"Hello world" thread

[jennyuk7]

Hi I am a married bi crossdresser living in East Kent UK and I am totally new to "Chastity." I have recently been talking to a guy from Essex who wants to be my master and he has told me I should purchase a restraint device and should wear it at all times. I have ordered a CBT3000 in clear plastic but already I am hearing that perhaps I should have purchased a metal device. I would be grateful for any advice on such matters.

For those who may feel a married guy should not be doing such things I must say wife and I are good friends but the love and any sex within the marriage ceased years ago and since she found out I am a dresser things have been difficult. I find it hard but love the femme side of my character. Would love to make new friends.

[Atone]

Hi I am a married bi crossdresser living in East Kent UK

Jenny, welcome to the forum. Sounds like you have a bit of a complicated situation. Hopefully we can help with the chastity part.

[MadelineOfChicago]

I swear I am not spamming scum. In fact, I am not scum of any sort.

[Blackstone]

Hello chastity people,

I'm new in chastity and wanted to learn something about it thats why I did registry me.
By myself I own an CB6000 and CB6000s(cage).
And they are just both hard to wear for me XD

cheers,
blackstone

[undeadcarrot]

Wife and I have always both enjoyed light bondage
One time after I rigged, as the signature above aptly puts it, a "fail homemade thing" out of plumbing supplies, she came home the next day with a metal device from a local shop.
Previous record was about 10 hours, but this time passing the 48 hour mark right about now, and not expecting to get out for another 18 at least
feeling
75% sure she won't spring a last minute time extension on me...

[celticqueens_sub]

Welcome all new people. Hope you find the site informative and helpful

[Subsistence]

Hello world!

A small contribution and a big smile from the far north.

I am here primarily to learn and absorb the experiences shared herein. So far I must congratulate you all on a very healthy and reasonably safe environment

For myself I am currently only on a beginners level within chastity. My wife and I play with it more and more frequently, and we are looking at expanding with a more serious device. Typical span of my encagement now is one to two weeks, with some release time whenever she wishes to use me, but no intermediate release for me. I am, as many of you deeply in love with my partner, and have no wish to be unfaithful to neither her trust nor her wishes, the chastityplay is more a way of focusing our energy onto each other than a tool for keeping faithful.

I look forward to getting to know you all, and wish you a great day!

-Lars

[locked4her55]

I am here primarily to learn and absorb the experiences shared herein. So far I must congratulate you all on a very healthy and reasonably safe environment

Welcome Lars, sounds like you are going to fit right in. Please feel free to share too.

[Monty Cantsin]

Hello all,

I’ve been lurking here for a bit, and even had another account here where I had only made the introductory post, but it appears to have been killed off in an overzealous spam-killing rampage.

I’ve been interested in chastity devices as long as I can remember, at least 15 years, after discovering altarboy's site and USENET's alt.sex.stories. I bought a CB6000S a couple of years ago, but the damn thing just won't fit.

Last spring I finally talked to my wife about my interest. She went along at first, but it took very little time for her to learn the benefits of tease and denial. We've been having a great time, exploring other routes of pleasure without everything being geared towards my orgasms.

I’m still seeking a device. I don't want to buy every variant of plastic device; I suspect I’ll have the same slip-out issues with them I do with the CB6000s. I’ve been waiting on news of the Adopt-a-cage device, but I suspect it's dead in the water now. Bummer.

[Dak42]

I'm glad to be here!

January 1st this year I told my wife about my desire for her to keep me in chastity. My reasons are because of my 21 year long addiction to porn and incessant m'bation. Our 10 year marriage has been marred by countless disappointments for her, broken promises of quitting porn and m'bation by me, and stale, unintimate love life.

We got an Internet filter for the computer, and ordered a Mature Metal Jailbird with the secure screw lock and anti pullout pins, it will arrive this month. In the meantime, I was to quit on my honor, but after 3 or 4 days, I could feel that I was slipping mentally back towards the pit. I ordered a fake CB6000 from amazon, to help acclimate myself to wearing a device before the jailbird arrived, so that I could go straight to wearing it full time when it comes in. I'm glad that I got the CB6000, even if it is a clone. It was very uncomfortable at first, but after wearing it full time for over a week now, only taking it off to shower and clean the device, I don't have to remove it.

After getting the CB6000, I wore it during the days, when I was most tempted and alone in the morning, for several days, after being chaste on my own before the belt arrived. My first attempt at chastity then lasted 7 days, longer than I had ever gone since 6th grade without m'bating. We made love after that 7th day, and it felt amazing. I was physically and mentally present and in the moment, not having to fantasize about pornography to reach o. Since the CB6000 was still new, I wasn't wearing it at night, and two nights afterward I woke her up at night and we made love again, I don't even remember starting it, I just woke up and we were doing it. After that, because of pain while wearing the device, I said that I needed to not wear it for a couple days to let my skin heal. Bad decision.

I knowingly began m'ing again in the mornings, and became distant again. I wasn't communicating with her about my daily triumphs over temptation, and she knew what was up. She confronted me, and I knew I was guilty, and panicked, and lied. I knew that I didn't want to lie as the words were coming out of my mouth, and she knew that I was lying. After about 30 minutes I confessed my lie, and went and locked myself into the CB6000. I have apologized, and told her to take as long as she needs to feel better. I've now gone 10 days without an o or even looking at porn. I don't know how long she has planned on keeping me locked, and I am not going to ask. It could be as long as a month or even 3 months, because like an idiot, when telling her about chastity that first day, I said that the people on reddit in the nofap section challenge themselves to 90 days of nofap, to rewire their brains to not need to m'bate or require porn.

Sorry for such a long winded introductory post. I've been trapped in my mind these 10 days and needed to share my story. I'm choosing this, even though my brain HATES it, I'm going to do it. I owe it to my wife after all the years of dishonesty and neglect.

Thanks again, and I look forward to being a member to the forum.

PS - I'm sorry for the typos, typing on a phone is less than ideal. :^)