Long story short, her best friend and someone who I had a mutual crush with and flirted with since I was 14, moved into out home after he divorce. We played grab ass and flirted every day. My wife never minded. Then one day when her friend said she was horny as hell since she had not had any sex for 8 months, out of the blue my wife offered me to her and after I was done satisfying her, asked my wife to join us and that is when we learned that her gf is bi and had been with women in college and that my wife had been fantasizing about sex with women, and women only. The threesome was so good and the love among us after so many years as treating the gf as family was so good that we furnished a room for her, got cable TV and bought a wardrobe and filled it with new clothes. She was officially part of our marriage.
At first I was the one who set the scene for out nightly threesomes. After the first 10 years as I got ED and gained weight. My cock would lose its erection quickly even with Viagra and fall out quickly so that I came outside of them and they gave up on fucking me. Then the oral sex stopped as they said it was better between them as woman do it better and I had more than my share of threesomes than any man they knew. It was over a thousand in the first ten years. After that they stopped giving me orgasms and still wanted me in bed with them to kiss, fondle and all that other stuff to help them get each other off. There was also one element of having a man there made them feel less gay because back in our day, there was no bisexual, you were either a lesbian or a lesbian in the closet. You could be fired from your job and often families would disown you. Being non heterosexual was a very serious problem back then. I lost my virginity to a gay friend. I was good looking back then and gay guys hit on me well into my 20's. Although not sexually attracted to men, the sex act does not repulse me and under the right circumstances or being very horny with no woman around, things could happen especially after a few drinks and two women playing with me.
So basically I was told if I was allowed to jerk off or not after the girls we done and I was cleaning up the bedroom. It was the honor system as there was no internet and I did not know that chastity cages existed and probably they did not back then, I will admit that I cheated a few times but basically I averaged about 20 orgasms a year. I have not fucked anybody in over 20 years and not had oral sex in over 15 years because it makes my Wife cum too quickly and therefore she cannot savor it plus sex with women spoiled her.
For the last 11 years, almost 12 now, I wore a chastity cage 24/7. I worked from home so no problems there. Made it easy to do. Over that time frame the number of my orgasms decreased to about 2-3 a year plus a few ruined ones and lots of penis teasing. Each year we agreed to what we would do for the next 12 months. Contrary to porn a marriage where the spouses do not both agree on their sex lfie will not last long. We have seen that happen many times. We had older friends into BDSM. The husband was a cross dresser biker and not shy about admitting it, probably due to his size and fighting skills. They gave us the best advice. Do not let what you do in the bedroom carry over into the rest or your life as much as possible. Obviously cross dressing and chastity do carry over but the point was that we two still loved each other and even though my wire wire or her girlfriend would whip my ass bloody, once sex was over we were just a regular poly triad and no more mistress slave stuff until we want to play again, When we played we discussed the scene. We would do what we were all in the mood for. If my balls were till sore from them kicking them the night before I would not agree to that in the current scene. It was not scripted acy buy act but rather was an outline of what we all wanted that night. The details were left up to the girls. My limited were easy; nothing that requires medical attention was allowed. All else was open for discussion. I once had my colon torn while being pegged by a too big strap on. Don't start with the ones you see in porn. Start small and work your way up over time. So that was our sexual lifestyle and the girls would try anything I asked them to and did things that they wanted to do like breathe and knife play. They both put cigarettes out on the head of my cock which I still have to remind me of them.
We moved away from out girlfriend and she could not come due to unforeseen circumstances at the last minute. Too late as we already bought the new house so we had to move without her. The is when we started chastity and decreased the number of orgasms each year and my wife got into CBT and nipple torture on me because my moans of pain turned her on. It used to be my moans of pleasure that turned her on but with a locked cock that was not going to happen and so moans of pain took its place.
We always took a few weeks or months break each year to let my cock get back to normal and the welts disappear from my ass. We really did not have sex during those breaks as my wife is no longer attracted to cocks and balls. She said she was barely able to dal with my cock after she had a girlfriend because she loves me, but old man cock is out of the question.
