"Hello world" thread

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Paulette the Tart
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Hi, folks,

I thought I was a member of most CB forums but this one must've sneaked under the radar.

Growing old disgracefully using a My-Steel belt having wasted too much on tube style devices (which never work - no matter what people tell you).
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Hello World!
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Newbie!

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Hi
I'm super new to this whole thing, I'm getting my first key in a couple days, so I made this account to see what it's all about. I would love to hear from experienced keyholders, and anyone else.
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Hey Shahana -

Poke around the forums for a bit. We're mainly vanilla-ish couples interested in using "forced" chastity to enhance our relationships.

There are a handful of women around here who would be happy to answer your questions, and most of the men will be happy to give you more ideas on what goes on in our heads while you're playing. A few of us have blogs, and you can take a look at http://keyheld.blogspot.com for a list of other blogs and resources.
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Re: Newbie!

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Shahna wrote:Hi
I'm super new to this whole thing, I'm getting my first key in a couple days
Yes Welcome. Getting your first key in a couple of days? Do you expect to get more than one? :lol:
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Re: "Hello world" thread

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Hi all, just discovered this site and am looking forward to chatting, exchanging experiences and learning more about male chastity. I am very keen on venturing into this world, just have to find the way to discuss this with my wife! Hoping to get some ideas on how to bring up my desire to be locked with her.
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Hi, new to site, although I have been lurking a bit. Also new to chastity, and think its time to start asking questions, so hence, hello world. I'm in so cal, and my I broached the subject of chastity with the gf one night and she liked the idea. Went to a local fetish store (stockroom) and bought a cb6k. When she found out she said it was fun to talk about but she thought it to weird. Okay, so we are continuing our vanilla mostly lifestyle, but I still wear the device during the week when she's not around. Otherwise I mastrubate like a baboon. So I know this is not "ideal" but it's something. She left this morning, and although I'm still horny, I locked myself up, in hopes that I can cut down in between our romps, and make those times better.

Okay noob questions. I'm a grower not a shower and am kinda girthy. I found the pantyhose trick works best, but should I have gotten the cb6ks? Can I buy just the cage and will it work with my existing cb?

I find myself needing to urinate more with the device on, and am worried about wetting the bed. I drink a ton of water throughout the day, so by 7pm, I go to the bathroom about once every half hour in the device. Is this normal?

I notice that after a day in the tube, my penis is bumpy from where its been squeezing out the air holes on the side. Long term, say a week or more, could I cause permenant damage? Yes I am circumcised.

Right now I'm the only one knowing that I'm using this, and like I said earlier, it's really just to keep me from spending the day in bed watching porn, yay iPad, so I have been putting it on after work and taking it off in the morning. How long should I wait before trying a whole day? I mean, I'm not going to rub one out at work, and so long as I behave when I get home, I think this works for me. Thoughts?

Again, I know your mileage may vary, and we are all gods special snowflakes, so please be kind in responding. I'm not here to start trouble, just get advice. I'm sure ill have more to say later, but I think this was a good start.
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Welcome to the site Bearwithacollar.

I wish I had a local fetish store. We have a couple of sex shops but nothing all that great. One has nice lingerie but that is about it. Oh, also a decent selection of lubes too. The other, a bit further away, is a little better although really, really over priced. I have spent a lot of money there over the years anyway. Something about being in the store with my wife picking things out that makes it more fun.

I haven't heard of anyone having a urination problem from wearing a device, at least not that kind of problem. I was surprised when after about a year of pretty intense chastity that I got to were I didn't have to urinate nearly as often. Long before chastity I went to the doctor several times because I would have to urinate a lot during the day, maybe as often as once an hour. And when I had to go, I really had to go. It wasn't quite debilitating but close. I would *always* make sure I went to the bathroom before I went any where. Some times commuting home from work was an issue. Now I have shifted closer to what I would consider normal or maybe even in the other direction. Most work days I only have to go to the bathroom once, maybe twice. And more significantly (for me) is I don't get that sudden urge anymore. Even if I feel like I have to go I can usually wait at least an hour or so. I believe it is somehow related to not having orgasms anymore but I am not sure why. I spent a lot of time reflecting on what else might have changed (diet, fluid intake, weight, other health issues) and couldn't come up with anything. This alone would be enough reason for me to not want to orgasm too often. I have noticed that if I have a ruined orgasm (the only kind I have had in a long time) that I do need to urinate a bit more over the next 24 hrs or so.

I would be surprised if the air holes would cause permanent damage but I would find that to just be too irritating to put up with. If you search a bit you will find ways that others have solved that problem. My recommendation is a steelheart :)

I started similar to what you describe (except my wife was on board from the start). I just wore it at home / night / weekends for a couple of weeks. Then I just got tired of the hassle of taking off and putting it on all the time and said screw it and started wearing it work. This was with the CB3000 that I started with.
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Re: Newbie!

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locked4her55 wrote:
Yes Welcome. Getting your first key in a couple of days? Do you expect to get more than one? :lol:

I hope to, after I have at least a couple days more experience.
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Re: "Hello world" thread

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Hello world, hopefully this account won't be deleted.
I did post a new question but I still got deleted :-)

New to chastity, will be self key holder initially until I can get to 24/7 wearing then I will give the key to my bf.

Hoping to order a Steelworxx Steelheart, with PA fixing and inbuilt lock, might need sizing advice though.

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