How to really stop masturbating
Posted: Wed Jan 03, 2024 9:38 am
Hello everyone. Im still new on this forum and this is my 2nd post here (after hello thread) and 1st topic.
We (me + my wife) started our journey with chastity in the second part of november 2023 so we are fresh in this subject. It was my idea and I shocked my lovely wife when i proposed it but she was very opened, thank god. We are doing this becouse of my massive masturbation which was becoming a big problem, mostly to me but i know it will become for the family (we + kids) too.
So far we see big changes in our relations to much better. Sex is definitelly much better than ever before! Much more intense. We love this very much and i think cage will stary with us (mostly on me ) for much longer. Im wearing a cage. 24/7/365. My wife want this and I want this. Even I started to feel bad when i dont have this on me.
I stoped masturbating but not completelly. I would say for 95%.. Its still possible and i waste time for it sometimes. I stopped watching porn but not completelly (again 95%? ;P). Sometimes i like to watch but it not so stimulating like before becouse im not able touch myself there (not completelly) and cage is a limit. Current cage has some spaces and i can put finger between bars and stimulate myself. Its not so good and efficient like by a full hand but.... Also i can bring myself to the edge by fourius jerking the cage. Good thing is that i didnt cum so far becouse i feel much more pleasure from sex right know and beeing frustrated inside the cage but if I would like to cum then there is not a problem to do that. Also i dont want to disapoint my wife. I want to be commited in 100%.
I thought the cage from Locked in Lust - The Vice would be the solution. It helped a lot (with anti pull sustem), but I can't wear it for a long time - a swollen foreskin problem....
I also bought a safe that only my wife has access to (to store all the vibrators and other things that might be a temptation)
From the current metal cage its possible to pull out a penis (and do the rest ...) but we've added extra security with thread, so I won't be able to return unnoticed - it works!.
I ordered new cages to prevent problem with enough spaces between bars which i hope will be a solution for a touching stimulation problem.
My question after this long entry is:
what can i do with stimulation through furious cage jerking? I think there is no cage to prevent it? Any solution to that?
Im a kind of man which like/need really efficient solutions (physical or mental) so i want to fix mentioned above. Do you have any ideas? Maybe how to break my think/will in that matter? How can i stop think about masturbation at 100%?
I know that its a comples issue but i count on You all!
thank you in advance
Ps. sorry for my english, im from europe
We (me + my wife) started our journey with chastity in the second part of november 2023 so we are fresh in this subject. It was my idea and I shocked my lovely wife when i proposed it but she was very opened, thank god. We are doing this becouse of my massive masturbation which was becoming a big problem, mostly to me but i know it will become for the family (we + kids) too.
So far we see big changes in our relations to much better. Sex is definitelly much better than ever before! Much more intense. We love this very much and i think cage will stary with us (mostly on me ) for much longer. Im wearing a cage. 24/7/365. My wife want this and I want this. Even I started to feel bad when i dont have this on me.
I stoped masturbating but not completelly. I would say for 95%.. Its still possible and i waste time for it sometimes. I stopped watching porn but not completelly (again 95%? ;P). Sometimes i like to watch but it not so stimulating like before becouse im not able touch myself there (not completelly) and cage is a limit. Current cage has some spaces and i can put finger between bars and stimulate myself. Its not so good and efficient like by a full hand but.... Also i can bring myself to the edge by fourius jerking the cage. Good thing is that i didnt cum so far becouse i feel much more pleasure from sex right know and beeing frustrated inside the cage but if I would like to cum then there is not a problem to do that. Also i dont want to disapoint my wife. I want to be commited in 100%.
I thought the cage from Locked in Lust - The Vice would be the solution. It helped a lot (with anti pull sustem), but I can't wear it for a long time - a swollen foreskin problem....
I also bought a safe that only my wife has access to (to store all the vibrators and other things that might be a temptation)
From the current metal cage its possible to pull out a penis (and do the rest ...) but we've added extra security with thread, so I won't be able to return unnoticed - it works!.
I ordered new cages to prevent problem with enough spaces between bars which i hope will be a solution for a touching stimulation problem.
My question after this long entry is:
what can i do with stimulation through furious cage jerking? I think there is no cage to prevent it? Any solution to that?
Im a kind of man which like/need really efficient solutions (physical or mental) so i want to fix mentioned above. Do you have any ideas? Maybe how to break my think/will in that matter? How can i stop think about masturbation at 100%?
I know that its a comples issue but i count on You all!
thank you in advance
Ps. sorry for my english, im from europe