Some Questions Before Jumping Off the Deep End
Posted: Tue Jul 05, 2022 5:55 pm
Recently I've secured a much more stable job and my partner, Bunny, and I have been considering longer-term chastity as a fun little thing to spice up the time we have to spend away from each other.
Multiple problems are noted any time we have this discussion and we usually end up putting this on the back burner until we're both thinking about it one night and have the same circular conversation.
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Equipment
I have a Mancage Model 4 (sorry for the Amazon link, their website doesn't have a direct link).
It's a 4.5 inch cage that fits snugly after some adjustment and fiddling. Maybe a bit too snugly, I have to pull my phallus through with a string to get it to aim right, and I can't pee out of the thing because I'm never lined up 100%.
I have considered a smaller cage, but I fill the Model 4 to its tip if I put it on correctly.
If there's a really easy way to fit in a smaller cage, please tell me, I'd love to try it. Right now the ordeal of getting myself in and out of my cage takes about 15 minutes if I'm concentrating on it and it ruins the mood.
Problem 1 - It's uncomfortable under clothes
It's not because of tight clothes, if that were the case, I would just buy bigger clothes.
My cage just really bugs me under clothes, certain clothes are worse than others, so I know which ones to avoid.
Does anyone have suggestions to make it more comfortable?
Perhaps a certain way of tucking or some sort of bandage tape to hold it in place.
Again, a suggestion of how to better put myself in a smaller cage also works here. Leave cage suggestions too.
Problem 2 - I can't pee
This is more a problem with the hole shape, size, and location on the cage. I'm not sure if Google is hiding the results I want, but I can't seem to find any tips out there for keeping the holes lined up so I can urinate without unlocking myself and completing the painfully arduous re-caging ritual or spraying everything with urine like a chihuahua with a fire hose for a penis.
Problem 3 - I'm sensitive
My feelings, they feel.
In all seriousness though, I can't stand certain feelings and I break out easily from prolonged contact to certain liquids.
Lotions, shampoos, lubes, all of it. If I leave it on for more than ten minutes and it isn't dry I start developing a rash.
I'm not sure what's causing it, because I can be in contact with water on and off and I'm just fine.
I know I'll need to lubricate the area to keep from getting chapped.
Bunny and I are already investing in my favourite lotion because it dries before I get a rash and it's affordable.
The other thing is the uncomfortable feelings.
Pressing against the cage? Good. Squishing/lubricating my phallus to get it into the cage? Abysmal.
It seems like a "get over yourself" thing, but it's not something I can ignore. Which genuinely sucks.
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Thanks in advance for your responses, I'm looking for all the help I can get from the best community I've found for resources on this topic.
Sorry for the wall of text, I tend to write quite a bit when I'm nervous or excited.
You guys are amazing, have a wonderful day/night!
Multiple problems are noted any time we have this discussion and we usually end up putting this on the back burner until we're both thinking about it one night and have the same circular conversation.
-----
Equipment
I have a Mancage Model 4 (sorry for the Amazon link, their website doesn't have a direct link).
It's a 4.5 inch cage that fits snugly after some adjustment and fiddling. Maybe a bit too snugly, I have to pull my phallus through with a string to get it to aim right, and I can't pee out of the thing because I'm never lined up 100%.
I have considered a smaller cage, but I fill the Model 4 to its tip if I put it on correctly.
If there's a really easy way to fit in a smaller cage, please tell me, I'd love to try it. Right now the ordeal of getting myself in and out of my cage takes about 15 minutes if I'm concentrating on it and it ruins the mood.
Problem 1 - It's uncomfortable under clothes
It's not because of tight clothes, if that were the case, I would just buy bigger clothes.
My cage just really bugs me under clothes, certain clothes are worse than others, so I know which ones to avoid.
Does anyone have suggestions to make it more comfortable?
Perhaps a certain way of tucking or some sort of bandage tape to hold it in place.
Again, a suggestion of how to better put myself in a smaller cage also works here. Leave cage suggestions too.
Problem 2 - I can't pee
This is more a problem with the hole shape, size, and location on the cage. I'm not sure if Google is hiding the results I want, but I can't seem to find any tips out there for keeping the holes lined up so I can urinate without unlocking myself and completing the painfully arduous re-caging ritual or spraying everything with urine like a chihuahua with a fire hose for a penis.
Problem 3 - I'm sensitive
My feelings, they feel.
In all seriousness though, I can't stand certain feelings and I break out easily from prolonged contact to certain liquids.
Lotions, shampoos, lubes, all of it. If I leave it on for more than ten minutes and it isn't dry I start developing a rash.
I'm not sure what's causing it, because I can be in contact with water on and off and I'm just fine.
I know I'll need to lubricate the area to keep from getting chapped.
Bunny and I are already investing in my favourite lotion because it dries before I get a rash and it's affordable.
The other thing is the uncomfortable feelings.
Pressing against the cage? Good. Squishing/lubricating my phallus to get it into the cage? Abysmal.
It seems like a "get over yourself" thing, but it's not something I can ignore. Which genuinely sucks.
-----
Thanks in advance for your responses, I'm looking for all the help I can get from the best community I've found for resources on this topic.
Sorry for the wall of text, I tend to write quite a bit when I'm nervous or excited.
You guys are amazing, have a wonderful day/night!