I Need Moral Support!

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Jimi123 wrote: But again. Is not the whole point "control" not "denial"?
For some it is more about the control than the denial. For others it is all about the denial, they may even self impose the chastity.

For me I like both the control and denial aspects but only in the context of a loving, sexual relationship.

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Lol!
I am entertained by the keyholder who gets lots of orgasms thinking about wether the chaste partner ever needs to cum again. Some chaste guys like the fantasy but it is somehow much more unfair when the person considering it does not and has never experienced the frustration of being denied. Easy to say.

I do believe there may be a budding domme waiting to get out ;)

Brought a smile to my face.
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mykey wrote: I do believe there may be a budding domme waiting to get out ;)

Brought a smile to my face.
I'll keep you posted... ;)

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Atone wrote:
Jimi123 wrote: But again. Is not the whole point "control" not "denial"?
For some it is more about the control than the denial. For others it is all about the denial, they may even self impose the chastity.

For me I like both the control and denial aspects but only in the context of a loving, sexual relationship.

-A
I think that is very well said.
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We have an interesting development here in the Devoted Lover household....some little cuts or sores on my favorite cock. I got a text message that afternoon from Ab complaining of soreness and asking where the spare key was. I gave him the info and came home to find him out of the JB---but I don't think he's done any illicit playing. There was a little scratch or something on his dick. I am not sure where that came from. Anyway, he is JB free at the moment but on the honor system. I'll keep everyone posted.

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First thing is to check for any roughness anywhere. If you find it, the Dremel and polishing wheel (or wet 600 grit sandpaper) is the way to go.

Next is to consider whether the talcum powder is really providing enough lube. I bet the extra weight of the JB makes it move more, which makes things getting dry and chafed an even bigger deal.
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Dev wrote:....some little cuts or sores on my favorite cock.
do you have a rooster? sorry to hear he is hurt.

It's a trick, check for fake blood. It is Halloween time you know.

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Next is to consider whether the talcum powder is really providing enough lube. I bet the extra weight of the JB makes it move more, which makes things getting dry and chafed an even bigger deal.
He is actually blaming our evening out of the device on Tuesday, and too much over-enthusiastic stimulation on my part (without enough lube). Who knows? He seems eager to get back into his JB but wants to give himself a 24-48 hour reprieve for healing. I am going to keep an eye out for unauthorized activity during this time. ;)

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Atone wrote:
It's a trick, check for fake blood. It is Halloween time you know.

-A
It looked real but good point, I'll keep a close eye out. ;)

I wonder if I can convince him that playing with a Tenga egg is good for healing purposes?

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Dev wrote: I wonder if I can convince him that playing with a Tenga egg is good for healing purposes?
Oh, absolutely! Keyhldr rubbed a spot on me my 2nd night out, so I had to play injured the rest of the week. I pressed on somehow :D

The Tenga was a really nice way to have fun and not aggravate the soreness.
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