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Hi. Looking for a resource that I am sure exists, but don’t know what keywords to use to find it. I am not sure I even know how to ask but here goes:

Is there a Chastity Forums thread that has links to various key holders resources?

Or could this post be the start of such a thread?

For my personal (selfish) needs, I’m looking for a women-written key holder view on chastity from about the 101 level to about 201. But no nudes, dick picks, profanity, cuckhold, and BDSM content. Just the benefits of locking your man and playing along in his desire to channel his energy more directly at you.

I’m having a flashback to the movie Bull Durham and the pitcher wearing garters under his uniform to help him “focus his energy”.

Anyway I haven’t found much but I’m starting a journey to document links to keholders or other expert women who write on chastity from their views. I’ll post them here whether they meet my needs as outlined above or not.

My personal goal is to send her a web link or 2 in order to get her reading a bit. Ultimately I hope to get her into the Keyholder section here but baby steps.

Please chime in or send me to the thread(s) that have these resources and help steer me the right way.

Thank you

Curious RK

Edit: The system wouldn’t let me post the first web link that I wanted to post so I’ll put it here:

This one looks pretty good but I saw some ads on the side that still flash porn/erotic and not vanilla consuming content:
https://www.evolvingyourman.com/2021/04 ... boyfriend/
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Both of the linked posts would be a great resource for introducing keyholding. I just don't understand why every single blog or website on the subject has to go down every kinky fantasy rabbit hole.

Evolving your man: The earlier posts would be very informative. but, I would be very hesitant to share these with a vanilla partner you're trying to introduce gently as the sidebar lists the "recent posts"
- Identify The Motivations behind your Non-Monogamy
- Humiliation: SPH as a Relationship Dynamic
- Ask Emma: Can Cuckolding Cause Erectile Dysfunction?
- My Wife Dates: The Case for the Halfway Open Marriage
- Ask Emma – Should I let a man other than my husband get me pregnant?

The recent posts on My Boy in Chastity blog go into cuckolding, submissive, involving her sister, and public humiliation.

The original posts would be nice introductions but I have a hard time sharing them as they make it look like Chastity is not "just Chastity", it propagates the perception that Chastity is just a part of a long list of more serious kinks, and its all or nothing. And, that scares a lot of people away that might be interested in just the Chastity and tease and denial. Just imagine a wife that has never even heard of chastity being given these 2 links, and within an hour or two of reading, she is being told that chastity means her husband is an emasculated submissive looking for her to sleep with other men and be humiliated in public.

Just my thoughts on the subject. I really wish there were resources for introducing keyholders that didn't always go down the extreme rabbit holes. For now, the keyholder forum on this website is probably the best/only non-threatening resource.
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Yeah..
Evolving your man was a really good example to start with, and I've used a lot of it to quote to C about semen retention etc.
It's a shame it veered off in a different direction, or that the the journey into cuck wasn't seperate.
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Mr Pickle wrote: Tue May 23, 2023 12:23 pm Yeah..
Evolving your man was a really good example to start with, and I've used a lot of it to quote to C about semen retention etc.
It's a shame it veered off in a different direction, or that the the journey into cuck wasn't separate.
That's what I have done, I've quoted a bunch of information into letters to my wife. But, I've learned not to push her into areas outside her comfort area. If she is interested, she can google and find it on her own. then, she doesn't feel like I'm trying to push too much.
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gungadn wrote: Tue May 23, 2023 11:39 am Both of the linked posts would be a great resource for introducing keyholding. I just don't understand why every single blog or website on the subject has to go down every kinky fantasy rabbit hole.

Evolving your man: The earlier posts would be very informative. but, I would be very hesitant to share these with a vanilla partner you're trying to introduce gently as the sidebar lists the "recent posts"
- Identify The Motivations behind your Non-Monogamy
- Humiliation: SPH as a Relationship Dynamic
- Ask Emma: Can Cuckolding Cause Erectile Dysfunction?
- My Wife Dates: The Case for the Halfway Open Marriage
- Ask Emma – Should I let a man other than my husband get me pregnant?

The recent posts on My Boy in Chastity blog go into cuckolding, submissive, involving her sister, and public humiliation.

The original posts would be nice introductions but I have a hard time sharing them as they make it look like Chastity is not "just Chastity", it propagates the perception that Chastity is just a part of a long list of more serious kinks, and its all or nothing. And, that scares a lot of people away that might be interested in just the Chastity and tease and denial. Just imagine a wife that has never even heard of chastity being given these 2 links, and within an hour or two of reading, she is being told that chastity means her husband is an emasculated submissive looking for her to sleep with other men and be humiliated in public.

Just my thoughts on the subject. I really wish there were resources for introducing keyholders that didn't always go down the extreme rabbit holes. For now, the keyholder forum on this website is probably the best/only non-threatening resource.
I am 100% with you on that. Every one of them eventually jumps the shark into cuckholding, and most wives are going to be horrified.
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I'm not sure if this counts as a resource, but she might be able to read the Asks on my Tumblr blog.

We have a lot of questions about what we do and how we've managed things. The tag #chastity question will bring up pretty much everything.

https://denial-permanente.tumblr.com/ta ... 20question
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This one seems to be the best one I’ve found so far: https://happy-marriage.neocities.org/

I am still anxious to share it with the wife. I thought about printing it out and sitting down and sharing together and not just send a link. It’s pretty vanilla but yet at the end there are all these photos of young, perfectly shaped couples and not chastity-in-everyday-life types of photos. So I am still hesitant.

But if I print it out that page wont be printed and so maybe the rest is good.

Anyway added to the list / thread.

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@Curiousrk
I'm pretty positive we have a What is Male chastity or a why we do chastity on our blog... I think you can still search it. There is also a tag or category for "Mail Chastity" where we answer email questions etc.

I really should get on there and do some maintenance. But there may also be some other good stuff there as well as the podcast recordings. Those might be fun.

Or hell just give her my email lol I don't care! 🙂
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Thank you so much! I’ll look that up. I did look at the website previously but missed that. While there, if I remember correctly I was able to listen to your interview/ podcast with Mature Metal and loved it.
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