"Hello world" thread

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Hob
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Post by Hob »

Hi folx!

I'll try to keep this short and sweet. I've been submissive for as long as I can remember (before puberty/before it was part of my sexual identity). I stumbled across chastity a decade ago (ish) and have always felt drawn to it. My partner and I have been married 10 years. She is mostly vanilla, though dabbles in D/s dynamics from time to time. We use a skin/clothing metaphor. For me D/s is my skin. For her, it's clothing she puts on from time to time.

We've experimented with chastity here and there. I bought an inexpensive device from TERNENCE a year or so ago. The more I experiment with it, the more it feels "right". My partner, however, is less interested. She likes it (kinda) because I like it, but that's about as far as it goes. I'm currently looking into upgrading to the MM Jailbird.

My partner and I also opened our marriage last year and have been exploring non-monogamy. I am hoping that leads to an additional awesome/fulfilling partnership (and hopefully also one where D/s and chastity can be explored more at the same time).

I joined the forum because I appreciate Thumper's blog (which led me here) and this seems like a good community for sharing experiences and asking questions.

Cheers :-)
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"To absent friends, lost loves, old gods, and the season of mists; and may each and every one of us always give the devil his due." ~ Hob Gadling (Neil Gaiman's "The Sandman: Season of Mists")
TinaHoldsTheKey
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Hello, Tina here, Wife and keyholder.
Teacher by trade so I try and keep pretty low key.
I’ve been keeping my hubby locked for several years now. Always looking for new ideas and I like to share my ideas and thoughts as well.
Not totally into Femdom but the thought is pretty intriguing LoL
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TwistedMister
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Welcome to the forum. There are lots of ideas buried in the pages here. Take what you want and leave the rest, you can even take the very best...
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Samantha-nylon
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Post by Samantha-nylon »

Hi,

I’m a bisexual gender fluid Crossdresser.

Been curious about chastity for some time, so I am here looking for information and guidance.

Thanks

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MandAFLR1623
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Post by MandAFLR1623 »

Hello!!

I have been practicing chastity on and off for the last 10 years. My wife and I have been in an active and dedicated FLR/FLM for the last three years. I have been wearing a metal cage for most of that time with a few breaks for life things in that time.

So excited to be a part of this community!
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lockedupsub
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I was recently locked and I am seeking some guidance to make sure I don't cause any damage to myself. My balls are high and the Holy Trainer I am using keeps everything very tightly in place. The ring is fairly comfortable but my balls tend to change color when I am locked. The goal is to stay locked long term. I have read that with regular use the balls will gradually relax and stretch out. Any advice or suggestions are appreciated. SOS!
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zippedinlatex
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Post by zippedinlatex »

Hello A/all.
Nice to be on here and see if my experiences match others and learn about best practices. Wife is learning the joys of being a KH and stepping into a different role for her, but she says she is enjoying my discomfort. Currently in a DH Gate jailbird knockoff that is fairly comfy. I also have a Cherry Keeper that I have hard time tolerating for extended periods of time but hope to "learn" to deal with it. For now, locked 4 or 5 days a week along with an Implicit Creations Core buttplug, size large most of the time. Work prevents 24/7/365 cage wear for now.
Feel free to reach out with thoughts or questions.
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I've been a member of the forum since April 30, but never formally introduced myself. I'm not new to the chastity lifestyle and have been involved off and on for many years. I'm currently back in 24/7 due to a set of unintended circumstances, but I'm not complaining because we both got what we wanted. HEAVILY SANITIZED BACKSTORY: My wife developed some debilitating health issues a few years ago that, among other things, made penetrative sex too uncomfortable. I resorted to masturbating to porn on my laptop and it became habitual. I felt guilty and attempted to break myself of the habit by putting myself back in chastity and using a time lock as my keyholder. I still viewed "chastity tease and denial" videos on xtube though, and one time I forgot to delete my history and my wife discovered my secret. After some rather intense discussion we mutually agreed that keeping me in my PA tube might not be such a bad idea since it might restore the intimacy that had been missing from the bedroom. Ms. C took possession of the keys and plays along with my "chastity fetish". Part of our agreement is she decides when I've earned an orgasm. Since she can only get-off using her "magic wand", I have to do the same while still locked in my "tight little tube". I'm timed and if I don't cum before the timer goes off it's "just too bad" for me. Chastity has definitely put the magic back in our relationship!
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MirandaPolly
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Hi! I am a novice and have no permanent partner yet. Want to learn here
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Hello world! My name is Jason, 36 living in Tennessee. I've been married just over a year now. For the last 2 years she has had numerous health issues and is now taking a plethora of medicines. Needless to say her drive has tanked. I'm a newly married guy in my mid 30s and I'm ready to go all the time. And I want to take that determining factor of how my life goes and take control over it. I'm hoping the experience helps me look at life and the nature of my marriage a different, more meaningful way.
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