Second reasons is that I can no longer orgasm unless my wife is sexually torturing me some way. I need pain to cum. However I cannot get erect. Viagra works a little so that my cock is still small and pliable but not what I would call an erection. Takes up to an hour to reach orgasm but only if my Wife jerks me off.
Between buying 9 cages, one custom made, and inability to orgasm without my Wife, no cage is needed. She can control my orgasms simply by not playing with my cock. I will admit that I do no miss the smell of urine after I pee because I would have to take it off to clean it every time I pee. I am 70 years old and pee about 4 times an hour.
It was fun. Our girlfriend is no longe with us so I have noting to watch during Wes. Plus she actually felt that males treat women as second class citizens. When she got passed over for a big promotion which was given to someone less qualitife or degreed, she stopped fucking guys and only would whip, bust balls and stuff like that. No penetration in any way. Plus, like my wife she is bi with a preference for girls not guys for sex. As they told me, if they did not love me I would get nothing, not even permission to watch or assist them.
For me, the last nail in the coffin was lost of libido. I rarely get horny anymore so why lock it up. That is it. We have attempted to stop before but this time I threw away about a thousand dollars of chastity devices along with all sorts of sex toys. All good things must come to an end. the first half of my marriage gave me enough fetish sex to last me a lifetime. They did it all to me. Now I am not interested in sex at all. I will kiss and fondle my wife as she uses her vibrator to get off and that is about it. She makes an effort to jerk me off but I tell her not to bother because it always ends the same way with her wrist hurting and forced to stop due to the pain.
I am married 50 years this year. I was engaged twice to bi girls. I had another girlfriend who also is bi (do you see a theme here) who cuckolded me with strangers and my friends, I lost my virginity to a gay friend of mine who just dies last year, Had about 30+ girlfriends that I had sex with including wives and a mother/daughter team. I had sex with a women in a first class room on a train in England just like you see in the movies. Meeting a woman like that has always been a fantasy and it actually happened. I am lucky in that women are attracted to me for some reason. Heck, I had a model ask me to spend the night with her. When she walked down the aisle in the plane we were on, all heads turned to look at her, even the women's. Yet she chose me. She was good in bed but learned a few new things from me. Got a hand handjob on a plane by a Sapiosexual, Technically the puts me in the high mile club since we were high enough and most places that discuss that say that all you have to do is cum.
Even had sex with 5 women at once like you see in movies. Did a few orgies and lots more. So I had more than most men have. We guess I had about 3,000 threesomes since it was our regular sex in or. poly triad for 30 years and with my ex fiancé who was with me for 4 years. Even had an 18 year old girlfriend when I was just 15. I am fine with how things turned out. When I was young I would be asked like any kid what I wanted to be when I grew up. I said a Playboy which made every one laugh. Little did they know. So goodbye to you all. I enjoyed reading your posts but it is time to hang up the cage and move on to regular sex, whatever that is since I never had it.