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Been in my cage most days for 18months with sex whenever I want it as although wife get no pleasure she's keen to please.As sex started to feel like I was using her and being on testosterone makes me horney most of the time I chose to be caged.Trouble is im now preferring caged testing to real sex.Do or have others been through to phase.?

Sounds as if you’re doing your wife a massive disservice if she’s getting no pleasure from sex or your chastity. Maybe you need to think about why you’re doing any of this at all.

MsM’s ld

I agree w slave d. What pleasure is she wanting and getting.?

JCHIPPER wrote: ↑Fri Jul 29, 2022 7:54 am Trouble is im now preferring caged testing to real sex.Do or have others been through to phase.?

I went through a long period where I was getting nothing but caged ruins. After 9+ months she gave me another caged, but she didn't ruin it, she kept going and it felt like my orgasm did too. I can't really describe it, but it felt like it went on much longer than a regular orgasm, maybe 30 seconds or more. I think it was almost worth it, and I almost want her to do it again. I was crazy horny, and I'm not sure what I wouldn't have done in order to get off.

addadayplease wrote: ↑Fri Jul 29, 2022 10:18 pm I agree w slave d. What pleasure is she wanting and getting.?

She says she's never enjoyed sex and is probably A sexual but loves me and want to see me enjoy it so I guess that's her pleasure angle from our chats but as I was abused as a child having sex with
her always makes me feel that its abuse ,hope that explains.

JCHIPPER wrote: ↑Sat Jul 30, 2022 11:52 am
She says she's never enjoyed sex and is probably A sexual but loves me and want to see me enjoy it so I guess that's her pleasure angle from our chats but as I was abused as a child having sex with
her always makes me feel that its abuse ,hope that explains.

Have you considered getting professionell help to talk about this ?

This sounds like something that‘s very unlikely to be „resolved“ just between the 2 of you.

Does she know about you being abused? If not her asexuality may be a way to handle
A trauma of her own, that she hasn‘t disclosed.

Anyway, if the 2 of you are kind of unhappy, you should seek advice on a possible counseling strategy.