her too much. The bigger question is if she is willing to take control of the relationship. Being a feminist, she believes in equality. She doesn’t necessarily crave the control I want to give her. I suspect she’ll think it will just be more work for her. At this point, I’ve been crafting a letter snd I found a couple good articles that are written from a woman’s point of view. I then have to figure out the right time and place. Anyway, any tips or tricks that you guys can lend me would be appreciated.
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Just lay it out on the table before you buy anything. I did that w my wife and was surprised at her response. She never got heavily into it, but did have fun w it. You can't control her response... take a leap and see where you land.
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Dc707 wrote: Wed Sep 15, 2021 10:45 am I found that the Curve has its drawbacks, though. It allows so much expansion that it starts "pushing off" which yields pretty intense pain in the testicles, along w chafing and edema. What I'm reading suggests that something smaller - as in VERY small - will restrict the erection so much that it will stop it before it even gets started... Found a couple of cheap ones on Amazon - will give those a try. Even though I'm flying solo now (wife passed two years ago) the idea of long-term wear is appealing.
I ordered two units... Ternence K240 and D240. along w a latex tube (friction prevention) and a short stainless catheter.
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