I am 70 and it was decided this year that my cock is not a part of our sex life anymore. She will ignore it, may torturer it at times but not even jerk it anymore or give me ruine orgasms as they accomplish anything since I do not feel a thing and all it does is make a mess. Sex will be 100% for her pleasure and wants me to stop fake moaning in pain to hurry her orgams up. She will make sure that she hurts me enough to elicit real moans pain. She bought some very painful nipple clips with sharp claws that dig into my nipples. She bought a ball vice she can tighten as we go along. There are hoods to deprive me of sight and speech with a built in penis shaped gag. I hate not being able to see her naked so she may deprive me of that for a few weeks or months to make me more horny.
In short, she will not give me any more orgasms and pretend that I do not have a cock. It will be ignored and she does not even want to see it. Being realistic I know of several ways to msaturbate in any cage I am locked into. I have to assume that I will do so once or twice a year although I want to try not to. The idea of our sex life has always been not to make me suffer, but rather enjoy the pain or humiliatiation or whatever we did in BDSM. My wire loves me deeply and hurts me because I am a sexual masochist and want her to.
I forgot the one most important thing. We are now in a female led marriage 100%. She has veto power and final say. She can ask me to get her a glass of wine, massage her feet or body and similar stuffer but no S&M stuff outside of our sex life. We still have my safe word and slowdown word. We use Red, Yellow and Green which lets her know when to stop immediately, lighten up or good to go. I rarely need to use RED as it is obvious when it is too much and after all these years she knows how much I can take.
So ths is the rest off my life kind of deal. I had my fun fucking all three of her unmarried girlfriends, having girlfriends on the side and a don't ask, don't tell policy. My major accounts were Victoria's Secret and many fashion companies with models so sex with a girl that comes out of a bathroom in $300 worth of sexy lingerie and a body to die for is hard to resist. Ah, the good old days. I had more than my share of sex so I am OK with chastity and let sex be 100% for my wife's pleasure. I owe her that for all the freedoms, bringing home girls for me to have sex with and near questioning why I did not come home at night as long as I called to tell her I am alright and will not be home that night. I spent 12 weeks a year overseas and assigned may millions of dollars of contracts to companies. The women they offered me took buy breath away. Then there were the parties on private yachts with lots of girls. I had a good life and a lot of sex. I filled my bucket list a long time ago. Not really now that I think of it. I never performed oral sex on a guy. I offered to do it if mu wife wanted a MMF threesome as after a few drinks and some female attention, I can do anything. She said it would change how she looked at me. He dad was very alpha aren so am I which is one reason she married me. Even when we started chastity and the whole deal for a FLR did not sit well with her image of me as an alpha male. However time has changed that and at age 70 no one wants to suck my cock or have me suck theirs. I will make do with what I have done.
So this is the final stage of a long and fantastic sex life. To be honest, at my age with ED and medication that kills my Libido, I am not giving up much. Poeple keep asking me to write a book. My unusually sex life is just a small part of the life I have had. I always craved new things and adventures. I lived life on my teams and was willing to do what it took to get what I want. I am a product of an education in schools for the gifted with a diagnoses Machiavellian personality so strong that the Psychologist said despite knowing this, she found herself being controlled by me. That has enabled me to got people to do as I wished them to do, especially women into alpha men and Sapiosexual women, one who once blew me on a plane after explain how metal planes can fly. She said I was very smart, gave me two Xanax pills and bought me two drinks broker throwing a blanket over my lap. That is not the weird part. The weird part is that my wire and I missed our flight out of Vegas and had to fly standby where they did not have two seats near each other so she was a few rows behind us and heard us laughing and talking. After I came I introduced my wife to the girl who got me into the Mile High Club. I checked with the club on there internet and oral sex counts.
I had what a life and now it is approaching its end. Kind or sad but I always did it my way as the song goes.