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Oh my. Two questions in one day. I have too much time on my hands at the moment.

So I was thinking about why this might be.

"I don't get hard in my cage whilst toy fucking and eating C's pussy anymore" .

I'm still horny, I leak and sometimes have cum in my pee aftwards so I'm incredibly horny. But I'm not hard as a rule.
It's very erotic and fulfilling and I have slid over into the zone where C's orgasm brings me sexual satisfaction.

To the point where C let's me out more than she needs to as far as I'm concerned. I'm already content and my needs are met.
And when she does. It takes a while to wake up and realise its allowed.

I do get hard for many other reasons.
When I see C's breasts I always get hard.
I assume it's because I'm allowed to fuck these and when I am milked it is usually whilst looking at them.

When C talks of using me and keeping me locked I get hard, but not whilst actually being used?

But when I am told in advance that I will be let out for a follow up I'm hard and ready.


So..
The body re-trains itself?
The penis learns?

A question I asked earlier about permanently locked makes me wonder. Does the penis just stop trying to get hard because it knows it isn't needed?

Just curious if this is how it is for others after a while?

Mr Pickle wrote: ↑Wed Jun 14, 2023 5:15 am A question I asked earlier about permanently locked makes me wonder. Does the penis just stop trying to get hard because it knows it isn't needed?

Just curious if this is how it is for others after a while?

For me it isn't so much about my penis not being needed as it is my head is in a place where all I want is to meet @Michele's needs. Sometimes I will be super hard and sometimes I won't. Sometimes all I want is to be inside her feeling her. Other times I just want to enjoy her enjoyment. That doesn't mean it isn't reciprocated, it just isn't with sex. Or at least not PIV sex.

It's in your head.

I'm always aroused when I have sex with Mrs Edge. You'd think that after five years that would change, but maybe my tonker is just slow.

Agree, it’s in my head. I get very turned on when I can give her pleasure, but rarely get a rise myself. Lots of leakage, but really only get hard if she decides to play with me.

I think it's in your mind as well. My dick is stupid, has no brains and never learns to stop fighting the cage. My balls on the other hand appear to be smarter. After a few months,, they learned to stop trying to pull up and through the base ring. They just hang there politely now like good boys.

Ok. So I hadn't meant to come a cross as 'not aroused'. Truth is I'm horny as the fuckmiester in his favorite pussy pullover when I'm eating C's pussy.
But my dick is quite happy for my brain to buzz away and take no notice. It spews out plenty of goo, but doesn't go to the trouble of attempting a painful erection.

Morning wood on the other hand is nice and consistent. My. Fantasy lah lah land kicks in and I'm bulging big time.

A few thoughts;
As I have aged, I began to lose my erections without any direct stimulation… even in highly arousing situations, like when my ex wife stimulated my anal area and perineum. I loved the sensations, found it highly erotic but I’d be soft within moments. Same if she asked me to get a toy or she had to use the restroom. Never, even to this day had an issue GETTING an erection, it just needed constant attention, lol.

With chastity play I was younger then so didn’t quite have that problem. Id wake up as hard as my cage would allow. However after a few days my cock seemed to “learn” not to get as hard.

No longer in a male chastity situation, my current partner takes a long time to reach climax and sometimes my guy wasn’t up for the challenge. Didn’t take long to get a Cialis script. When I take it I feel like a teenager. She will frequently get up and do weird female stuff, but I remain rock hard for her. It’s awesome.