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My problem with all of this is:
cages don't really prevent ejaculation.

You can easily just put a vibrator on the cage, and cum, even on day 1.

It makes the whole thing seem kind of pointless, and I'd like it to actually work to prevent orgasm, or what's the point?

I'm no expert, but I doubt there is any cage that entirely prevents this. Just as there's no entirely "escape proof" cage. I wear a cage as a powerful reminder of my commitment, to my wife and to myself. The physical sensation of being locked is a big turn on as well, as is having (or trying to have) an erection in a cage. But yes, ultimately it's an honor system.

There’s only one true form of permanent chastity and that’s removal of the appendage/s concerned !! Interestingly though i have seen videos that prove that’s not entirely successful either !!!

MsM’s ld

PS: It’s all about the top 3” !! You can murder people but you don’t, rob and steal but you don’t, abuse your family but you don’t ….. why ?? top 3” !! So it’s all about what you make of it and the chastity belt is a reminder of what you promise to your keyholder, it’s then a matter of your own honesty with them and yourself !!

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jsmith12 wrote: ↑Thu Jun 30, 2022 7:10 pm My problem with all of this is:
cages don't really prevent ejaculation.

You can easily just put a vibrator on the cage, and cum, even on day 1.

It makes the whole thing seem kind of pointless, and I'd like it to actually work to prevent orgasm, or what's the point?

We have a rule in our house- Mrs Twisted can 'check' at any time, and unless there is some very good reason (illness, etc.), if she cannot cause me to become aroused within a relatively short amount of time she may assume that I have 'cheated' and penalties will apply. The penalties are intentionally non-erotic and completely undesirable to me- I do *not* want them to occur. She can also just ask, and we have been together long enough that I am pretty sure she would instantly know If I was dishonest. It works for us...well, it certainly works for *me*.

jsmith12 wrote: ↑Thu Jun 30, 2022 7:10 pm It makes the whole thing seem kind of pointless, and I'd like it to actually work to prevent orgasm, or what's the point?

Perhaps you could try some of the spiked cages. The right size and the right degree of 'pointy-ness' might provide the solution for you. When you start to get aroused, it becomes painful. The more aroused you are, the more pain you get. Unless you are one of the few who *really* get off on pain, or who can reach orgasm in spite of it, at some point it will probably make you stop, or you'll just simply lose your arousal and stop.

I have occasionally gotten off in spite of pain so I don't know how well that would work for me, but it might be an interesting experience/penalty.

Check it out with the ex Mrs Lorena Bobbitt, i believe she had the cure sorted but modern surgery allowed a fixit job.

MsM’s ld

TwistedMister wrote: ↑Sat Jul 02, 2022 9:21 am Perhaps you could try some of the spiked cages. The right size and the right degree of 'pointy-ness' might provide the solution for you. When you start to get aroused, it becomes painful. The more aroused you are, the more pain you get. Unless you are one of the few who *really* get off on pain, or who can reach orgasm in spite of it, at some point it will probably make you stop, or you'll just simply lose your arousal and stop.

I have occasionally gotten off in spite of pain so I don't know how well that would work for me, but it might be an interesting experience/penalty.

I have a rigid chastity "punisher"

I guess I must be "one of the few" because I certainly don't lose my arousal and I have no desire to stop. I have had an orgasm while wearing it and It is certainly not for the faint of heart. I have also had PIV sex with it on and it was quite amazing. For me and for her.

to the subject - I wear a steelheart and I have had orgasms in it as well. In my current relationship it has only been one time and I can assure you it was with permission. I wouldn't think of trying to cum, or pull out, or play, or pleasure myself in any way without permission. This has absolutely nothing to do with whether I am wearing a cage or not.

Well, then get a full belt. Sure, they cost a grand and have to be custom fit, but I think they have a pretty high success rate of preventing orgasm (well, not counting orgasms from other forms of stimulation).

But admittedly, I do go back and forth on my keenness for cages for this exact reason. I had one cage that fit great, but the parallel and widely-spaced bars meant I could masturbate basically the same as with it off, just a little squished. It didn't even slow me down or require anything extra, not even lube. THAT seemed pointless to me; if it at least makes the activity frustrating or requires a vibe, it's SOME kind of deterrent (lock the vibrator away). However, I agree that outside of specific fetish porn, chastity is basically an optional sub-niche of tease and denial (which is often part of D/s), which is always about the fun of it, or the power dynamics, more than physical restriction (since actual slavery is, you know, not legal or okay).

I’ve come several times in my cage, while they are pleasurable it is a muted sensation from an uncaged orgasm - so I’d argue the cage is working.

If you have a key holder that strictly wants your orgasms limited, she can probably tell just from your attitude if you’ve cheated. Mine strongly preferred the honor system and I wasn’t locked very often. She could just tell. I cheated once, I was super horny and jerked iff, and she asked me and I had to confess. She punished me by kicking me out of the room and masturbating with her vibe. I never did that again.

When tumblr was fun, I remember seeing a photo of a Hitachi wand with a padlock that went through that holes on the prong that goes into the outlet, rendering it useless. Alternately you could also lock up a battery powered vibe to prevent using it in your caged cock.